We weren't in the middle of sex; it was in a screaming/yelling fight. Am I wrong it being offened by this? I knew the girl who's name he said.
2007-01-11 09:51:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd be pissed of!!! how's your man gonna forget your name? i'd be offended. i would slap him and then question him on that. you have the right to be angry.
2007-01-11 10:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it was an honest mistake. At least you weren't in the middle of sex because that would be a bummer! Maybe he was just so use to fighting with this other girl that her named slipped out. Don't be too hard on him.
2007-01-11 17:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only time my ex-husband ever called me by another woman's name was during a fight. Maybe your boyfriend still has anger at this other girl, and it came out unconsciously when you and he were fighting, like a Freudian slip. Better anger than other feelings!
2007-01-11 17:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by laura palmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should. It sounds like he has had a long term relationship with this woman. Men and woman never fight at the first of a relationship. Him saying it in the middle of fighting is worse than during sex. You should watch him. He sounds like he's been cheating on you forever and he has been fighting with the other woman and then you two got in a fight later.
2007-01-11 17:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Chanele G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely be concerned if it was during and intimate moment, but since it was during a fight, I would not be as worried. Yes, I would still be upset about it, but since it would be during a fight, you can only assume that he used to fight with the other woman and that he did not like her very much. I would not dwell on this at all.
2007-01-11 18:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Punk Rock Cowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be offended? Obviously he was used to fighting with her the same way he was fighting with you and that thought entered his head and he called you her name. Get over it.
2007-01-11 17:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were you reminding him of this girl at the time?
I'd still be ticked, but not necessarily surprised if he used to fight with this girl a lot.
2007-01-11 17:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it. It was said during a fight, when his emotions were high. Maybe he used to fight with her alot, just because her name came out doesnt mean he doesnt want to be with you.
2007-01-11 17:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by SassySister 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you two started seeing each other right after he broke up and it's only been at max, 3 months, I'd let it slide, however if you two have been going for 6+ months, I'd get angry.
2007-01-11 18:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't believe you should be angry unless he consciously did something that he knew would hurt your feelings. I'm an adult now, but my own mother calls me by her dog's name when I do something she objects to. Do I think she's confusing me with her dog? Of course not. This is no different.
2007-01-11 17:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Memphis Lawdog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. On the one hand, in a fit of arguing rage your mind is going a million miles and hour and you are not thinking clearly....on the other hand....yeah its wrong!!!
2007-01-11 17:55:26 · answer #11 · answered by KB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋