is he cheating?

Question

there were 3 condoms , i found 2 missing. i asked him about it. he said he gave them to a friend. should i believe him. Other than that he's sweet to me, been with him for 3 years. everytime i notice that they are missing, i get worried...and start to lose trust

when i asked him about it, he assumed I was the one cheating.

Answer 1

Makes you wonder why the friend doesn't get his own. Keep a close eye on your fella!

Answer 2

If this is a first time thing then it is possible that he is lending to friends but on the other hand he could be using them. If he is giving condoms to friends tell him not to do it anymore and it seems suspicious to you and then you think that he is using them on others. IF that does not work all you can do is either trust him or go with your woman's intuition because sometimes that is all a girl has. Good Luck

Answer 3

You either trust him or you don't. If you trust him then stop doing what you are doing. Don't count his condoms and don't assume that he's having sex with someone else.

If you don't trust him then get the hell out of the relationship. There can be no relationship without trust.

Besides, your lack of trust in him is merely you projecting your insecurities onto him. You need to take a long hard look at yourself as well.

FP

Answer 4

Every time they are missing? The friend thing is fine for a one-time thing, but if this is ongoing, start looking a little harder at what else may be going on....clues and stuff. I'm not the suspicious type and a man pretty much has to be caught "with his pants down" for me to truly accept that he's cheating, but don't be blind, either.

Answer 5

If he is fully aware that you notice them missing and he was actually cheating on you he would go to greater lengths to hide it from you. He would certainly go to the store and buy condoms there without revealig his infidelity so easily by using the same pack you check. This is of course all dependent on the question.. Does he know you check the "condom count" regularly? If he does, he is not cheating.

Answer 6

So condoms have gone missing before? It can happen ONCE - a friend asking his buddy for some condoms. But more than once? Forget it. And if you are counting the condoms, then you already don't trust him. No trust = crappy relationship.

Answer 7

Well, he coulda gievn them to a friend. Does he go out and not tell you where he is? Does he come home from work late when he used to be home on time every night? If there are other signs I would worry, if not I would assume he gave them to a friend.

Answer 8

Maybe he did give them to a friend, as men we do things like that. When your friend(s) ask you for a tampon do you give it to her? Men don't count tampons! On the other hand you know your man better than I do. Tell him to leave the condoms at home next time but, he can always go buy more. Stop wasting energy on this and tell him to be honest with you.

Answer 9

How many times has this happened? If more than once, I would wonder too. It really depends on how much you trust him. Has there been any other signs? If not then believe what he is telling you. Don't worry before you know for sure.

Answer 10

Ask him to call his "friend" on YOUR phone in your presence and ask the friend yourself--don't give hime the chance to set up a cover story. The "friend" either received the condoms or not. The "friend" will make up a lie or not. The 'friend" could be FEMALE for all you know.

Answer 11

Of course he's cheating. Wake up and smell the Trojans. Find a good man with a soul and provide for him the same, you'll be okay all things pass with time.