i reconnected with my old high school bf tim after my divorce.tim is everything my ex was not.tim treats me with respect,brags about me to everyone to the point its embarrassing.he allways tells me one liners like "i can't believe its you" "your my soal mate" and allways sends me cards,letters,gifts saying how much he loves me.his family tells me he talks about me all the time.when i ask what do u want to do he always says being with u is all i want so i'll do what ever u want.well one night after i left tim's house half way home i realized i forgot my purse and turned around to get it.when i pulled up i saw his neighbor sue going in his place.then the lights went out and i think u know the rest!i tryed calling his cell no answer.i asked him the next day about my call and he lied and said he went to bed and did not hear it.my bro is a PI and i had him check tim out.tim has been cheating on me with not 1 but 2 other people since we started dating 6 mons ago.when i leave they come over.
2006-12-30 11:36:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men can u tell me why tim would cheat on me if he seems so happy to be with me?
2006-12-30 11:37:33 · update #1
ditch him. he's just a great liar and using you.
2006-12-30 11:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by some_one1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tim is called a player. He is nothing more nothing less. Players will say and do anything to keep you from realizing what they are. Unfortunately many women have come across these arseholes who end up causing a lot of hurt. The upside is he is only cheating with 2 women. Mine was cheating with 9 women and 1 man.
Yeah i was really happy when I found out. He also told me we were soul mates and he wanted no-one but me.
Good luck I hope you don't hurt too much.
2006-12-30 11:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tim obviously knows the right things to tell you- things that will make you stay. He is a real good liar because he is probably feeding the same lines to these other girls. Maybe u the main chic since he has introduced you to his family and all, but he is not satisfied with one woman. He must be one insecure prick, but who knows what he is thinking? Confront him and tell him you aint buying his crap nomo, and tell him that if he doesn't get help you'll leave. It hurts like hell, but you are better off alone. Wait for a real man to come along!
2006-12-30 13:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Divalicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we only see what we want to see, we are happy so we think the other is also happy with us. actions speak much louder than any words, he wants u and the others too unfortunately, so if u want this to be your life, and u don't mind humiliation and heartache, u can choose to stay in the relationship, but betrayal is a matter that is so hard to get past, if at all. just be glad your not married to him, and don't have to get a divorce be glad u can just walk out of it, with little more than a broken heart. sometimes the truth hurts, but we need to know it and see the person as he truly is, no matter how we perceived him, he really isn't who u thought he was.
2006-12-30 11:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you see is not happiness, it's only the face he wants you to believe is true. Run like your pants are on fire...NOW. Get rid of this user before he does more damage to your moral, self esteem, and possibly health by infecting you with an STD or worse.
2006-12-30 11:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a lying pro. He has done this his whole life. You just fell for the lines and gifts. Learn from this and move on quickly.
2006-12-30 11:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness you found out! The ONLY way to react to this is being thankful that you didn't get in deeper with a complete jerk!
2006-12-30 11:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you.
2006-12-30 11:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mam, you need to rid yourself of this two-timing liar. He is NOT what you need! Good LUck!
2006-12-30 11:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is going with u because he want to have sex with you cause when i broke up with my xboyfriend he had told my friend that he didn't like me he wanted to **** me and wanted other girls to like him just because he had like a girlfriend so after i broke up with him he told me he didn't really like me and that he already had like five girlfriend already so i think you should dump is cheating *** self o.k girl
2006-12-30 11:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by kikinute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thrill of the catch.
you better change the channel of your dreams.
2006-12-30 11:40:13 · answer #11 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋