Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

card to Lowes (he loves woodworking), offered to take him to a local museum that has a woodworking tool exhibit, told him I'd pay for a woodworking seminar at a local shop, got him Jet Li's "Fearless" DVD and made his family cookies. Uh, now I'm thinking that's overkill. He hasn't even given me my gift yet. Was it too much? Guys, what would you think if you were him?

2006-12-24 07:06:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you merely appreciate them a bit and then think of what you have to get done that day? Are you really visual creatures?

I am talking specifically of photos of a girl you know but haven't been physical with in real life, but also in general (eg Playboy etc)

2006-12-24 07:04:57 · 29 answers · asked by AussieRockchic 1 in Singles & Dating

what is 69 pose

2006-12-24 07:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so why? Why not the first date if you like the guy? Why not the second date if you like the guy.

We all know that s ex is ultimately part of a healthy adult relationship, so why not dates 1 or 2?

2006-12-24 07:02:15 · 13 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so he takes me on all these dates and he dumps me over the phone! then to top it all off he moves to new york and now he coming back to visit! any revenge ideas? (i need something sick and twisted!)

2006-12-24 07:00:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend still likes me and he has told me and I like him and I have told him but my friend likes him too and keeps trying to get to sleep with him and it is really starting to make me mad what do I do I need alot of help here!!

2006-12-24 06:59:44 · 28 answers · asked by panda16_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to withdraw my question about unfaithfulness. Not that this helps- but I didn't mean it the way it sounded. I do not like anyone in particular- especially Mark because he is not as nice as I thought at first. I just want to apologize to my boyfriend. He doesn't deserve this. He's really great. I hope he understands that just like anyone else I'm nervous about doing the right thing to benefit my future. Even if he's certain of what he wants- I'm not. Sorry Frankie.

2006-12-24 06:59:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dark brown almost black, honey brown, green, hazel, or blue

2006-12-24 06:59:15 · 22 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 06:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it and whwn i get in to the room last night he was crying, she was sitting there..today he came to our home to say hi to us, say to my parets that is over and all, he said they decided so.. But i sufer so much cause everything that happened, i cried and cried, he said dont, like they made that choice, then he started to cry too....... now he goes to slovenia on 6 months, and it looks like it is really over between them, but i am so sorry cause of that, i cry all the time.. how to help myself, cause he was as a brother to me now what will be,.. How to be realistic, and how to stop to be so sensitive? I mean they need to cry not me..

2006-12-24 06:58:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

About 2 years a ago, a girl I really loved and I stopped dating(her choice). In the 2 years that followed I dated 3 other girls and always felt we would get back together but I've come to terms and realize that won't happen. The 3 others in that time were to put it kindly "nuts". So now I'm in the mind frame that I wasn't good enough for girl #1 and all I can attract are crazy girls, which doesn't seem like a good thing for me. All of this has taken a toll on my self confidence which has led me to be less social. How can I regain my self confidence ? especially with the opposite sex?

2006-12-24 06:58:06 · 6 answers · asked by DLG 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, something is wrong with my mom, mentally. So now she's gone to our grandparents house to talk crazy and my aunt wants to get her to go and get electro shocks to her brain to disable part of it, and if my mom is gone I would be taken away, god im so scared. my dad is calling all of our family and saying shes insane, so they might try to send her somewhere right now, i dont even know. I want her to live a happy life somewhere, maybe in a mental hospital, but not like a zombie. i cant find a reason to live anymore, if she doesnt come back tomorrow i dont know what ill do, my dad is getting sick of her and shes done this 8 years. this is just so complicated, theres other stuff going on to, and i just dont know what to do anymore.

im only 15, what can i do? this is so tense right now i mean what if she doesnt come back tonight like she said? what if i never see her again? our family even put an investigator down here because they believed in what she said, so now theyre mad.

2006-12-24 06:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Family

he's sweet but really unromantic.. he has never surprised me or anything.. i dont think he'll change.. i love him to death, he's a really great guy and i think he really loves me but im a hopless romantic and i dont think ill ever experience romantic stuff w/ him. im afraid that i might get tired of his "routine-ways" should i end it now or im just being too shallow?

Since im a hopeless romantic, obviously i've given him lots of sweet stuff, i've done romantic stuff for him, i've surprised him a lot of times.. but still he doesn't get that i want those things too..

2006-12-24 06:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by im star girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i have stayed home with the children since we were married, so he has payed for everything. i only have a part time job while i go to school.

is there any way i can get help?

2006-12-24 06:55:54 · 16 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to chat with guys and we would email and a little and talk on the phone and usually meet in one or two weeks after we got to know a little about each other. Now I seem to be getting guys that just drag on and never really say anything but hi how are you, and then they disappear and show up a month later and we never get past small talk whereas the others want to meet the minute we trade one email. I like to get to know a person about a week before meeting the first time but I either get the ongoing emailer which I never get to really know or some guy rushing into wanting to meet and not really answering my questions. I don't lilke either type as the first wastes my time and the other one's anxiousness is a turnoff. What happened to the normal people who want to trade a few questions to get to know if it is worth meeting?

2006-12-24 06:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I was invited to her sweet sixteen party, and thats where met her. This was last satuday. We hit it after when I gave her most of her dances, and was invited to her house for a movie the following tuesday. After hanging out with eachother most of the week, she started to recoil, saying I couldnt see her all weekend.. Her family doesn't know about me and she isn't suppose to be dating, but i know it's more than that because i've already been to her house a few times and she was perfectly willing to keep it on the low then. But her friends have been saying that she's confused about us, and she isn't sure if she's redy for this relationship. They tell me i'm her first boyfriend. I don't know what to do. she doesn't have her own cell phone, and I can't call her house because her parents might answer. I could rele use your guy's help.

2006-12-24 06:54:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate my mother. I hate every bone in her body. I want to move out but it is so hard to find a good job when you have very few work experience. I always hated her since I was about 8 years old. I remember telling her that I hate her. I thought maybe when I get older (im 20) it would change but it didn't. She just keep calling my fat every F****** day even though I told her I hate it. And she acts like she got a beyonce body, she is no smaller than I am. She know I have low self esteem but it don't matter she keep running her mouth. I often fantasize about hurting her. I just want to get the hell out but I dont have a job. I know she don't like me -if i try to make a joke to her she get upset, but let my brother do the same joke she happy. I hate being in this house. I just want out. I know once i get out i would not even look back. I dont like it here. I hate her so much I wouldn't mind not seeing her anymore. In the past when i was working a night shift she called me a prostitute.

2006-12-24 06:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im a guy 18 yrs old. at my work theres this girl i really like shes 18 too. she was really friendly to me the first day and said HI.but bc im kinda shy the 1st day i just smiled and said hi kind of muzzled. now she never talks to me except the next day when she asked me where something was cause she couldnt find it. i do occasionally catch her looking at me though. but i just found out that shes a lesbian with 3 diff gf's. do u think i should still try to hook up with her and try to do something? do u think she might be interested too?

2006-12-24 06:50:20 · 22 answers · asked by LDshayne 1 in Singles & Dating

so i'm sixteen, i live with my born-again christian mom and i'm not too worried about my dad really. i told my sister but she's in denial. and then there's the fact that ever since the 7th grade i've had an interest with the occult...trying to make my way through the satanic bible right now.....so really all i need is some advice about the right time and how exactly to start the converastion

2006-12-24 06:49:58 · 11 answers · asked by gomonkeebutt 2 in Family

One look and she's the ONE that I want to love forever OR do MOST guys just think there's lots of fish in the sea, they're easily replaceable?

2006-12-24 06:49:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 06:49:11 · 13 answers · asked by cutesweetbooty 2 in Singles & Dating

For Japanese/ chinese New year.. what comes to my mind first is "Ang bao" (Red pocket) haha nice.. :)

But For christmas.. I always think about Santa Claus. I've been wanting to see the real santa since i was little. :)

How about ya?

~MERRY CHRISTMAS~

2006-12-24 06:48:44 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

what would you do in this situation? On christmas my woman thinks its ok to spend the night at her ex husbands house on christmas eve so she can be there christmas morning with her son opening gifts, how would you handle it?

2006-12-24 06:48:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My mother yells all the time. I talked with her about it last year, and she said that if I did the right thing, then she wouldn't yell. Therefore, this year, I worked really hard to be a better kid and do all my chores. But she stills just as much at the most miniscule things.

For instance, today, she yelled at me because I left some chicken outside the freezer for five minutes.

Today, her yelling got so excessive that I almost told her to shut the f up. (but I didn't)

What do you think I should do about this? I've tried talking with her calmly, ignoring her, or standing up to her. But she refuses to see the wrongs in her actions and keeps doing it, and it's driving me crazy.

2006-12-24 06:47:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

whatever your situation...we all spend years dreaming of that perfect moment...the one when you just have that something with someone...the perfect job...the perect weather...the perfect amount of cash in the bank.....planning and waiting for it to come to us...

sometimes though...those moments just sneak up on us when we least expect them...what do you do then???...can you throw caution to the wind and go with that moment,that feeling...or do you put it on hold until the time is right ???....that moment may never come around again...ever...just wondering....;0)

2006-12-24 06:46:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I myself would steer clear of both types of men, but theoretically, is there any major difference, is one of the above forms of abuse easier to bear than the other?
I think Abuse should not be tolerated in any form, don't you worry.

2006-12-24 06:46:11 · 59 answers · asked by Balaboo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this sounds wierd but I'm considering it. I babysit for a friend of my Dad's. The other night he asked me about money and stuff and finally said that if I came to a party with him and a few friends and let them take nude pictures (no porn) they would pay me 500 bucks! That's a lot of money . . . Should I do it?

2006-12-24 06:45:46 · 10 answers · asked by Deb D 1 in Friends

I am wanting a child and a mate to care ,love ,help,passion but instead i am all alone and just want anyone to be totally committed to in everyway and i am a one woman man completely

2006-12-24 06:44:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-24 06:43:41 · 26 answers · asked by laurameetsworld 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I was feeling the xmas sprirt and I decided to call my ex and tell him that I wasn't trying to be rude when I didn't return his call or when I sent a text saying that I would send him his book instead of returning it in person. He answered the phone and said don't worry about it in a brush off kind of way. He said he'd call me back and never did. I've never experienced this, so I left a message saying that I didn't know he was capable of such childish games and I told him that he had no class. I told him that I was in love with someone I didn't even know. He called back and told me that I'm making him out to be the bad guy and he told me if he's such a bad guy then don't call him anymore. I was shocked. I left a text saying that I'm sorry for anything I did to have him acting this way and that was the end. I feel like I should have never called him in the first place and I really feel doubtful about the text. Telling me not to call him is the worst; no one has ever done that

2006-12-24 06:40:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating