ok, i have a friend that likes me with have been talking and flirting butttttttttt.... he has a girlfiend, he tells me that he does not want to be with her but they have gone thouth alot of stuff. he told me that when he fixes everything in his life i will be the first one to be in his life. ok on friday he kiss me but i started, because i told him that i wanted a kiss he said no at first they when i was going to my car he kissed me what should i do. leave it or do go for it so he can leave his girlfriend i dont want to do anything that i would not want some body to do to my help
2007-01-07 06:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by pooh_lrh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes been behind his girls back with you, he`ll do it again with whoever !
2007-01-07 06:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by gilz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them
2007-01-07 14:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said you don't want to do something that you wouldn't want done to you, so there is your answer...leave this guy alone. I wouldn't believe all the stuff he's saying either. If he didn't want to be with his g/f then he wouldn't be. He's looking for some action on the side...don't play into it.
2007-01-07 15:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You know he has a girlfriend, why did you even kiss him. Unless you just want him for one thing, leave him alone.
2007-01-07 14:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he leaves his gf b 4 he starts going out with u
2007-01-07 14:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay... Away... because if he's gonna tell you all this stuff while he has a gf, then he'll do it to you. His girlfriend doesn't know that he's saying these things to you. Imagine if you were her.
2007-01-07 14:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Helper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you can't wait any longer so its time to dump his gf or you take it anymore. if he really like you more than his gf then he will be with you
2007-01-07 14:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by crazymofo425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. He'll cheat on you just like he's cheating on her.
2007-01-07 14:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by closetmeateater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes gonna stay with her and see you on the side
2007-01-07 15:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by turkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now or never is what I would tell him..If he can not solve his problems now, he never will. so get it started right now.
2007-01-07 15:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
old line his telling you other words he wants his cake and eat it two sorry.
2007-01-07 14:46:32 · answer #11 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋