I hate my mother. I hate every bone in her body. I want to move out but it is so hard to find a good job when you have very few work experience. I always hated her since I was about 8 years old. I remember telling her that I hate her. I thought maybe when I get older (im 20) it would change but it didn't. She just keep calling my fat every F****** day even though I told her I hate it. And she acts like she got a beyonce body, she is no smaller than I am. She know I have low self esteem but it don't matter she keep running her mouth. I often fantasize about hurting her. I just want to get the hell out but I dont have a job. I know she don't like me -if i try to make a joke to her she get upset, but let my brother do the same joke she happy. I hate being in this house. I just want out. I know once i get out i would not even look back. I dont like it here. I hate her so much I wouldn't mind not seeing her anymore. In the past when i was working a night shift she called me a prostitute.
2006-12-24 06:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what kind of so called "loving" mother would do that. Then she starts b******* if I dont go to church saying how will i get blessings, how would i get a good job. But you know whats so funny my brother haven't been to church since He was about 15 and he is 24 now buthe will get a good job and blessings. Also my father dont go to church but he got a good job he is a mechanic. what make me so different. I am at the point that i would do anything to get out- She is ruining my life. She is making me crazy. I try to not be home all the time so i can not hear her voice but she gets upset when i come home at 11pm. I am 20 i am not a little child. I just need to get out this house before i go crazy or is it to late. I don't want to introduce anyone to her but its hard my bf wants to come to my house but i wont let him. I try to let him know whats going on but he dont understand. I dont' want him to find out late like my ex. Please i need serious help
2006-12-24 06:56:50 · update #1
Trust me i am not crazy. I am also not violent. I am the most calm person you may ever know. But all i said is i fantasize because that way its not a crime. but i dont like her at all. its like when i get up in the morning i would be all happy but when she come say something i start cursing. Because of my mother I don't know any family, she wasn't sociable with family. My friends... i only have male friends. my female friend its been a while since we hung out it would be awqward. i am trying to get a job but i get no reply. i have no experience which = a bum/ gotta stay at home.
2006-12-24 07:02:24 · update #2
First, I'm sorry you hate your mom.... I was never very friendly with mine, either----she was quite opinionated. So... you are not alone. Best thing to do???? "Shut the hell up until you can get outa there". Don't give her any ammo, double up on your class load, work like hell, don't spend much, stash as much as you can.... but for sure, get that ed. on as much of her nickel as you can....
Keep to yourself, study like hell, andthen you can get outa there, hon.....Lots of great jobs that pay well that don't require you to be in school until you're ready for SS. Dental work for one..... hygenists make more $$ per hour that the goddamn dentist does!!!! Dental lab stuff, too..... secretaries and receptionists are a dime a dozen, so since you're going to have to work anyway, make it pay.... Good luck sweetie.
2006-12-24 08:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, get a therapist, get the hell out!! If you don't have any friends that can help you out with a place to stay, your going to want to see a therapist asap, and do your best to get a job. And don't do anything irrational to your mother in the mean time...she may be messed up, but she's not worth you going to jail for harming her.
2006-12-24 14:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by blkmagikwmn83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa dude dont do anything to her even though she puts you though hell if you wont to talk about it feel free to im me because i have been though the same thing i have a bad child hood but am trying to make it better
2006-12-24 14:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Napster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any family you can stay with.....I am sorry to hear that your mom treats you bad....look for a job and save your money...once you leave the house leave her too...she will regret the way she has treated you in the future_
2006-12-24 14:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Don't do anything to cause her physical harm because this posting is evidence of premeditation and it would land you in jail for a long time.
2006-12-24 14:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 20. you can legally move out. live with a friend, that's what my big brother is doing
get a job. don't hurt her, because then people will be angry (as in the law)
2006-12-24 14:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋