I was invited to her sweet sixteen party, and thats where met her. This was last satuday. We hit it after when I gave her most of her dances, and was invited to her house for a movie the following tuesday. After hanging out with eachother most of the week, she started to recoil, saying I couldnt see her all weekend.. Her family doesn't know about me and she isn't suppose to be dating, but i know it's more than that because i've already been to her house a few times and she was perfectly willing to keep it on the low then. But her friends have been saying that she's confused about us, and she isn't sure if she's redy for this relationship. They tell me i'm her first boyfriend. I don't know what to do. she doesn't have her own cell phone, and I can't call her house because her parents might answer. I could rele use your guy's help.
2006-12-24 06:54:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're her first boyfriend, then you gotta understand that she's only a beginner in this dating business.....
she likes you but she's scared that something's gonna happen....
just give her some time.....
gradually build up the relationship....
do you guys see each other at school or at church or something?
be patient with her and time will come when she won't be confused anymore......
good luck!!!
2006-12-24 07:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by heyheyhey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well kiddo it is like this. By the time you are 25 you will have had many "gfs". Just talk to her when you can. It is like what if you met her and then she moved 2000 miles away. Well, if she is confused, it might be she likes you but then the problems with the family is getting in the way. Do not worry about and look at other girls. No use wasting your time as you will find this out later in life.
2006-12-24 06:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... she's only a young girl..... She's not ready to settle with a steady boyfriend yet, corz she's only started dating... Just be friend's dude, corz she'll never gain experience with boy's, if your'e alway's going to get in the way all the time.... You should be experienced enough to know that dude, if your'e older than her. She need's room to grow, and gain experience, like everyone else who's new at dating.....
2006-12-24 07:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up man. She is trying to be nice, ignore her for a while and if she comes crawling back and you dig her then go for it. Don't let her make a fool of you.
2006-12-24 06:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by T B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋