okay this is about this guy who really likes me but i am not into him in that way. Today he even huged me!! I need to know how to aproch him nicely and tell him i don't like him but i can't find the right words!!
2007-01-11 09:36:42 · 15 answers · asked by 123Tom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell him you aren't interested.
2007-01-11 09:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the perfect formula:
1. Compliment Him (hi. i really think you have gorgeous eyes)
2. Tell Him the truth about how you feel and why.
3. Don't say anything like, "i hope we can still be friends."
4. politely, wait briefly for a response, say "okay" and walk away.
2007-01-11 17:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by beautyzhername 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start your conversation with him in nice words, like " he's a great friend, you never had a friend like him ".. stuff like that then also tell him that you don't wanna ruin this friendship.. he will understand without any more explanation.... he will be upset no matter how you say it.. so be nice to the end and ask him if would like to continue being your friend
Good Luck
2007-01-11 17:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him and tell him u wanna talk and proceed to tell him that you dont see him as more then a friend
2007-01-11 17:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by alvin2g1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think he's great (if you honestly do) and that you like so much that you guys are friends. He should get the hint.
2007-01-11 17:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by a.lady.in.the.street 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be calm. Tell him that the two of you need to talk. Just tell him how you feel.
2007-01-11 17:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you only want to be friends and that you are uncomfortable with him hugging you .
2007-01-11 17:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by userdefined 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
things like that happen to me
i am stright forward with them
i hurt their feelings but u kno feelings heal they'll get over it
2007-01-11 17:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and theres no way you can do it nicly and hes just gonna move on
2007-01-11 17:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by watson101303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's real simple, walk up to him and say, "I don't like you romantically."
2007-01-11 17:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋