what would you do in this situation? On christmas my woman thinks its ok to spend the night at her ex husbands house on christmas eve so she can be there christmas morning with her son opening gifts, how would you handle it?
2006-12-24 06:48:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
are you saying in not to be involved in christmas?
2006-12-24 06:58:37 · update #1
They could have an agreement , that the kids do not open gifts until Mom gets there at 9 am.
That seems like a reasonable compromise.
2006-12-24 12:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cammie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is "your woman" I assume not you wife.
She could stay at a motel, nearby get up early and be there in Christmas morning. Does the ex have a new wife? If not, I would be concerned.
Sounds like they are trying to give the illusion of "normalcy" to their son, which may be good on one hand, but also confusing for the child.
A motel/hotel is the answer.
2006-12-24 08:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by mscyngrim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, then she should NOT spend the night alone at the ex-husband's house. Either you both do, or you both don't.
If you are just in a exclusive relationship, then it is highly suggested that she not spend the night. You both can go over in the morning, maybe you all go out for breakfast afterwards.
2006-12-24 08:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Inquiring Mind 19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your wife likes! Listen to her when she is looking through magazines or walking down the high street she is bound to make hints. And i can guarantee you that if you pick up on those hints she will be the happiest woman on the earth as it shows that you do listen to her and you really do love her more than she knows! Good Luck p.s you can't go wrong with Diamonds!
2016-05-23 04:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married than you should go too. However, if your not she has every right to go there and spend the night without you. She should be there for her son. Its about the kids and only the kids-not you
2006-12-24 06:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would just tell her "Don't bother comeing back". Save your self from haveing another bad Xmas in 2007
2006-12-24 07:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by malc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't agree that she should be spending the night. she should go there early in the morning to be there with him.
if you are married- then you should be there too.
2006-12-24 07:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by guawsgirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not cool, at all. i would never do that to my husband, and i would not be okay if he did the same... im not saying its not innocent, but just the principle
2006-12-24 07:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋