Im 16 and people (girls and boys) are constantly telling me that im pretty but if i lost 50 pounds i would be totally HOT!!!! Can some guys tell me why slimmer girls are considered better looking.
2007-01-05 08:13:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest with you, I do not think that slimmer girls are prettier, although it is healthy that you have a good weight but it is incorrect to say that slimmer girl/women are prettier. It is just the preference for the public and the society. Personally, I think when women are too slim, they loose the female body and their body seems more like a man. I am sure there is a reason why female bodies are created to be soft but the bony, skeletal body people claim is hot is not actually hot neither is it cool. Please ask how many slim women are as pretty as queen Latifah. Isn't she pretty, just get normal weight but do not loose the soft part of the female body in the name of being hot. In fact there is nothing hot like the value you carry as a person. Keep being who you are and the real wise people who has genuine value for people and stand out of the crowd will agree you are cool for whoever you are!
2007-01-05 08:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Media has put these images of "the perfect" girl.. and nobody is perfect...
Look, you're beautiful the way you are, don't let someone tell you that you're not unless you lose a ceratin amount of weight..
What I do, is I actually want to be healthy and want to prevent myself from having diseases and I want to look good and feel good about myself, so I exercise and try to eat right... But don't do it just so that you can look thin..
Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you're beautiful and don't stop doing it until you believe it... Build up your self confidence..
The media has such a huge influence on us, try to shut out the media as much as you can, because they don't make you feel better about yourself sometimes...
Actually bigger women can be very attractive.. its not that they're not considered attractive its just that they're probably made a different way and we're all different so.. just be who you are...
But be confident in yourself..
Ask God for help if you need some encouragement.. Ask him for anything... believe...
Hope this helps
Blessings darlin
2007-01-05 08:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have noooo clue. Unfortunately, most guys that I know are really shallow and superficial. And what makes me so mad is that they say all that stuff about wanting a skinny girlfriend and all this crap, and then you read stuff in magazines about teenage guy's views on dating, and they say that they hate it when they go on a date and their girl get's salad and stuff! They say they love a girl who orders cheeseburgers and crap! Ugh, that makes me so aggravated, because they put you down if you weigh more than a paperclip, but they hate dating you if you eat lightly to keep from gaining weight so they'll like you! If a guy doesn't think you're "hott" enough, then he's not the right one for you. I'm sure there's a Mr. Right out there for you. You shouldn't change yourself just because some losers didn't like you before. If you're content with yourself, there is no reason to change your body.
2007-01-05 08:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the generation you are in. When you get older and all of your classmates start gaining weight and becoming heavier, the boys in particular will change their minds. My best friend Robyn and I are the only people from my class that havent gained alot of weight and we both work VERY hard to stay thin. I wouldnt worry too much about it. How life is now, is not how it is when you graduate. So much is different. Good luck.... Dont let them get you down.
2007-01-05 08:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not a guy, but i know that weight is mainly controlled by eating habits and excercise, so when i see someone that is overweight, i think that they eat fast food, fatty foods, and other foods that are not very healthy, they overeat, and that they do not do any form of activity for excercise.
me personally, i would not want to be with someone who is not healthy, because i think that unhealthiness is not attractive, so i dont think its actually the fact that they are bigger, but there may be underlying reasons that someone does not find that person in particular attractive.
so i dont think you should lose weight just so guys will think that you are HOT, but if you lose weight you should do it for your health, regardless of your age, being overweight is NOT healthy!
good luck!!
2007-01-05 08:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, every guy has his taste in women, some like short some like long, some thin .... full .... fat ...... you get the idea
In real life, some like bigger girls, but they aren't as much as the ones who like small .... you will find someone who thinks you're very attractive, but you can also boost your chances by losing some weight
2007-01-05 08:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by Always keep the hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, lose the 50 pounds and be the hottest chick in town.
2007-01-05 08:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont find people who are heavier then me in particular to be attractive. weather theyre skinny but alot taller or fat but shorter.
2007-01-05 08:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at the tv what do u see... skinny girls
there are beautiful people in every shape size and color
2007-01-05 08:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because men's brain especially teenagers brains are in pant.
No really its' really about what their peers think about you not so much them
2007-01-05 08:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by BLB G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋