2007-01-05 08:20:50 · 40 answers · asked by Vanessa H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like it has happened more than once. You dont have to put up with that kind of abuse. But you must learn to forgive. You can stay/go, but forgive for yourself. If you dont forgive then that will have control over you for the rest of your life. Dont be bound by someone elses sin. Get free and stay free.
2007-01-05 10:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly4mission 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allow? if you're allowing it, then is it really cheating? If you meant how many times you CATCH the spouse cheating on you before you leave, that depends on you. Only you can make that decision. Just keep in mind, there's a reason for the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater". You just might not always catch 'em.
2007-01-07 14:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by veggiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't allow my spouse to cheat period. Once whether it isphysical, or just sexual emails to other women is enough. His azz would be gone. If he is doing it via Internet, I would get rid of the computer and see what happens next. With him being my true love and the love of my life it would hurt really bad to give up on him, but if I took him back he would think it was okay and still cheat.
2007-01-05 08:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago, I would have answered this differently. I was married and my wife cheated on me and got pregnant by her lover. I stayed the course until she left me for him.
Now, I would not "allow" my wife to cheat at all, nor would I cheat.
Besides, on does not "allow" spouses to cheat.
2007-01-05 08:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by buddha bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never tolerate even one time. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Sorry sweets.... Its not worth waking up 5 years from now with a man that you know doesnt love you, and you are miserable. Life is way too short to put up with that crap!
2007-01-05 08:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was 6 times, i finally gave up and have found someone now that knows it will only take once... no more chances. He respects that though and appreciates how important trust is. There are real men out there....
2007-01-05 08:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Codi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow to cheat? NEVER!! But if he did anyway, all it takes is one time for me to walk out.
2007-01-05 10:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~MIMI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ZERO!!! you want a guy who would NEVER do that to you and you know he wouldn't. Be real...think to yourself, what am I doing with a guy who is off cheating on me? How can I do that to myself? There will be other guys out there who will not cheat on you, ones who love and respect you. Don't be scared to explore different people. He isn't worth it.
2007-01-05 08:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you and what your heart can take. If your the type that can forgive and forget then whatever, but a women like me may forgive but believe me it will come up in every conversation and argument we have so he will never forget
2007-01-05 08:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bronz Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you Allow him to cheat?Why would you want to be with someone who sleeps with other woman?
I say leave now.
2007-01-05 08:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Rightfield_99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋