Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

Ok, so this guy and I were dating, things got a tad weird (well he came to see me one weekend (we live in diff cities) and we had a great weekend....if you know what i mean..AFTER this a girl we both know, told him i was telling people we were together as a couple...he backed off and freaked out. WHICH i never said. since than things are def NOT like they were before.) It sucks bc we have known each other since we were little and have a lot of mutual hometown friends. SINCE then we have hung out and talked via email or text, BUT no phone calls from him. is it something i should just let go? I just can't mainly bc of the connection i feel with him though...to catch up to this day- i called him while home for xmas. He was sick and didn't go out, yet did text me saying merry christmas beautiful...is he just trying to keep me in his mind?? I know i sound quite silly, but i just can't shake how i feel about this guy, have not felt like this about anyone since my ex.HELP!

2006-12-29 01:33:50 · 4 answers · asked by PeruvianLi 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering how long i have to wait to break up with my girlfriend after christmas... we have been dating 5 months but she is really attached annd i just dont want her to think that i was doubting the relatinoship before christmas, i dont wanna be a total jerk.

2006-12-29 01:33:33 · 14 answers · asked by ChargerS 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't think it is fair because she has a problem with my son who she is no longer dating that she take it out on me. My son is providing child support she is angry about the amount set by the judge she wanted more. She has moved and I don't have an address nor home phone number for her. And when she wants to vacation and be child free she will call and say he can come over. Would anyone know if grandparents can file for visitation rights of the grandchildren in North Carolina and if so what is the process. I have over $500.00 worth of christmas gifts that I was going to take to my grandson today and was told that I would not see my grandson just drop the gifts off with the other grandmother. I declined that offer and said that if I could not see my grandson then sadly he would not get his gifts. I don't think that I am being unreasonable just tired of taking whatever has beendished out to me about my grandson. Please help a Native New Yorker grandmother know her rights folks.

2006-12-29 01:32:59 · 12 answers · asked by J. M 1 in Family

2006-12-29 01:32:55 · 16 answers · asked by Mario 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 01:31:43 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

currently, im in a relationship with someone and i care for them dearly. but they seem to have a co-dependant personality.meaning, they want to be around me 24/7 !
i have been divorced for a while, and i was hurt very badly in my relationship. this is the first relationship ive been in since my divorce. they seem to want to be around me all the time, dont want me to go out with my friends, dont trust me around other people, checks my cell phone when i leave the room, etc.
ive expressed to them 100 times that i am very independant and a bit selfish at times, but i have recently gotten my self esteem back and im just loving and enjoying life! i cant have someone on my team that is sooo insecure they cant trust me or wont let me be the person that i am...im not cheating or doing anything wrong, but they are really beginning to get on my nerves!!!

WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!!
seriously!!

2006-12-29 01:31:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you really think there are soul mates and if so when is god going to put that person in my life?

2006-12-29 01:31:03 · 12 answers · asked by renew69 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 01:30:11 · 6 answers · asked by m3hr4n_h 1 in Singles & Dating

Is he straight is he gay?

2006-12-29 01:29:48 · 28 answers · asked by renew69 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 01:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

Im 29 but can pass for 22 is it ok to lie about my age to hook up with younger chicks?

2006-12-29 01:28:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anthony G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a lot going on in my family and personal life. I am 23 years old and my parents are forcing me to choose between my family and my boyfriend. There is so much more to the story which is why it's hard to make a decision. I want to write them a letter so I can get it out my system without interruption but I just wasn't sure if that was rude or not

2006-12-29 01:25:49 · 30 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Family

I am what you would call a really hairy man. My friends call me sasquatch and chewbacca and it bothers me, but thats how I was born. I shaved once before but it comes back thicker than ever. I go to the beach and get laughed at so now I wont take off my shirt at pool parties or the beach. Help!

2006-12-29 01:25:38 · 30 answers · asked by johnnynumbers 1 in Singles & Dating

I had asked "Which color are you wearing right now " ?? What's wrong with that ??

2006-12-29 01:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by Sunlight 3 in Friends

ok my bf has his x gf in his phone and well they still talk and he says he is over her but he talks about her like hes not and i just dont know what to do

2006-12-29 01:24:37 · 18 answers · asked by monkeygirl777 2 in Singles & Dating

i am veena 18.i want to know if my wouldbe's love true or not .he is 28 and hav avrage looks.i went to his place in 2004 to attend his house warming function,then he proposed me i was very young to sortout things correctly so i said ok,he had a little squint eyes and was very lean,now he went an surgery to correct his eyes even goes to gym since then and has developed a little.recently we had a quarell which makes me dout his love for me.a few days before he sent me a ghagra set which was very very grand looking may be expensive as he says,and asked me to were it, i refuesed a lot but he was not a man to let it down he pressed me a lot to do so,so i did but he says i dont care for his emmotions as he had taken a lot of efforts to find it and says i wore it only his friend told me to do so,then he sent a jhumka and asked how was it,i said it was fine but he kept on and on i was with my boyfriend so i told him to call later,4 that he said he knows im not loving him and knows whome i love

2006-12-29 01:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding is 6/21/07. The caterer has been hired, but we haven't met to discuss the details yet. My fiance is in a panic because our rsvp date is 6/6. Will that be far enough in advance to have a head count for the caterer?

2006-12-29 01:21:45 · 15 answers · asked by Happy Wife 4 in Weddings

got married. I have dreams of being initmate with him and i think about him all the time. Why do you think that all of a sudden i am thinking of my ex when i hadn't been thinking of him or dreaming of him b4 i got married?

2006-12-29 01:20:43 · 12 answers · asked by ohsosexy26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Men, what is your definition of a Gold Digger? I already know all the cliches so please be specific.

2006-12-29 01:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by Madam SupaStar 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 01:20:00 · 37 answers · asked by mary_not_cathy 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 01:19:19 · 6 answers · asked by aleena 1 in Friends

that he will find out??
I hooked up with my b/f's friend. Are the chances higher he will find out because they are best friends?? What do I do??

2006-12-29 01:19:07 · 19 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is 77 years old and her pension and social security aren't enough to cover her monthly expenses. It has been like this for the last two years. One of my brothers and I send her money regularly to help her out. My eldest brother can't seem to help out though. I have broached the subject a couple of times and let him know she needs help. He always gives the excuse that he can barely pay his own bills. I happen to know better since I have found out about several expensive purchases he has made for himself.
Mom doesn't need alot but even $50 a month from each of us would ease her burden tremendously. My other brother and I resent the fact that the eldest won't help out and it is lying about his reason. Yet he fully expects his part of her estate when she dies. By the time that happens, none of us will be on speaking terms. Does anyone have suggestions on how to get big brother to step up and help us out with our mother???

2006-12-29 01:18:21 · 4 answers · asked by sunnygirl1 2 in Family

I wrote in a couple of weeks ago about the whoreish team mom that flirts with everybodys husband. Well I finally got a chance to let her know that I was on to her in a non confrontational way. I was told by another parent that I drive her crazy because of my clothes and shoes and overall appearance of "perfection". Nobody is perfect I just love fashion. I was told that she viewed my husband as a challenge because I think that I am so perfect. She is just a divorced miserable tramp that doesn't want anyone to be happy because her marriage didn't work. I don't want to return to where she and her friend are. They were nasty to me at all times for no reason. They would purposely only pose questions about our son to my husband. I won't be so kind the next time. I also got sick of traveling so far for a game..he can play with another team and I could have more peace. My husband says that it is not about adults but the kids. My husband was jealous over a certain Coach that flirts with me.

2006-12-29 01:17:27 · 18 answers · asked by The Red Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I didnt know where this would go so i put it here. Well my sister is 19 and Im 13 but I look so much older than she does. I mean, Im almost as tall as her, I have bigger boobs than she does, and Ive been mistaken for 21. Also she still looks 16...but why does she look close to my age and I look close to her age? Does anybody else have the same problem?

2006-12-29 01:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right now I am in a bad situation. I am in Iraq right now and I just found out that my wife was actually telling my cousin she wanted to sleep with him. She said she did not go through with it, but she did say she told him that she wanted to do it. What should I do in this situation.

2006-12-29 01:16:31 · 20 answers · asked by young grown man 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We used to talk on the computer almost every day and he would often text me. But there have been some changes lately. I mean just the other day he told me that we would just chat once a week and he almost never texts me anymore. I mean the maximum text messages he sends me in a day is 3 and there are even days that he doesn't send any. It's like he's not missing me. I talked to him about this and he told me that I shouldn't get mad when we don't chat. Is he losing interest or is he just too confident that I won't break up with him even if he doesn't talk to me for weeks? I mean almost all guys are like that, after several months in a relationship they're no longer as diligent with their girlfriends as they were during the first 2 months. Do i have to be more patient about him talking to me only when he wants to or should I not mind it at all?

2006-12-29 01:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 01:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by camelia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy I like we have been gone out 2 time in very casual situations, the third time he invited me over to his apt and kissed but did not have sex...now there is another girl..I'm not sure if he's after him or what but yesterday he had a picture on my space with her ...her arms where around his neck and in his caption it said:
Mmmmmmmm Yep!
what does that mean? I mean he has known her wayy before me how come he kissed me? Does that mean he likes her?? Guys are weird...Should I just give up or is he still game?? I don't know if I should just tell him I like him...Would scare him off? HELP!!!

2006-12-29 01:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by red_klinik 2 in Singles & Dating

whats the use of being honest in a relationship. it was just being truthful to both of them.

2006-12-29 01:15:18 · 7 answers · asked by mohit b 1 in Singles & Dating