Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

In a way I was relieved when this happened but now 7 months on I am feeling very depressed. As I am writing now I am crying wishing my mum was here with me. Also I have had a total hysterectomy 7 weeks ago, I am 38 years old and yesterday I went to the doctors to have the checkup after the op and was looking forward to start work again but he told me I was not fit to go back to work yet. He has given me a sick note for another 5 weeks and this has made me even more depressed. Everyone tells me that I deserve to rest as I went through a lot when my mum was ill but I prefer going to work. Has anybody that has had a hysterectomy before been depressed?

2007-01-11 09:57:19 · 19 answers · asked by superstar68 3 in Family

What kind of crap is that? Okay everyone, break up with your significant other today, everyone else is doing it... ;-)

2007-01-11 09:56:56 · 5 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Singles & Dating

IM so shy and get imbarised easy, what should i do

2007-01-11 09:56:26 · 20 answers · asked by Cody V 1 in Singles & Dating

Is he more invested in the relationship? Does he care more than I do, since he puts more effort into coming over?

2007-01-11 09:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by Tangent Lines 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 09:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My lover Bad B has a habit of chaining me to the sink in nothing but my boots(thats between me and him) and disappearing to the pub for hours...he just told me that he has in fact been producing porn movies!!! He said he told me as he wants me to star in his next one...with him...im thinking it might kill our relationship...i dont know if i could work with him as well as being his lover...what do you think...should i or do you think it will damage what we have???

2007-01-11 09:55:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married a month ago and was wondering whithin how many days can you get an annullment? Do both parties have to agree to sign, before an annullment can be done? Do we have to go back where we got married to do it in person? I know it's different in every state I guess. Got married in Hope,Arkansas.

2007-01-11 09:54:49 · 6 answers · asked by Norma V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it looked down upon by society to have sex before marraige? i dont know if thats just a religious thing or like a common sense - no one has sex before marraige - kind of thing? how do you guys feel about it?

2007-01-11 09:54:48 · 25 answers · asked by anne w 1 in Singles & Dating

See, there's a guy. We've gotten close over the past year. When it started getting serious, he opened up to me - he has some personal stuff he really needs to work on & can't be in a relationship. The thing is, I get it. I'm sorta working on me, too. We still talk regularly. I'm his first call when he's happy or upset - like when he called about an hour before midnight on his birthday because he wanted to share that moment w/ me & when he called because his nephew was diagnosed with cancer (they're close). We've had "the discussion" several times. He wants to be friends & said I'm one of his favorite people. The problem-I still have feelings for him. I told him exactly how I feel about him. He keeps breaking my heart, even though he says he doesn't mean to do it. He just doesn't feel the same. I was ready to move on when he called crying recently. He'd just found out a relative died. Part of me wants to say "Why are you calling me? Leave me alone," but I listened. I still care...

2007-01-11 09:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by freckleface 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 11 years old and i really like a guy. We hang out alot and have fun together, and i know he likes me. Im just kind of worried about what my parents will think if i start hanging out with him too much. My mom is kind of suspicious because i talk to him on the phone a lot. Im not talking about serious dating.

2007-01-11 09:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by lena j 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy who has a girlfriend allready what should i do to get him to like me instead of his fat girlfriend???????????

2007-01-11 09:53:50 · 13 answers · asked by KaitCzaj 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends birthday is comin up and i dont know what to get her....................................any solutions................................it has to top a diomond necklace

2007-01-11 09:51:59 · 30 answers · asked by clark w 1 in Singles & Dating

I am at a loss. My parents are way to stubborn and they will not move, its just to a different neighborhood where all my friends are. I really need answers!!

2007-01-11 09:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by asdfrewq 1 in Family

We weren't in the middle of sex; it was in a screaming/yelling fight. Am I wrong it being offened by this? I knew the girl who's name he said.

2007-01-11 09:51:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in a relationship and we both want to go farther but not too far and i think this is what he wants so i want to know how to do it good so i dont screw up and make myself look like a fool....please help me!!!!

2007-01-11 09:50:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats something catch that i can say to my BF that will make him kiss me?

2007-01-11 09:50:29 · 17 answers · asked by vittyvittyt 2 in Singles & Dating

Bob is afraid he might scare her away if he calls.
Should Bob just text her? The girl doesn't like Bob romantically but only as a friend.

2007-01-11 09:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there was this girl that tried to sleep with your boyfriend before you started dating to him and he reffers to this girl as a "goddess" and he still talked to her on a regular basis?

2007-01-11 09:49:54 · 13 answers · asked by me 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 09:49:49 · 8 answers · asked by strongheaded 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a woman knows that a guy is into her, does she always have to play hard to get and spin the guy's head by being very undecisive and neurotic? even though she likes him?? What is in a woman's mind at this kind of situation?

2007-01-11 09:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

She does x sometimes and she said that she is going to stop at twenty, but i dont like when she does it all. How do I get her to stop doing it, should i just let her finish out till she gets to twenty, or what? and her best friend does it too. Please help!

2007-01-11 09:49:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it officially mean, cuz i hear it used too much and too differently, someone explain?

2007-01-11 09:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But I have a lot of doubts because I always want have sex, and she doesn't want

2007-01-11 09:49:09 · 14 answers · asked by edugza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I a very shy and sweet girl. It's hard for me to be with a guy because I feel like I have to have sex with him in order for him to love me. I just can't say no because I was raped before and now all I want to do with a guy is have sex with him and give him what he wants. I want someone to love me.

2007-01-11 09:48:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes there for six months,i go to visit in march,have been told by a good friend also in oz(they have never met)that my bf has placed an add on an oz website looking for guys,girls,couples for no strings attached "fun".dont feel so bad about him being bisexual,dont know how i feel bout him being intimate with anyone else.I love him very much and he tells me every day how much he loves me.should i put this down to last fling,holiday fun etc.he has no idea that i know about this.

2007-01-11 09:48:53 · 7 answers · asked by roskiro 1 in Singles & Dating

I think saying something like 'Your pretty'. Is a little too cute for me. I want to chram her or girls. How do i do it without acting like a player

2007-01-11 09:47:58 · 34 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 and last night I went on an amazing first date with a 23 year old. We had an amazing time, we started off with dinner at 6, then went out for some drinks, then went to he rplace and talked until 1 am. I definately want to see her again, how soon should I wait to call her? She has a friend coming in from out of town at around 10-ish tonight and will be here until saturday. should I call her tonight before the company arrives or should I wait til sunday after the company leaves?

2007-01-11 09:47:57 · 24 answers · asked by MichiganFan 1 in Singles & Dating

When I ask him he says he does, but how can I ever really know for sure?

2007-01-11 09:47:28 · 15 answers · asked by haunted_angel85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When school gets out this year my 9 yr old wants to go live with her dad. her dad lives 1 hour away and that would mean I only would see her every other weekend. She is the only child there and is very spoiled. She has three younger sibblings at my home and is the oldest. She can be very moody and mean sometimes but that doesn't mean I want her to go live with her dad. What should I do?

2007-01-11 09:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by jaymeaso 1 in Family

I was thinking about using the following centerpieces at my wedding in Feb and just wanted to get peoples opinions. If you have any other ideas that would be great too

There will be long rectangle tables so Ill be placing two mirrors with different size burgundy candles and sprinkling gold confetti on the mirrors. Then Ill have pictures of my finace and I growing up in small picture frames connecting the two mirrors. It looks good in my head but not sure how it will look once layed out. All opinion would be greatly appriciated.

2007-01-11 09:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 in Weddings