Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

Yet, I work 9 hours a day, an office job, I say 9 because the hour I get fro lunch I spend doing things that have to be done for our home to fuction. Anyway, before and after work, I tend to our 9 year old and 9 month old, cook, clean and have to do everything at home, while he does nothing, yet he does work hard when he's working he is a contrator and is away from home most of the time, but when he is home he does nothing. I have tried to do nothing while he is home so that he will realize exactly how much I do, but when I say that I can't ever seem to do it, cause if I didn't the house would really go to pot and the kids and myself would starve and the animals we have would go hungray as well. My question is how can I get him to do his share when he is home also, cause all he does when he is home is watch TV and drink beer?

2007-01-07 06:52:46 · 24 answers · asked by sweetpeasmum 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or does a female need long legs to be considered "beautiful"? I know guys think small girls are "cute" but I want to know if we can actaully be considered beautiful and not just cute in a puppy-dog child like manner? I never know how to react when guys tell me "you're so tinny!" (I'm 5'1) How should I react to those types of remarks...are they compliments?

2007-01-07 06:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by Yul'ka 3 in Singles & Dating

he acts like he's cheating and i accuse him of cheating but he swears that he is not cheating. our relationship is over and he says it's because i accused him of cheating but he wasn't. He hangs out with his ex wife alot - mostly when things are bad between us and they have no children together...she is his 2nd ex....but then she is right there diving in and he's not pushing her away when we are broken up and then he comes back to me and tells me that he doesn't love her and he doesn't want to be with her, he wants me.....what should i do?

2007-01-07 06:50:56 · 34 answers · asked by regis 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 06:49:50 · 2 answers · asked by Celtic Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can u tell if a guy just wants a fling-maybe just kissing or an actual relationship??

2007-01-07 06:48:45 · 38 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

We're co-workers and both of us are married.

2007-01-07 06:48:43 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, among many problems in my household right now; my parents are fully against this guy I'm in a relationship in. I mean - completely - against it. Because he's older than me and has kids. If it doesn't bother me - and believe me, I've really thought hard about this - it shouldn't bother them. Now including my personal life in my household, I find it absolutely impossible to stand it here anymore. I don't think they realize how serious he and I are, or how close I am to really moving out. I'll be 18 when I move out, and I am in high school. I'll still continue high school, he wants me to go to college even though I'd rather not :( so my main question is what everyone's input is and can my parents do anything to either of us if I move out? Thanks for reading this for me, I appreciate it.

2007-01-07 06:48:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was discussing this with some friends and I have male friends who say that they would date an intelligent woman even if she were unattactive. I have a very hard time believing this myself. What do you think?

2007-01-07 06:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by darshunk 2 in Singles & Dating

How many, if any, have you taken out against guys in your life?

2007-01-07 06:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

death, had to research local newspaper where he lived, in his obit said he was survived only by a son, he had no son, he was never married and gay, we are sure of this, sons name is the name of his ex male lover, who has been out of the picture for a while..my husband is one of the nephews, they were not close, but he was close to my husbands brother and I just find iit very odd that he would never mention a thing to him...plus he was told the ex was going to take care of him at home while he passed, yet in the obit it said he died at a hopice place...I mean the ex knew he had family...I asked earlier and it was suggested we get in touch with the hospice place...but again, any more advice apprecieated...can you adopt like a 50 yr. old?...

2007-01-07 06:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for half the profits?

2007-01-07 06:47:37 · 26 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Weddings

im in the 9th grade and havent lost my virginity yet and these to black guys have been tying to get me to give the head and have sx with them i akmost had sex with oone of them but i got scared. i wanna loose my virginity to someone i love and someone that i kno loves me back but i havent found that person yet..and all my friends have had sex before and im so curious and i want to loose my virginity so should i have sex with one of those guys ot wait????

2007-01-07 06:47:34 · 12 answers · asked by brandi1092 1 in Friends

2007-01-07 06:47:30 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 06:46:49 · 3 answers · asked by roseannemaggs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my family,my aunt and uncle don't talk to my mum and dad.they made up with me but not my parents last september.since then they have tried to brainwash me and tell me lies about my parents.they are also smothering and presssurising me which i don't need as i have been seriously ill of late.
i want to forget them and get on with the people who have brought me up for 21 years but i think bad things will happen to me as i am hurting them.but they say 'they are my parens too' and are spreading lies upon lies about my own mother.
what do i do?

2007-01-07 06:46:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-07 06:46:22 · 19 answers · asked by JC 4 in Singles & Dating

She gave me a huge compliment. I don't know if it was just a flirt or if she likes me. So i gave her a compliment back, saying that i think that she's a gorgeous looking woman. she said that i made her day. Now, I have no idea what to do next. I do not want to be pushy and It is not really appropriate to ask her out since we work together. but the fact is that I think about her a lot and I want her. any smart idea how to let her know that i really like her, or how to capture her heart??? Thank you!

2007-01-07 06:46:01 · 9 answers · asked by luckystrike_x007 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine made a short documentary using this title, and it was really interesting. So I thought I'd ask the more mature people on here what you would do if you were 22 years old again? Would you change anything, wish you had done something etc?

2007-01-07 06:45:03 · 24 answers · asked by My Underground 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i have a friend that likes me with have been talking and flirting butttttttttt.... he has a girlfiend, he tells me that he does not want to be with her but they have gone thouth alot of stuff. he told me that when he fixes everything in his life i will be the first one to be in his life. ok on friday he kiss me but i started, because i told him that i wanted a kiss he said no at first they when i was going to my car he kissed me what should i do. leave it or do go for it so he can leave his girlfriend i dont want to do anything that i would not want some body to do to my help

2007-01-07 06:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by pooh_lrh 2 in Singles & Dating

what perfume drives you wild?

2007-01-07 06:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by bambi 1 in Singles & Dating

All the women responded that they (women) don't like jerks, all men responded that they do, more or less, at least sometimes.

This is perhaps the best use of Yahoo answers to figure this out. We have both male and female minds here and all ages too.

So, whats really up with that?

2007-01-07 06:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by kurticus1024 7 in Singles & Dating

And he thinks he is not a liar...and he thinks he is too smart when he lies..and after 7 month hasn’t stop lying and after you asked him to stop he is still doing it

2007-01-07 06:43:29 · 12 answers · asked by unverified 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 06:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by Mariella Williams 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-07 06:43:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am planning on putting together a book about how to plan a cheap wedding i will give the credit for your ideal to you if it gets published i just think that every bride should get the wedding of there dreams no matter what there budget is thanks for the ideal's i will be awarding the best awnser question to whoever has the best answer thanks again

2007-01-07 06:42:38 · 11 answers · asked by pamela b 2 in Weddings

still let me be in the concert, or will I have to miss it?

2007-01-07 06:42:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some ppl say ask
what am i supposed to ask
" wanna freak wit meh ? " what the heck

2007-01-07 06:42:28 · 7 answers · asked by storage b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 06:42:25 · 5 answers · asked by kelsey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Baby is due any day now and my bf of 4 years still hiding baby from his family, not moved in with me or contributed towards anything for the baby, yet he wants to be at the birth? I dont want to be with him ive had enough, im skint got bills coming out of my nose but i need to stay focused. Im going to see a solicitor tomorrow and the C.A.B about my finanices. I am lonely in this strange town so thats why I keep letting him walk all over me. What can I do, thats realistic? This is so not me I have changed so much over the past 4 years even lost friends because they dont like him. I am very angry and bitter at this situation ive allowed myself to be in. I just need to find the key to get me out, then I will be fine and able to enjoy my bundle of joy.

2007-01-07 06:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really love my bf but when him and his friend came over one night my bf and i didnt click, but his best friend and i did and we have been talking everyday but my bf hasnt called me in 3 weeks and his best friend likes me and i like him and i dont know what to tell my bf because i want to stay friends with him and so does his friend and i want everything to work out.

2007-01-07 06:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends