But I have a lot of doubts because I always want have sex, and she doesn't want
2007-01-11 09:49:09 · 14 answers · asked by edugza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you feel that her age has something to do with her not having sex? I don't think age has anything to do with it. Some people just don't have a big sexual appetite. I am 36, my husband is 29....we love having sex together still. We have been together for 6 years. I think if you ever have any doubts about getting married to someone, then follow your instinct AND DO NOT DO IT. Its so difficult to find someone who wants sex when you do....you may never find someone like that, who has the same sex drive as you do. I think also, the older she gets the less she will want sex, keep that in mind too.
2007-01-11 10:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youre not sexually happy now, or not any kind of happy now then i dont think that marriage is going to make it any better. Marriage doesnt solve problems. youre soooo young... way too young to be worrying about marriage!! And if youre not having the sex that you would like to have now... i wouldnt get married. im a woman and let me tell ya. you live once, why be unhappy? especially when it comes to sex. i know i know i sound like a man but really your sex life affects a lot of other aspects of your life... so do you and your g/f a favor and work on your sex life, get happy in every other aspect of your life THEN and only then talk about marriage!! Good luck!!!
2007-01-11 10:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well as u can see to marry thers a few things to talk about and being open togher on feelings is the best one because you both know how you feel .the age is not the thing its shering life love togher of cose you know how she feels now you have to work tough things in your own heart that is does this and marriage feel right for you only you can answer that one, so think long and hard before you do anything, getting married hads to be for love and caring allways and do you want that really please think.
2007-01-11 09:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age has nothing to do with it and if she doesn't want sex as much as you do then why marry, if you are having doubts now you should discuss it with her.
2007-01-11 10:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can want all she wants... You don't have to marry her if you don't want to. Just be honest, and tell her you feel you two are not compatible in the long run. There's nothing wrong with this.
2007-01-11 10:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow we got the same promblem.. my bf is 30 and i am 42 .. only difference is neigher of us want to get married .. but i always want the other thing i dont get as much
2007-01-11 10:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then you need to fine someone else so that you can only just have sex with without getting married and so that your current girlfrind can find a man to marry
2007-01-11 11:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i don't blame your girlfriend, i wouldn't want to have sex with someone that doesn't want to marry me either, you're just using her for sex, you don't really want to be with her coz you won't commit yourself to her.
So you'd only marry her if she had sex whenever you want it?? you're nothing but a chauvinist pig, you don't want a relationship, you just want sex, go buy a hooker then.
2007-01-11 10:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Then think real good about it, and see if you both benefit, or just one person???? But most important, how much do you love her and are "you" ready???????
2007-01-11 09:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she isn't going to want more sex after the wedding.
2007-01-11 09:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by shane892000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋