Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

i reconnected with my old high school bf tim after my divorce.tim is everything my ex was not.tim treats me with respect,brags about me to everyone to the point its embarrassing.he allways tells me one liners like "i can't believe its you" "your my soal mate" and allways sends me cards,letters,gifts saying how much he loves me.his family tells me he talks about me all the time.when i ask what do u want to do he always says being with u is all i want so i'll do what ever u want.well one night after i left tim's house half way home i realized i forgot my purse and turned around to get it.when i pulled up i saw his neighbor sue going in his place.then the lights went out and i think u know the rest!i tryed calling his cell no answer.i asked him the next day about my call and he lied and said he went to bed and did not hear it.my bro is a PI and i had him check tim out.tim has been cheating on me with not 1 but 2 other people since we started dating 6 mons ago.when i leave they come over.

2006-12-30 11:36:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you ever feel like your missing something. Even though you may be loved by your current parents, and you appreciate what they've done for you greatly, do you ever feel bad about not knowing who and where you came from? Specifically if your from one race and adopted into another. Like if your a black guy raised by a white family, or vice-versa. Or Korean raised by a white family?

Do you have resentment towards your biological parents who put you up for adoption. Do you feel confused about who you are?

Do you mostly hang out with the race/culture that is your parents culture, but not yours? And if so, do you feel like you don't quite fit in?

Do you ever feel like you don't have much in common genetically with your current parents, and wonder what traits you have that your biological parents have, so you can learn more about yourself?

Or do you feel great, and possibly never questioned this. Or do you have no feelings about your situation at all?

Honest answers please

2006-12-30 11:36:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

wut should i do if my most best friend in the whole world likes my boyfriend??????

2006-12-30 11:35:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my grandmas church gave us money for rent this month, because my son has been sick preventing us from working... what should the thank you card say?

2006-12-30 11:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by tiffany 2 in Family

Is it the looks? The personality? The sex? Or What??

2006-12-30 11:34:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 11:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like i don't like my boyfriend like before n i told him abt that n we decided to give a break for the relation..
now he is waiting for the answer tomorrow n i don't really know what to say ..
i just want to love him again n feel the same as before .. but how ?

2006-12-30 11:34:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 11:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 11:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend tells me i'm fat, i'm ugly, i'm stupid, etc. (not very nice things). When i get offended he tells me he's only joking and that i'm beautiful and smart. I know he loves me but it still hurts and sometimes i wonder if he's only going out with me for the physical stuff. Any advice?

2006-12-30 11:31:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 11:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by surfurguy126 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never been in love before and i dont know if it is even worth the drama... I just want to know how you tell if the person you love is in love with you too.... so Please help a newcomer out....thanx

2006-12-30 11:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by Divine B 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell early on if a man (or woman) is or will become emotionally/mentally/maybe even physically abusive later on in the relationship if you continue to stay together?

2006-12-30 11:29:17 · 17 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 11:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & this guy are e-dating and everytime i send him a picture of me, it seems like a good idea @ the TIME

and THEN I LOOK THE NEXT DAY AND IT'S THE UGLIEST EFFIN PICTURE

WHADDO I DOo??

2006-12-30 11:28:10 · 14 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Singles & Dating

my grandfather is dying and me and him were very close. he suffers of the disease Alzheimers so he doesn't really communicate well. He is on Hospice and everybody knows he's been through a great deal. i love him very much and i don't know how i would be able to tell him goodbye, every night my mother says "it's tonight" meaning he will die tonight, and i leave without a word because i find myself too sad to say anything to him, and i can't figure out what to say. i would like peoples advice on what to say and how to act. if so, please help me.

2006-12-30 11:27:53 · 14 answers · asked by Caitlin E. 1 in Family

My husband wants to try to get custody of his 10 year old son. He thinks/feels he can do a better job raising him than the mother. I politley told him I wanted to be included in this process and decision to have him live with us being that I will be the sole caregiver since he works at night and likes to hang out with his buds at the drop of a hat. I don't mind his son living with us especially if it will be better for him. I just want my husband to have more courtesy to include me in on such a big step. It's not going to be easy. Also, we have a new baby and I take on most of the load already. I just know taking in his son will be also taking in more phone calls and speculation from the mother and workingaround my schedule more etc. Am I wrong for asking to be included on this decision?

2006-12-30 11:27:41 · 26 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A girl told me she likes guys who are passionate. What does she mean?

2006-12-30 11:27:09 · 20 answers · asked by DefenderOfTheMeek22 4 in Singles & Dating

And how do you get the courage to kiss her?

2006-12-30 11:27:02 · 5 answers · asked by kickfliper7894 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 11:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by Aghigh s 1 in Friends

I just don't get it? lol

2006-12-30 11:26:28 · 10 answers · asked by pineappleprincess 2 in Singles & Dating

does anyone knoe a site i can go to to get an online test, like those do you like him/her tests? it's inportant, and anything will do.

2006-12-30 11:26:04 · 8 answers · asked by jenmatchmaker2 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it come naturally? Is it obvious? Or is it the result of painful deliberation?

2006-12-30 11:25:59 · 10 answers · asked by VA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i am only 14 and i have been with this boy for a little over 7 months. Now I know that he really does love me and that I am his first love. I also know that he knows that I want to be with him and would be very hurt if he would ever break up with me. It's just sometimes I think that when I tell him I wanna be with him he doesn't believe me. How can I get him to take me seriously??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-30 11:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by PerfectlyinLove 3 in Singles & Dating

Do guys prefer virgins or experienced women and why ?

2006-12-30 11:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They won't usually get better on their own. YOU have to change things...

"If you always do, what you've always done. You will always get, what you always got"

SO. If things were not up to standard last year, DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT in 2007. OK?

2006-12-30 11:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We want to find a church with alot of traditional christian values but that won't make us feel like outsiders for living together and having a baby out of wedlock... Is it even possible to find one? I heard the United church of christ but I don't know. Oh and we live in massachusetts. We will definatly appreciate any answers but we just don't want to be judged please. Thanks so much.

2006-12-30 11:24:24 · 10 answers · asked by hipmamma25 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont want to hurt her feelings

2006-12-30 11:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-30 11:23:56 · 51 answers · asked by richardgriffindundee 2 in Friends

I've tried good grades and behaivour, but nothing is working, they said to wait till im 16, but I can't wait!!! Please help????? I want to gauge them up to at least a 8 gauge.

2006-12-30 11:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by We're in like sin! 3 in Family