im in the 9th grade and havent lost my virginity yet and these to black guys have been tying to get me to give the head and have sx with them i akmost had sex with oone of them but i got scared. i wanna loose my virginity to someone i love and someone that i kno loves me back but i havent found that person yet..and all my friends have had sex before and im so curious and i want to loose my virginity so should i have sex with one of those guys ot wait????
2007-01-07 06:47:34 · 12 answers · asked by brandi1092 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
only you will know when it's the right time...
2007-01-07 06:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by ogrulesyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the 9th Grade, and it's WAY too soon for that!!!!
It's right for you to want to lose your virginity to someone you love and care about, but doing it when you're in the 9th Grade isn't good, and it will be too soon.
Ask anybody that lost theirs that young.
They regret it, and wish that they would've waited longer than they did.
Whatever you do, don't have sex with these guys.
They're perverted pigs, and trust me, you want no part with them.
Wait until you're an adult, hun.
I know that everyone's probably having sex in your grade, but WAIT.
You don't want to be a mom at 15, do you, cause that could very well be what happens?
Even if people tell you that you need to do it, don't give into peer pressure.
Not going into it will make you look like a strong person mentally, by not letting it affect you.
You're much too young to have sex, and waiting is best.
2007-01-07 17:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose your virginity to someone totally random. You shouldn't give yourself to anyone just because your friends are all doing that. You should be proud that you are waiting for your love. And you should keep away from those guys. There are lots of people who wait until the end of their teen years to lose their virginity.. it is not required that you should lose it at a very young age. I am sixteen and actually most of my friends are virgin. It is a total waste to lose that special moment of your life for the sake of reputation. Do not do something against your will.. and what you might regret looking back years from now.
2007-01-07 14:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM? Your only in the freaking 9th grade!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't be a S-lut or a s k a n k! Don't fricken lose your virginity just cause you WANT TO! Those guys are NOT going to care for you when you're pregnant! All they care for is getting in your pants. You might say you'll use a condom, right? Well what's going to happen when you find someone you DO love? They'll know your not a V i r g i n!!!!!!!!!!! They might not love you for that HUGE mistake you made! DO NOT DO IT!
2007-01-07 14:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by yoooooooooooo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to be curious about. Have sex with the one you love and be sure you love them. I have 2 friends who waited. One is a male that just turned 22 and now he is married to the woman he lost his to. The other is a female. She is really my aunt. She waited and finally in her sophmore year in college the found her husband. Patience is a gift and so far you have it. Keep it. I am proud of you for being a good example for those of your age.
2007-01-07 15:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Have respect for yourself. Losing your virginity is something that you remember for the rest of your life. Dont do it just because your friends are. You'll know when youre ready but you arent right now.
2007-01-07 14:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Misty D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!Yeah I nkow alot of kids our age our having it,but you want your first time to be great you,and you don't want it to get around cause people will start calling you names,you know that they are just using you,and plus something COULD happen,just wait for the right guy and the right time,don't do anything you will regret in a couple years or even atfer that...GOOD LUCK and Welcome to high school!
2007-01-07 14:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by carly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..You need to wait ..Find someone that you love and someone that loves you back...They don't care about you,they just want to have sex with you..Then what,They'll talk about you,you could get pregnant (condoms do break),or worse you can get an STD..You never know........JUST WAIT!!
2007-01-07 14:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait. I f you lose your virginity to the wrong person, you'll regret it. Just be patient and wait for the right guy. When it's right, you'll know.
2007-01-07 14:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by lackeybookworm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand Your Ground! Do you love them? Have you known them for a long time? Are you guys tight? If you answer "yes" to any of these then maybe you can.
2007-01-07 14:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by AlexRiderStolemyHeart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you decide that. When the right time is gonna come.
be independent from your friends1
be yourself.
I think you're totally right if you wanna do it with someone you love and he loves you back.Otherwise, what's the point?
2007-01-07 14:58:23 · answer #11 · answered by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋