2007-01-07 06:47:30 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what kind of person you are and what you want from the relationship. If you are seeking love, respect and committment you more likely to get it from safe girl. If you want unpredictabiliity and passion go with risky girl. Mind you, you can still get passion with safe girl as long as she is not TOO safe - dont go for someone who isnt willing to go outside of her comfort zone once in a while, that is TOO safe.
But I do ask one thing. If you decide to go with the risky girl, dont get mad and seek vengance on all other women when she breaks your heart. I hear that too many times.
2007-01-07 06:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have them both you know...if you mean risky as in the hoe that sleeps around & risks bringing home a dose of the clappers or one that has affairs one after the other & puts your future happiness at risk...then obviously. They’re not a good bet either way. Married or single, not if you respect yourself anyway.
I don't really know what you mean by risky though.
You can settle with a girl that still loves fun. Parties...going out etc, you can still enjoy stuff together...married life doesn't have to be all humdrum & boring....God! No-one wants that do they? I think I’d die without some excitement….
Sex doesn't become boring just because you give up on the single life either...there's so much for you both to do together & always more to learn...I don't care how experienced someone claims to be.
I can't always get out as much as I'd like because of life's responsibilities....so I have parties at home...I still get fun but have all my friends & Hubby’s friends round to mine instead...you don't have to stop dancing & enjoying life just because responsibilities change your world slightly. You can take risks as well as a couple to add excitement, & no! I don’t mean wife swapping parties either…I’m not into that at all….LOL
Life’s what you make of it in the end…
2007-01-07 08:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?! Safe? In what way? Risky? In what way?
Geesh, go with who you like and who makes you feel happy when you're with them.
No such thing as a safe person and a risky person. Do you mean safe sex? You should be doing that with whomever you choose to go out with.
Those who you in your inexperienced mind consider "safe" because they haven't had sex very much or are not "into it" are the ones you are most likely to end up contracting an STD from. It is because people convince themselves that so called "morals" are a shield against all the wrongs in the world and apply this to their bodies.
The person you go with long term is the person who wants to see you happy and wants to bring joy, cheer and good feelings into your life. Not the person you think is safe or risky.
There is no replacement for a good sex life with someone who has the self-respect to protect themselves. Lack of experience with sex is not an excuse to practice unsafe sex. That in itself is risky.
By "safe" do you mean boring? Boring is boring and there is nothing safe about that!
2007-01-07 06:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by KD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age
if you want to settle down and have kids choose the safe girl
if not live a little and chose the risky one!
good luck
2007-01-07 06:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Risky is always more fun
Safe is never more fun...though it is something of a rest when you are about 80.
2007-01-07 06:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a risk. Imagine dying after having lived a safe life!! How dull!!
2007-01-07 07:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would always say this to my son/ daughter in answer to this question for fun go with the risky girl but who would you want to bring up your children with and then you have the answer
2007-01-07 06:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by julie t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
safe girls are nice once over the age of 45, but before that its always better to go for fun! otherwise you may find that boredom and "safe" become so tedious that you could find yourself looking for excitement and risk anyway,then that could lead to a lot more heartache!
2007-01-07 07:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by joanne f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The safe girl will never be what you want! More what your mum wants, which most likely wont make you happy.
2007-01-07 06:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by A_BIT_BLONDE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've dated risky guys and it got me nowhere. then i met a safe guy, and he was worth every moment we spent together.
2007-01-07 06:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋