Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Wife admitted to having an emotional affair with this guy via msn messenger. He lives in another country so they have nevr met. Since 12/15 she has promised me no contact has been happening of any kind. She came home from a nihg tout with the girls. Tipsy. She asked me to come to bed. She hasn't initiated sex in years. She was very vocal and very into it. Something that has also been missing for years. She usually doesn't drink so maybe that had something to do with it. We have had our marital problems for the past 7 years or so. She has been im'ing this guy for the last 5. I finally told her to end it or divorce me and move to Canada to be with him. She ended it with him she says. I also e-mailed him and stated that I don't want him enabling the destruction of my family anymore. Wife was very depressed for 2 weeks .I never actually saw the cell phone just thouhgt i saw a blue light behind the bed. Am I being paranoid here?

2007-01-05 08:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by liquid_dwayneo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if she was hot

2007-01-05 08:21:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean?

2007-01-05 08:20:58 · 26 answers · asked by leo r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:20:50 · 40 answers · asked by Vanessa H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When we go out she seems to notice attractive girls as much as I do. We have a good marriage for many years but this kinda bothers me. She often says things like- She has cute hair- She has nice a figure. things like that.

2007-01-05 08:20:34 · 7 answers · asked by morris 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 08:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by katiekisses 1 in Singles & Dating

I had bee contacting someone, I thought she was a man, after recognising was a female I have been very upset and cant do anything, it is really devastating, what shall I do?

2007-01-05 08:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I married a man this past summer. One week after our marriage he got laid off. We are really struggling with child support. If one of his kids lives with us and the other lives with the mom, should he pay child support to his ex wife? I wouldn't begrudge the kids or the ex wife anything, but it is is just so difficult to make ends meet. Any ideas?

2007-01-05 08:19:14 · 12 answers · asked by Angie Kay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife's friends come round often in the evening with out any invite and they just walk in and say hi its me. I dont mind much realy but i like to walk round my house in my birthday suite and they often catch me. some dont mind and some say go put some cloths on. so we are are putting to the vote to u all and see what i should do. thank you for your help

2007-01-05 08:19:05 · 20 answers · asked by ringer6942 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there were 3 condoms , i found 2 missing. i asked him about it. he said he gave them to a friend. should i believe him. Other than that he's sweet to me, been with him for 3 years. everytime i notice that they are missing, i get worried...and start to lose trust

2007-01-05 08:17:58 · 33 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Singles & Dating

wut can i say to him to get the real answer??and be realistic..we're in middle school

2007-01-05 08:17:51 · 6 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

HOUSE & WHAT EVER I SAY GOES, END OF STORY.... How would you react.

2007-01-05 08:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't understand what went so wrong i mean we were good and talking he liked me and i liked him but today he just seemed to change i don't even no what happened how do ur feelings just switch so quick when someone asked if he liked me in front of me he denyed it but it doesn't make sense he walks me to my locker everyday and he would leave any friends of his in a heartbeat just to walk with me and then right after he denyed it 2 hours later he comes to my locker to talk to me and says hey and i said hey and i was on the phone for a second and he was like oh she is to busy to talk me now and walked away i mean wat did i do!!!!? i just don't get it was he embrassed to say he liked me in front of everyone?

2007-01-05 08:17:28 · 5 answers · asked by brittney 2 in Singles & Dating

About three years ago i was with thought i had found the love of my life, we got engaged, then i got pregnant, after ten months after my baby was born he decided to leave. Two years have past and he has another baby with some other girl and he's no longer with her. We started calling more often and he says he misses me. I'm not really sure what I feel for him. I miss him in a way but I don't want him to leave again. What should I do??? PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-01-05 08:17:26 · 4 answers · asked by danny121903 1 in Marriage & Divorce

exactly like the ?

2007-01-05 08:17:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't tell me to stay out of it, she wants me to be in it. This s1ut, Kelsie, keeps asking my BFF's BF out. She is like begging! She does not get it. She's done this before to my other BFF! She is such a BF stealer. What should we do, say, what ever. Once again, don't tell me to stay out of it plz

2007-01-05 08:16:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the deal. This man and I have hooked up a couple of times. He is 11 years older than me. We see each other everyday and I just dont know if im a booty call or something else. He use to text me all the time and when we are together i dont know how to explain it. Im confused.. Help me out?

2007-01-05 08:16:02 · 14 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:15:35 · 25 answers · asked by rosemary r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 08:15:04 · 6 answers · asked by sierra_sky_arnold 1 in Singles & Dating

about each other?

2007-01-05 08:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The man that I was dating has anger problems. He toke everything out on me.

2007-01-05 08:14:50 · 2 answers · asked by Michelle L Law 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a great relationship with my step son. I just don't know how to break the news to him. I am a little afraid how he will react to the news. Help please.

2007-01-05 08:14:20 · 4 answers · asked by ?Confused? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend's birthday is almost coming up and i would like to get him a sentimental present that he would really appreciate and i am having a lot of trouble fiiguring out what to buy.

2007-01-05 08:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by rwanda 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you change about him and what would you keep?

2007-01-05 08:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 and people (girls and boys) are constantly telling me that im pretty but if i lost 50 pounds i would be totally HOT!!!! Can some guys tell me why slimmer girls are considered better looking.

2007-01-05 08:13:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:12:18 · 11 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Friends

i ask luke out and he said noo ugg im so mad . i liked him . hes like if your loking for some one to be with don't look at me. and im just standing there. i left . went back to class what can i do ?

2007-01-05 08:10:59 · 24 answers · asked by melissa d 1 in Singles & Dating

I got in a very bad fight with my fiance (together for 2 1/2 years) last Sunday. We both overreacted. I was mean and later she said she was scared even though nothing physical came close to happening. The next morning I profusely apologized, but she said one of us had to go for a while, because she needed space. She said the apologies just made her angrier. I packed my bag and have been staying at a friends.
She called me on Wed. about something trivial, and then after talking to her for a bit, she let me know how angry, hurt and upset she felt. She told me she didn't want to see anyone else, but didn't care what i did (she said follow my conscience) and that the dogs missed me. Then I thanked her for communicating with me, but she said not to call her unless I needed something. I sent her an email telling her I appreciated her viewpoints and to talk to me when she is ready. What now? Is she being unfair? Is this just a long breakup? How do I procede? Translate this please

2007-01-05 08:10:55 · 28 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by jr 1 in Singles & Dating