Is looking at live porn feeds considered cheating? My boyfriend does it! Thx for your opinions!?

Answer 1

It is not technically cheating--but if you are not okay with it--that is the most important thing to focus on--If he watches once in awhile and you are okay with it--fine-- (if he watches all day long--ummm--yes--there is a problem here--because he is not going to be available for you)..but if you are not okay with it-don't look at it as if that is then your problem--
Porn is not the issue--it is what you are comfortable with in your relationship--if you want a relationship where your bf watches porn -for any length of time--a little or a lot--well--that is your choice--but many people do not like the feeling that their partner is getting sexually excited by watching other people engaged in sexual acts---Some people feel like sex should be a more intimate/spiritual connection--they only want to share that with their partner--It is a purely personal choice--

I would just caution you not to pretend you are okay with it if you are not--I know people who have done this--they pretend they are okay with the porn viewing etc--to stay in a relationship--and they have been unhappy--Stick with what you are feeling and talk to your boyfriend--you don't need someone to convince you if you are okay with something or not--You know for yourself whether or not something feels right for you in your relationship--

Either choice is okay--Just make sure you trust your own feelings about it...

Good Luck...

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Answer 4

you want some help right here, sweetie.... desire this solutions your question..... Strictly talking, hon, he's not dishonest on you. he's an addict..... a porn addict. And it really is an habit as is the different... alcohol, playing, drugs, regardless of. the final analysis with addicts, and addictions.... as you've got here upon out... is they basically are not obtainable.... they are already in a relationship, that's basically that it's not with you!!!!!! And once you spot that, you'll comprehend basically how hopeless this habit is. Any psychologist or psychiatrist will allow you to recognize that you would stand a more desirable chance of an 'arrest' if the guy were ingesting, or playing..... than if he's addicted to porn. Sorry, sweetie, basically genuine............ regrettably, porn habit is somewhat even treatable, and under no circumstances curable. Even an alcoholic having been via AA will allow you to recognize that he remains an alcoholic, basically now not ingesting. With porn, they continuously have a computing device.

Answer 5

Here is the definition of cheat. 1.To deprive by trickery or deceit. 2. to practice trickery or fraud. 3. to break rules. So unless in your vows he agrees to not look at porn, he hides it from you with the intent of deceiving you, or he thinks of the porn women while having sex with you he isn't technically cheating. Men are visual creatures so looking at porn while masturbating is like a woman using a vibrator to have an orgasm. It is a tool nothing more, nothing less. It can be a tool for you both if you choose to participate. My girlfriend and I watch porn together at times and their is nothing wrong with that. Alot of women are emotionally insecure so they see a man watching porn relating to them not being good enough, or that man wanting to be with the woman on the screen. This is far from the truth. If anything, some women should be glad that a man has porn as an outlet for his fantasy. If not she would be the center of his fantasy attention and not all women are as open to different sexual practices like anal sex, or threesomes for example. If she wasn't willing to participate their are some men out their that would find another who would. So in conclusion, no porn isn't cheating.

Answer 6

I may get some church people mad with this answer .... Nothing wrong with a man (or woman) looking at adult porn together. As long as the porn doesn't have children, animals, or two men having sex (if he craves this type of porn something may be wrong with him.)

So I suggest the next time he sit down to watch a porn movie, you sit down right next to him and watch it with him. If he is like most men, five or ten minutes into the movie y'all will be having sex with each other.

P.S; You may think he looks at to much porn, but watching a movie ten minutes at a time takes a while.

Answer 7

No it's not cheating. It really isn't a big deal unless it is to frequent that it becomes a problem. My husband likes porn too, but I don't find it a big deal at all since I got used to it. He doesn't do it all the time so I don't mind. Now we just find ways to make our sex more exciting. It is actually kind of fun to use some porn once in awhile to spice up your relationship with new things, but I don't make a habit it out of it and I don't let him either.

If you think he is looking to much then make the suggestion to him that if he stops looking so much then maybe you will check it out with him and you can find some new ways to spice up your relationship in the bedroom so that he doesn't want to look at other naked woman so much. But you gotta give a little with that cause guys just can't control themselves the way most woman can.

Answer 8

In my opinion, it isn't cheating, but it is wrong if he knows you are hurt by it and he does it anyway. To me, cheating is something else entirely. I have a friend who is very insecure about her husband looking at other women and she hadles it wrong by yelling at him. She won't even let him look at Maxim. He just does it behind her back. He is a nice guy and I think if she told him how she really felt, he would stop.

Answer 9

Some guys like the fantasy. But now he this like a "I would rather watch porn, than have sex with you." then he needs counseling or get another bf. Just treat it like drugs. If he can never walk away then he and you have a problem.

Answer 10

If you know he is doing it, it is not cheating. Cheating is when the innocent person does not know. He's having an affair with pornography. Its up to you whether you want to accept it or not.