My ex boyfriend still likes me and he has told me and I like him and I have told him but my friend likes him too and keeps trying to get to sleep with him and it is really starting to make me mad what do I do I need alot of help here!!
2006-12-24 06:59:44 · 28 answers · asked by panda16_4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confront your friend and your ex-boyfriend together. Ask her point blank to tell you why she is trying to get your ex to sleep with her. AND ask your ex to explain toyour friend his EXACT feelings for you. He may be playing both of you. All this needs to happen with all 3 of you there so no other stories can be told behind anyone's back.
2006-12-24 07:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is not your friend if she keeps trying to sleep with your ex-boyfriend. I feel like an ex-boyfriend is off limits to friends no matter how long you have been broken up. My suggestion is to talk to her, tell her that her flirting is making you upset. If that doesn't help, you might just have to leave her alone. Her trying to get with your ex-boyfriend is signs that she can't be trusted.
2006-12-24 07:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by NIcole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your exboyfriend both still have feelings for each other, why aren`t you dating? If your friend doesn`t know that you two still both have feelings for each other, then I don`t think this situation is too terrible, because all you have to do is tell her what`s up and she should stop. Now, if she knows that you two are thinking about getting back together again and she`s still trying to interfere, call her out on it; if she continues, stop being her friend.
2006-12-24 07:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend wouldnt try to move in on your ex, It is an un wriiten rule to all non-loose women not to go after friends ex's. Tell her that straight out if shes a friend she wont get offended if not you know her sleeping around comes first, then ditch her.
2006-12-24 07:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
damn that gurl aint your friend if she tryin to sleep with him & she kno u giving it another try- u should confront her find out whats the deal then him very soon after make sure u or your friend aint being played(personally i'd diddle your so-called friend, if she puttin so much effort to do so, b4 i tried again with you & to me that not really being a dog) i believe you should stay away from your friends ex 4 about a year or so i see that as respect! wierd but that s how i see it
2006-12-24 07:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by 6figurenigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is Why did you two break up? When I was growing up me and my girl friends had a pack. There is way to many boys out there for us to go out with , we don't mess with ex's or guys that they really like. If they just went out with them but there was no feelings involved then they are fair game. If you still like this guy alot then you should tell your friend. If she doesn't respect that and back off then she is not your friend. If she still tries to go out with him and he likes you, then tell him. Chances are if he really likes you then he will tell her to step off.
2006-12-24 07:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes not your friend, and I'm surprised shes not trying to hate on you. Since you still like your ex I think you should hook back up with him. Before you do that y'all should talk about the reason y'all broke up in the first place. You and him need to put your ex friend in her place. PROMPTLY!
2006-12-24 07:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Portia P 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest with her. Tell her straight up the situation. If she's a real friend she'll understand without getting pissed off.
2006-12-24 07:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by asianflava 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still likes you he will not mess with your friend and if he does than he deserves to be with a looser friend of your who cant find her a BF. So take it easy and let the time decide. If you two are meant for each other no one can keep you apart. :)
2006-12-24 07:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by eezee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get back with your ex and throw your friend out of the pic. LOL.
2006-12-24 07:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋