ok what does it mean when a guy has is x gf in his phone still even though they have been broken up for ever?

Question

ok my bf has his x gf in his phone and well they still talk and he says he is over her but he talks about her like hes not and i just dont know what to do

Answer 1

People can still be friends with their ex's.

BUT

If they talk about them a lot, then they are not over them at all. It will only be a matter of time before he has a chance to dump you and get back with her.

If you like him, talk to him about it and ask if he still has feelings for her. If he gets defensive, he does.

If he still has feelings for her and doesn't want to choose you over her, then get someone better for you instead.

Answer 2

Well I am going through the same thing and go with what you know. Meaning I get to eavesdrop on the conversations every once in a while when a particular ex calls. She desperately tries to win him back. Now my thought is why would he disrespect me when I have told him how it makes me feel when I know she is pleading for them to get back together and he doesn't end it. He says they are just friends and yes they are on opposite ends of the States but it is the point that possibility is there. I am right now currently in the thought process of just giving back the ring and calling it quits. I figure that if it is that hard to let go of an ex then something is wrong. From a more Chrisitain spiritual point of view the Bible says to abstain from all APPEARANCES of evil. If it looks fishy, smells fishy then chances are it is fishy. Hurts like hell but what can you do.

Answer 3

Hard to say. It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday sometimes. Is he still hoping? Is it just a memory? A memento? The only way to find out is to ask.

If you've been snooping, then you can't ask straight up, you have to find out through conversation if he's with you temporarily, because he's on the rebound, or if he's trying to get over her and move on, or if he really wants to be with you just cause.

Answer 4

definite, human beings could have the skill to hold close with every physique they decide on, yet definite, she had intercourse at that party, and desires to no longer visit those form of events anymore if she respects you. There are zillions of alternative styles of places to visit ... jazz golf equipment, dance golf equipment, comedy cellars, activities events, gaining understanding of the thank you to play a musical device, truly doing her homework and interpreting for scholarships to get a real activity, truly eye-catching in a activities-oriented pastime oneself .... This woman heavily isn't waiting to quiet down till she's the two sterile, pregnant, or loss of existence of AIDS, and then she'll be very committal to you to get onto your scientific coverage. in case you do no longer say definite, she'll be undesirable mouthing you on a Jerry Springer variety instruct, and claiming that she's preg with your youngster (with 20% odds). Mark my words. visit a close-by wellness health facility try for each STD under the solar, and get outta there. i understand she's somewhat, yet there are various very somewhat, sensible, to blame females accessible who might die for a committal guy such as you. pass into some new social circles and locate them. Get an training, or apprentice your self to somebody who can practice you a marketable means. Having a job could have women individuals throughout you like flies. a number of them could desire to additionally be good.

Answer 5

To piggy back off of Ketel One Up, if Sex is in the equation something can be left.... Me and my ex were close and we use to talk as though we together. After it created problems and we stopped talking for 1 yr. After we were both FULLY over each other, we were the best of friends... I give him girl advice and we act like brother and sister. It took a full 3 yrs for us to get to that point.. so think about it. Also if he is giving attention to another girl like that and it is not you. It is a form of disrespect... Just my opinion

Answer 6

I still talk to a lot of my exes. One man and i were almost engaged and now he's married to another woman with a kid and we are still friends. I wouldn't worry about the fact that they are still friends. But i would worry that your gut is telling you he's not over her, that's not a good sign.

Answer 7

What is worse then physical cheating is emotional cheating. She has other friends and so does he. Remember 3/4 of your relationship is emotional.
You can clearly tell him that if he cares about you, he will no longer talk to her. If he cares about you he will stop with no argument. If it is a big deal, he apparently has ties. AFTER is no longer talks to her and does this willingly, then you could allow him if you are comfortable.

Answer 8

Well to me I think that he still may have feelings for her but his trying to move but can't. So what you need to do is tell him either your his gf or she is. It's alright to still be friend with her but to a certain level. You and him need to know when to draw the line.

Answer 9

If it bothers you to much move on or require him to change their talking to email or something like that so if you needed to you could see what their conversations are like. That is hard because sometimes after people break up they choose to be friends yet so there could be other reasons for that.

Answer 10

i am still friends with nearly all of my ex-girlfriends! I have them all stored in my phone, and still talk to them on occasions! I have a 5 year relationship that i couldnt be any happier with, but i still have friends! If you trust him, then you shouldnt worry about it!