ok im a middle kind of guy im not a loser and im not a jock so im in the middle sort of neutral but i dont have too many friends that are girls... is it obligatory for the guy to come up with all the conversation starters? because i can't really start up a conversation and i can give in an occasional laugh now and then in a conversation... now the second question... do you think or do u know if there is a girl that is compatible with me? thanks...
2007-01-08 08:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you're the introvert kind. its not necessary for u to always begin a conversation..but yeah..u gotto losen up a bit..n voice ur opinion.If u dont have any opinions..u must read. If u do..dont hesitate to share them. There's no one out there who never makes a mistake..but u cant just stop talkin for the fear of that.Let go..when ur comfortable urself..ppl will start feelin comfortable around you. Good luck
P.S. theres someone compatible with u definitely...jus wait til u find her
2007-01-08 08:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is someone compatible for everyone. But I agree with the first response, you gotta put more into it than just a giggle every now and then. Imagine you are holding the conversation and all the girl does is giggle every blue moon and not participate much or respond much. If that were me, I'd get bored very quickly. You by no means have to always start the conversation, but participating and equally sharing the conversation are very important.
2007-01-08 16:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by GiMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't come up with all the conversation starters, but when you go out on a date, she might be nervous, so just start little conversations, until she gets comfortable to talk more. Your second question, well I don't know, I don't know your type.
2007-01-08 16:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot of girls are compatible with you Hon. And, nope you don't need to come up with all the conversation. One or two words will give any girl worth her salt something to talk about. Then you can't shut us up. We'll take it from there, believe me. Just make sure your are cute and you're "in" buddy. Hee Hee
2007-01-08 16:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- it should not be solely on the guy to start conversation. HOWEVER- please do more than just laugh now and then. Make comments or observations so she know you are actually listening and that you have opinions and a brain! Good luck!
2007-01-08 16:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by mom2rptl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! it just depends on everything. Like what your hobbies are and everything else. I have no clue about the first question! Sorry for that!
2007-01-08 16:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by BSUgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...im kinda in the same boat...............xcept im a girl! lmao but i just asked a similar question going out 2 guys. im feelin 4 u
2007-01-08 16:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by resqchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think there is so just wait and you will find one, everyone always finds one
2007-01-08 16:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya there lots...
2007-01-08 16:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋