i dont want to hurt her feelings
2006-12-30 11:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, that will be tough. Do you have to tell her? I mean can you just start making yourself unavailable to all of her needs? If she calls ....say you have something planned. That gives you time to have a break and you may not hurt her feelings.
2006-12-30 11:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would tell her that i love spending time with her but I would also like to spend time with some of my other friends. Maybe plan a certian day where you two spend the whole day together and then see eachother once every few days so you can get to see other people. Let me know if it works.
Michelle
2006-12-30 19:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her that!! Just be like I'm sorry I've got plans with the family or something and spend that time by yourself or hang out with one of your other friends. But don't ditch her completly just every once in a while to get a breather.
2006-12-30 19:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just try making other plans that don't particularly include her, even if it's just to spend some time to yourself. If she insists on an answer to why you are distancing yourself, just tell her that you have other things to do sometimes and maybe that being apart to do the things you need to do makes your time together better quality.
2006-12-30 19:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is touchy but many, many couples have this problem. Without hurting her feelings I would just tell her you need to concentrate on organizing your life, you might take up a hobby like Racket Ball or something similiar, that would be good for you, or how about your hobby.
2006-12-30 19:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you are spending too much time together? The best approach is to be honest with her and still let her know you value your friendship.
2006-12-30 19:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look tell her that u nit some space but like this girl hangs out with u she is showin that she has some feeling 4 u so ask her before u hurt her feeling.ok!
2006-12-30 19:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say it to her
when she asks you if u wanna go out say ur busy jus make an excuse
if u tell her directly u will hurt her feelings
2006-12-30 19:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend that you need some space right now cause yall are under each other to much
2006-12-30 19:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by CHERRY.A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋