me and my boyfriend just had this big fight and he walked out on me he says we need some time apart because we fight all the time I love him (or at least I think I love him) he is being a big jerk now and i just can't take anymore I'm fed up with his lies, and his attitude at times he use to be a really nice guy who always went with me everywhere but now he just goes out with his homeboys or sits at home and watch tv he hardly speaks to me anymore its like he just shuts me out and it hurts so bad that I want to cry my heart out and then he lies to me about going to them strip clubs and watching porn even after i showed him one of his movies I found he claims it wasn't his I feel like he doesn't love me as much as he use to because he doesn't spend time with me at all so now he talking about we need time why does he do this to me what must I do to make things right I really can't take this **** anymore it is driving me crazy should i just give up and leave him or just give him time.
2007-01-11 09:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well gurl i can relate to yur situation very well, im going through the same thing, In my situation I have put up with a lot of s***, and ive tried to make the best of things and have hope that things will get better, but lately i feel like I just dont want to deal with him, but then on the other hand I feel like weve been through so much that i dont want to give up on the relationship. But i think the both of us need to do what is best for us gurls. that means it may hurt but in the end we'll be happy. so if you are that fed up with it then I think you should do what is best for you.
2007-01-11 09:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say but I think you need to leave him...he seems to not be the person you liked in the first place. Maybe space is what you both need. If you both still have feelings for each other after a few months of going your own way you can always get back together.
"Absence makes the heart grow stronger" is what my mom would have said to me 5 years ago.
2007-01-11 09:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what's wrong with porn? Most guys watch it, alot of females watch it too.
Second of all, why do you love a guy who you say:
lies to you, spends no time with you, doesn't talk to you, and shuts you out of his life?
I mean what's there that's good in him? Quit living in the past on how he used to be and find a guy that's better suited to you.
2007-01-11 09:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be stressful for you, yet your mom is in basic terms protecting you and does no longer want something to take place to you. Age distinction does no longer rely she would be able to constantly assume a guy is to previous for you considering which you're her daughter. And definite your mom could have met your father the comparable time you met yours and your mom in all danger made some blunders that she in basic terms does no longer want repeated to you. in basic terms hear to her via fact interior the top if something does take place to you, you will experience undesirable for no longer listening and you will remorseful with regard to the end result.
2016-12-12 09:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't it suck that all guys seem to "lose" love after a certain amount of time? If you've given him chances before, forget it. Especially if he's lying...even about the little things.
2007-01-11 09:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by tangerbean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He lies to you, he wants to hang out with his friends above you, and he watches porn, hmm, let me think, dump him, that will give him all the time he needs...
2007-01-11 09:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like this person is real high quality relationship material. Is this really the best you think you can do?
I doubt it.
Try finding someone who knows what respect is.
2007-01-11 09:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one thing leave hes *** bc he just using you for sex that why
ask him if you want hang out and you do something fun like sex and he say yes then just using you for sex
2007-01-11 10:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋