im a guy 18 yrs old. at my work theres this girl i really like shes 18 too. she was really friendly to me the first day and said HI.but bc im kinda shy the 1st day i just smiled and said hi kind of muzzled. now she never talks to me except the next day when she asked me where something was cause she couldnt find it. i do occasionally catch her looking at me though. but i just found out that shes a lesbian with 3 diff gf's. do u think i should still try to hook up with her and try to do something? do u think she might be interested too?
2006-12-24 06:50:20 · 22 answers · asked by LDshayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! Don't go after lesbians or bisexuals! They will NOT like you!
2006-12-24 06:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a lesbian, there is no point, but she may just be experimenting. Just because she hooked up with girls does not make her a lesbian. It doesn't even make necessarily her bisexual. Besides someone could be lying to you about that.
I would just start talking to her slowly. Like ask her questions about herself, everyone likes it when people ask questions about what they like.. it makes us people feel important. So, take it slow and see where it goes from there. Don;t be scared, she is probably ust as intimidated as you are.
2006-12-24 14:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was just trying to be friendly at work...But, maybe she is bi and in that case give it a shot....What do you have to lose??? What is the worst that could happen she says no or tells you she is a lesbian and she doesn't swing that way....Bite your lip and give it a shot. GOOD LUCK and MERRY CHRISTMAS
2006-12-24 14:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by chef nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, how did you find out she ws a lesbian? and do you trust your source? Next, ask if she's interested in a date with you and if she says "no,i'm not into guys" then that should be the end.
2006-12-24 14:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mz.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depeneds if she likes guys to but if she is strait lesbian then I would try it if I were you personally I think lesbians are kind of discusting but wish you alot of luck!!!
2006-12-24 14:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by panda16_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a lesbian den she wouldn't like a guy, ask her if she's bi and something like dat. Also if she haz 3 gurlfriends dat rite der lets u noe somethin bout her...
2006-12-24 14:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by It is what it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am going to say this if she is a lesiban with three different girlfriend then you chances are slim to none. but hey you could still have a chance by the grace of God. go for it and see what happens she could either say no or yes.
2006-12-24 14:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a les with 3 gf's leave her alone
2006-12-24 14:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by im always right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. I don't see how anything can go wrong.
Dr. Relationship
2006-12-24 14:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck F. Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should probaly try to talk to her first before you try anything with her you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and see how she response but take it easy to begin.
2006-12-24 14:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋