Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I still have feelings for my exgirlfriend and i wish i could trust her more. We were on a relationship for 3 years and i did her wrong and then she did me wrong...but after that i changed and expected the same from her, but she just became a totally diferent person. I have lost the trust in her and its been hard ever since... i can't let go of the feeling thats why i still try to be with her, but whenever i get those feeling i get very insecure and unhappy. She always keeps coming back to me and wanting to fix things saying she will change, but at the same time she keeeps messing up.

2007-01-08 08:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by J . B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay i was dating this guy for a month and then i had the feeling he was using me while we were dating and i didnt really want that happening so i kinda went to friends to find out and i broke up with him before they told me and he really likes me, so he told them, but he wont do anything to get me back and doesnt even look at me or talk to me at all and i try to be nice about it and i feel bad but i really want to get back togeather with him but i cant because i feel bad as it is and i cant talk to him at all what do i do to try or to get him back with me or in my life??

2007-01-08 08:30:25 · 9 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Singles & Dating

ok um......... this guy i really like was asked if he liked me more than a friend.. he told them yea i was a really nice person and he liked my personality.. well b4 christmas break i had asked him out. and today during 3rd block he wrote undead ken *HEART'S* zombie barbie.. i asked him who undead ken was and he said it was him then i asked who was zombie barbie? he said it was a gurl from a different skool named ashley. one of his friends asked if they were going out and he said not yet but they have bn tlkin about it. does this mean that i was played? what can i do to help myself through this? i really liked him

2007-01-08 08:29:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has been given me the silent treatment for the last 3 weeks. I have tried everything to get her to talk me. I have tried writting love poems. I keep apologizing to her even though I don't know what I did. Today she surprised me by deleting me off her friends list on myspace, but she says she still in a relationship and she kept everything that I wrote her. So to all the ladies out there, maybe you as women you can give me advice on how to handle the situation that a man can't. I wonder if she is trying to break-up with me or does she need space.

2007-01-08 08:29:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anthony T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 08:29:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and im not popular but not a "freak" either. i grew up with all these guys n even tho i like a few of em, i cant get them 2 4get that i used to b the total nerd w/ big glasses n everything. im def not like that anymore, but i think thats what they all still think of me as.

2007-01-08 08:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by resqchic 1 in Singles & Dating

I have many guys in my school that would love to have sex with me and anytime anyone touches me I love it but I don't want to make myself look like a smut so I tell them to stop. I feel starved for affection. What should I do??

2007-01-08 08:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-08 08:27:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im a middle kind of guy im not a loser and im not a jock so im in the middle sort of neutral but i dont have too many friends that are girls... is it obligatory for the guy to come up with all the conversation starters? because i can't really start up a conversation and i can give in an occasional laugh now and then in a conversation... now the second question... do you think or do u know if there is a girl that is compatible with me? thanks...

2007-01-08 08:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents have been fighting, and I've talked to my sister, i'm just not sure if they are or not. My sis told me that its fine, and I try and believe her, but I just can't bring myself to. Please help?! Thank you so much for ppl hu have answrd by the way....i just really need help here!

2007-01-08 08:26:56 · 25 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

as u know im 13 years old but im going though some stuff.
my mom has known her friend for 7 years as the 7 years went by i started to like my moms friend sister who is 15.
i think she is giving me clues like hugging me everyhour.
saying i love u when i do something nice.and allways invites me into her room.

i dont know what to do should i ask her out or no.
wat if she says no, then it would be weird seeing eachother
wat if we go out and she breaks it off, it would ruin the friendship.
but u never know.

the hard thing is i liked her for 7 years

wat should i do???

2007-01-08 08:26:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are currently located in Texas, but are looking to get married in Colorado. Our guest list is about 76 right now and probably won't be more than 80 people. We're looking for a place that will have a great view of snowy mountains hopefully, but isn't so huge that it's going to feel empty during the ceremony and reception. Maybe a lodge perhaps? Any suggestions?

p.s. we're also hoping to have the ceremony outside and the reception inside.

2007-01-08 08:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by .:*giggles*:. 3 in Weddings

Is there any way you can get pen pals?

2007-01-08 08:26:22 · 1 answers · asked by bestgurl 2 in Friends

i love one of my classmates and i want to marry with her in future can i say her my feeling or say her some years later.

2007-01-08 08:25:36 · 5 answers · asked by simon h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for example,
1. watch the sunset or the sunrise
2. cook a meal
3. go out on a fancy date
i want to make a list for me and my boyfriend, so that we can slowly check off everything. :)

2007-01-08 08:25:06 · 27 answers · asked by molly connolly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 10 years, so I am out of the loop, but a good friend of mine was seeing this guy for a few months and he was really into her, he was telling her he loved her and all that. They were together once, then, about 3 weeks ago, his grandfather died. He told her he needed time to work through things and hasn't contacted her since then. His last contact went something like,"no change in my feeling, but I need some time and space to get through this." I think it sounds like a line? Can a get a guys point of view? Thanks.

2007-01-08 08:24:58 · 18 answers · asked by maryc 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, guy’s I just got my new E-mail. And I just wanted to see if I’m going to get peoples messeges. So if you guys can please E-mail me at roxy.foxy.41@hotmail.com. thanks.

2007-01-08 08:24:53 · 5 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

From my collection of lay glory, I have come to conclusion that office looking chicks who are sophisticated looking in public, they are freaky in bedroom. Once they are out in public they don't even hold hands together but in bedroom they become these lusty sluts. Why office chicks? Why? Why don't u get ur frick on in public? Do not start with moral coz chicks and morals do not compute.

2007-01-08 08:24:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to be a submissive partner to a strong dominating man? To want her to be happy in traditional roles, of lover,mother and ,sexually submissive ? While respecting her identity and need for her own career and life of course. This is a serious question for adults.

2007-01-08 08:23:31 · 15 answers · asked by onelonevoice 5 in Singles & Dating

i love one of my classmates and i want to marry with her in future can i say her my feeling or say her some years later.

2007-01-08 08:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by simon h 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this boy in my science class and he sits next to mee, he has a nickname for me and he only calls me by it. He sits next to me, plays with my hair, touches me, and talks to me all the time. He told me for his 18th birthday he wants me to pop out of a cake for him. He's so funny. I never met anyone funnier, I am beginning to really like him. However, He has a girlfriend, he hustles all day for money, he has no job or car and I'm afraid he might just like me because of my body and is just looking for a piece of a+ss. He doesn't really seem like b/f material; just someone I would like to f*ck and then bounce. haha =-P and I'm a virgin so don't hate aiiight? my question is what should I do???

2007-01-08 08:23:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I believe a woman should cook well in the kitchen and in the "bedroom". I know I do - and my man is very satisfied - do you agree?

2007-01-08 08:22:31 · 23 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

So much that when your not with then you dont want to do anything and you cant wait till yu can see them again?

2007-01-08 08:22:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-08 08:21:54 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know he like me he waz giving me these dirty looks 4 know reason i never talked 2 him.I some how think he jealous of me.

2007-01-08 08:21:49 · 14 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 08:21:01 · 7 answers · asked by Thumper 2 in Friends

Okay, here's the thing: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, in early August it will be 2 years. This is my first long-term relationship, even though I'm 23, and his as well (he's 24, not that it matters). I moved in with him about several months ago, but before that I was seeing him almost everyday. Early on in the relationship--like the first 8 months---he seemed very much in love with me and eagar to please me--we'd go out tgether a lot, he'd buy me dinner a lot, buy me flowers once in awhile---but now and since the last few months that I've been living with him, he seems like he doesn't love me anymore. I know he's the blunt type, but he's also a nice guy, and maybe he's afraid to hurt me by telling me that he's not into me anymore, or maybe he's not sure of his own feelings. The thing is he never wants to go anywhere with me anymore, he just wants t go on the computer all the time and work on his website. Should I just take the hint and leave? Am I wasting time

2007-01-08 08:19:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First there is no excuse for any man being physically or verbally abusive and that is not what I am talking about. Not about cheating either (that is wrong) or about the man being the boss (marriage/life is a partnership). What I am talking about is watching sports, drinking beer, using the F word when I want to be intimate. Not putting the lid down on the toilet seat. Walking around the house in my underwear, putting a 25 hp motor on a go-cart meant for a 5hp motor so it will go really fast. Letting the kids eat candy and stay up late when I watch them on my wife’s night out with the girls. Looking at porn on the computer, going to sleep after we do the F thing. Believing that it is ok for my boys to pee outside if no one sees them. Eating food out of the can while watching Saturday football. Shooting off fireworks even though there is apparently some law against it in city limits. I take much pride in being a Man with a capital M. I was like this when we were dating. I provide for her and kids. She is a stay at home mom with a house and car of her own. Why do men get a bad wrap for being men?

2007-01-08 08:19:52 · 17 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

about 3 weeks ago i called my best friend a traitor but i was only kidding cuz we always joke about stuff like that. now he's pissed at me and won't talk to me. i tried talking to him once but he ignored me so i sent him an email trying to explain everything. we haven't had any contact since then but i miss him and really want to work it out. what should i do

2007-01-08 08:19:38 · 27 answers · asked by Ashley M 2 in Friends

I've been told by a few people to attempt a Trial Separation from my wife...things have been rough for a few years and all the counselling and other things we have tried always bring us back to the same spot....We really don't know why we're together (when we're doing good we know why, but we fight more often then we get along!)
Anyways, what is a Trial Separation? Does living in the loft count (it's currently a guest house, and has everything but a shower and laundry facilities) The only contact we would still have is if we're in the Laundry room together, when I go to the house to shower, or when the kids would travel from the house to the loft (above the garage).
Or do I need to be away from the house completely?
How do we arrange for me to visit the kids?
We work together too, so I guess just leave conversations to 'business only'?
And how long should we try this separation for, to see if we really want to be together?

2007-01-08 08:19:37 · 14 answers · asked by AUTO S 1 in Marriage & Divorce