Please don't tell me to stay out of it, she wants me to be in it. This s1ut, Kelsie, keeps asking my BFF's BF out. She is like begging! She does not get it. She's done this before to my other BFF! She is such a BF stealer. What should we do, say, what ever. Once again, don't tell me to stay out of it plz
2007-01-05 08:16:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its up to you bestfriend's boyfriend to tell her to bugger off. Did it ever occur to you that maybe he is leading her on? AH ha! Maybe he is texting her or something if sh has asked him out several times....I'd find out if I were you.
2007-01-05 08:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had this problem before. I know this sounds harsh but it worked.
Let everyone (all your friends in on this before you do it). Talk to your BFF and her bf and tell him to say yes to the girl, then make a date with her. Make it a meeting at a restaurant at a certain time during the day. Then call her right before the guy says he wil be leaving, and then don't go. Let her show up looking like a jackass and tell the receptionist at the restaurant to give this written message to the bf stealer "I am sorry I couldn't make it, I have better things to do than to show up to a date with someone who IS NOT my girlfriend." She will stop, because she will feel embarresed that people saw what the message was.
If that doesn't stop her, then get a girl friend of yours to set her up in a blind date. Have the guy be like your BBF bf's dad or something, then he can tell the girl to quit tryign to ruin their relationship.
I've done both, and both times the girls got pissed off AND embarressed, plus after 3 years, they won't even look at me or the guys she was after.
2007-01-05 08:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by ♫♥♫Teagan♦Smiley♫♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so apparently this girl... Kelsie... is soooooo jealous of your best friend. And if this is happened once already that means it might have something to do with you... maybe she is jealous that you have better friends or maybe she just dislikes you for some reason. Basically i would ask her why she is even doing this... maybe she is really just hurting inside and she just acts like that cuz she doesn't wanna show it. Also, try introducing her to different guys.. if that doesn't work than have yourself, your best friend, and her boyfriend all talk to her about it... that's what i did when this happened to me.
2007-01-05 08:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by CityzLightz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any thank you to maintain her as a pal... I mean she knows your married and nevertheless pursues you... that may not a pal it incredibly is a homewrecker! She needs what she would be ready to not have and at some point, once you have had a bad day with the Mrs., she'll be there telling you she is the "i would not try this female"... then you definately will start to lean because of the fact as she reported, "she would not try this you you" and has grow to be risky... it incredibly is whilst it finally ends up in an affair... It is going on and on... i might only desire, for sake of your spouse and admire on your marriage, which you will possibly destroy all ties... you do not elect poison on your existence!
2016-10-30 02:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is the one who needs to take action. She must get a thrill out of luring away a guy who already has a girlfriend. What could you say to her that would make any difference to her anyway? She would just say if a girl can't hold on to her guy, that's not her fault AND SHE WOULD BE RIGHT. I hate to say it, but if a guy is REALLY happy, no sl*t is going to interest him. If your friend's boyfriend is not telling this chick to leave him alone (and meaning it), the situation will not go away. If he IS telling her to go away, she may keep trying for a while, but she will find another target soon enough.
2007-01-05 08:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it.
just kidding. Have you confronted this girl? maybe you should talk to her about her actions, but dont explode because if youre mean to her she will just get worse. Just tell her how her actions come off to others, etc. Theres really nothing more you can do that doesnt cross the line... as long as your friends boyfriend is a good loyal guy he should be able to ignore it and wont be 'stolen' by anyone else.
2007-01-05 08:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have his gf stand by him like a wach dog and whenever this
"kelsie" comes near have your bff give her bf a big ol kiss.. and eventually it will sink in to the sluts skull.... EVENTUALLY
2007-01-05 08:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of iT?? And its your best friend?? No way girl!! I would definantly be pissed! See who else she likes, see who is her bestfriend, try to sabotage her ! Are you single? I would go after anyone that girl would not want you too! Good luck
2007-01-05 08:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥RN♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow well tell hger to stay out their relationship cuz he will never like her!!
and if she insist just beat her up me and my friend did that cuz there was this gurl tryin 2 get my BFF's x BF and so we beat her up and she never bothered us but, if u don't wanna do that well i donno
wat 2 do
Hope I helped!
~♥~eileen aka pepsi~♥~
2007-01-05 08:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by sad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of your business as for your best friends bf if he doesnt cheat then nothin wrong with the girl asking him out as longas he doesnt pursue it
2007-01-05 08:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋