so i'm sixteen, i live with my born-again christian mom and i'm not too worried about my dad really. i told my sister but she's in denial. and then there's the fact that ever since the 7th grade i've had an interest with the occult...trying to make my way through the satanic bible right now.....so really all i need is some advice about the right time and how exactly to start the converastion
2006-12-24 06:49:58 · 11 answers · asked by gomonkeebutt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is going to be very hard, telling your parents you like both women and men and you are thinking your religion, but the longer you wait, the harder it is going to be. You need to sit your family down and just tell the straight out, it will be hard for them at first and there might be some words said, but they are you family, and God forgives everyone, do not think you are sinning, you are just going in a different path, they will understand eventually.
2006-12-24 06:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, honestly, I don't think that ANY time is a good time so you may as well just get it out of the way. Maybe to make things a little easier, you can do it in a silly way. Perhaps you can wear a T-Shirt that says "I'm bi, so what" ... or something of that nature.
As for the "occult", your mom may have bigger issues with that. However, there is nothing wrong with having an interest in the occult. I'm actually christian but I read books about voodoo, magic, etc. I don't plan on performing voodoo or anything but it just all interests me. I like learning about different things and that includes cultures, religions, etc.
2006-12-24 07:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by wtfustaringat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, so you have a minor delimma. So does everyone. Not all people believe or have the same thoughts when it comes to religion or politics and that is why alot of arguing goes on. However you decide to believe is your choice and no one can change your mind---although they can and will try. Whatever belief's you are comfortable with then you follow. This will be right for you and SO WRONG for many others. As far as when would be the best time to tell someone-------that is definitely something YOU are going to have to decide on YOUR OWN. I can guarentee you will probably be getting alot of answers from so-called Christians. I myself have my own belief's ----and I do not believe in trying to shove my thoughts down someone else's throat and hope no one tries to shove their thoughts down my throat--------------as far a cults go-----it is a very dangerous thing to be getting yourself involved in so really STOP AND THINK before you go to far and can not get out. IT IS DANGEROUS and nothing to be playing with. It can and will destroy your life.
2006-12-24 07:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are under a demonic attack and dominion. The time to break the news is now. I invite you to repent because the devil is a liar and he will try to keep you in the occult world. You are only sixteen, follow your parents' guidance, they know better and I am sure they want what is in your best interest.
2006-12-24 07:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Christmas morning. Tell them when you get up. That way they have the whole day to knock some sense into your silly head. I thought you had a real problem until you started with the occult thing. Grow up!
2006-12-24 07:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it'd be better for you to wait until you're 18 and/or no longer dependant on them. I know what christians can be like...when they find out that you're no longer one of them, your parents will probably stop seeing you as their child and will treat you like scum off the street. I'M NOT TRYING TO SCARE YOU.....I'm speaking from experience.
As far as the bisexuality, that's your personal business. They need never find out.
2006-12-24 07:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by transitangst 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suggest not talking about it at all and waitint till you are an adult to indulge you Bi-ness. It is not as if you could take advantage of it until you are 18 anyways.
2006-12-24 07:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by God of Logic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now is the time to tell your mother. Maybe she can help you, or get help for you. In this world, we worship something or someone.
Personally, I would choose God.
2006-12-24 06:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by childofGod 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ohhh just tell them=they ll b ok
2006-12-24 06:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by GROOVY LILY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With all that you have said, I dont think anytime is a good time, you might as well just do it.
Though, I will pray for you.
2006-12-24 06:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋