Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

mah frd hd an amazin rship for abt 1 yr,,n thn dere was some misunderstandin.. d guy askd her for a phy rship n she refused.. n now d guy is wid some other girl...but still repentz that her previous left him...they are ready to b frdz now..but my frd is disturbed...she cries..n everyday he givez her a new reason for why they split,..surroundingz,people everyone questionz her.. i ve tried tellin her that she deserved someone better but she repents...n she sayz she cant get off him,,, did she do right by leavin him?i m worrried for her!!

2006-12-21 05:14:10 · 4 answers · asked by sash 1 in Singles & Dating

We've worked together for a year - I'm 38 (fit and attractive), he's 22, and he knows I've got a b/f. At least once a day, he finds a reason to come to my cubicle and chat for 1/2 hour or more. He talks about what he knows: cars, sports, motors, guy stuff. Emails me funny stuff all the time. We've hung out - lunch, movie, etc. He walks me to my car and we talk for another hour. He does favors for me - I could ask him for anything. For 22 he's very mature, respectful, plus lots of fun. We exchanged holiday gifts and on the surface I consider us good friends. The question: what does he want? If he really just wants to talk and kill time, why doesn't he go bond with a guy who actually knows about cars? I never considered cheating before, but I feel such a bond with him, it's crazy. Now don't crucify me (because of my age and boyfriend) but I'm attracted to him. I fantasize about kissing him all the time! If he made a move I'd be more than happy. Please - no smartass answers!

2006-12-21 05:13:51 · 4 answers · asked by hotarmybrat 1 in Friends

is right for my dad to have 4 girlfriends in 3 years

2006-12-21 05:13:35 · 4 answers · asked by rurhian 1 in Family

2006-12-21 05:13:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf always drinks okra juice and it makes his breath smell. what do i do

2006-12-21 05:12:52 · 18 answers · asked by Meg 2 in Singles & Dating

I knew this guy All my life but me and him was just friends > We live on the same block as children we would play house -I was mommy and he was daddy. We us to be so close . We try to date but it didn't work .I think we was going at all wrong. We tried to be to together just dating on the weekend. We tried just having Sex with other but I think that was wrong. We didn't let no one else know that was going down but it went on for awhile. NOW it seems I do not want him But I LOVE HIM. What is my problem? We are still friends to this day,But I think I want more!

2006-12-21 05:12:22 · 2 answers · asked by GLAMBOYANT 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 05:12:19 · 22 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i recently heard a study that said 9 out of 10 married people had pre-marital sex. This was done on men and women alike raised after 1940. Why then must it be drilled and drilled into our youth's minds that momma and grandma were virgins untill they were married and its shameful and no one should have sex untill they are married. Why not teach what sex is, how to be safe, and the physical and mental effects of having sex??

2006-12-21 05:12:02 · 11 answers · asked by Derek V 1 in Singles & Dating

yeterday I was at my cousins house...talking..
when she brought up that a girl slapped her brother
(my cousins bro)..
she thought he was talking bad things about her...soshe slapped him :
1
2
3
times..while he stood there saying nothing just ''respect ur self''
???????
is this right?
he wasn't suppose to slap her...
but atleast if I saw that ***** slap my bro..
and him doing nothin..then he'd look so foolish!!
what would u do?
O remeber u cant slap girls!

2006-12-21 05:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is cheating on her husband and is planning on leaving him and taking the two small boys. I know my son in law can be smart mouthed sometimes. He is 16 years older than my daughter and he feels he is too old to handle the boys. But I think he would do a better job than my daughter, because all she wants to do is party and drink. Help I am scared for my grandson. Her reason for leaving him is he does not help with boys enough or help clean house. He works 10-12 hours a day and she does not work. I want what is best for the grandsons. My son in law is walking around like a lost puppy. My daughter is moving out right after Christmas. My grandson said I so sad Dad is going to be alone. I heard him talking with his brother saying if we stop fighting and help mom clean maybe she will stay. I wanted to cry. Help what can I do.

2006-12-21 05:10:45 · 10 answers · asked by springer 3 in Family

My sister gets on my case and she tends to exaggerate things when she complains on me to mom. Even though she is 21, she tends to act immature. Since I don't want to be a hypocrite, I'll say I act a bit immature too, and I know I shouldn't. So what she does is look at the comments made by the people I chat with, like my friends, and she has no right to do that. Obviously, my mom and dad take her side and blame it all on me. I feel so lonely sometimes because I have no one that can agree with me. God knows what's wrong or right. I don't know if I'm wrong or right, but she shouldn't be doing this. She hates my music and always tells me to change it, and I like rock music, is that a bad thing? She's always complaining that I'm doing bad things on the computer, even though I'm not. I usually download music and talk to my friends. She complains that I made the computer slow and everthing. So people, tell me.

2006-12-21 05:10:16 · 5 answers · asked by Sid90 2 in Family

I think i like his so much that i cant think clearly on my own, PLEASE HELP?
I think i am loving my head over him, what should i do, i need advice cause i cant think clearly anymore?
Should i go with him , HELP???
i met this guy randomly and we already went out to 3 dates, i really like him and seems like he likes me too.....recently we asked me to go to atlantic city with him for 2 days.....and i really wanna go, but i am not sure, if i should........especially now that he knows that i am a virgin.........i think the main reason i wanna go with him is because i really wanna try sex, and i am 22 now, so i think i could be a great start to my adult life,.....i know we probably wont be together for long, but i am very attracted to him now....so what do you think? should i go or not?? and how should i stay it to my parents , i am still living with them.....and they still think of me as if of a very good cathlic virgin girl.

2006-12-21 05:10:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say you've subconsciously "blocked" a person because of something they did to you. Say you forgave them and are willing to move on, but you just can't get over the "block". Say you want to be "in love" again, and still do the outwardly loving things, but the raw unadulterated feeling of unconditional love and devotion is just not there. What about the feeling? Can you get it back? Is wanting that blissful feeling again having an immature, western view of love and marriage?

2006-12-21 05:09:30 · 20 answers · asked by lucypearl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with this guy Friday night, and it was great. Now he's saying that he wants me to not be with anyone else. I am really feeling him and want to be with him, but then there's the problem with the racist parents. Do you think that I should just see what happens before dropping the bomb on my parents?

2006-12-21 05:09:23 · 13 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering if anyone knew were a person can get a foreskin restoration procedure. I know it wont replace the 50 specialized nerve endings in the foreskin responcible for sexual pleasure and it it wont replace the frenulum, but at least it will cover the head and get rid of the calising effect caused by it always being exposed. its better than nothing.

2006-12-21 05:09:16 · 10 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now virtually adults 20 17 and 14 or because i'm getting old???42


Don't get me wrong i will still be full of joy on christmas day but usually i'm buzzing by now..

2006-12-21 05:07:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Or what other girls is Hot

2006-12-21 05:06:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think the love has kinda died but i dont know. what can i do to save it? the only reason i care is becasue she really is the greatest girl i have ever met please help!?

2006-12-21 05:06:12 · 9 answers · asked by PRODJ2 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 05:04:53 · 15 answers · asked by Daniel C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 05:04:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

answer noooooooooooowwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-21 05:04:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I AM GONNA DIE!!!

2006-12-21 05:04:09 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

Okay, Im very tempted right now to read my boyfriends emails. But i think i have very good reason. I found out a month ago(by hacking into his email) that last year my man of 3 yrs was sort of cheating on me with his ex from back home. he didnt see her, but they talked everyday and sent emails while he was at work and he would call her from my cell phone when i was not home. i confronted him about it, never really got over it. and i really dont trust him but i cant imagine being without him. we have a family and i have really changed alot (in good ways)since ive been with him. but now i dont trust him andhe just changed his password to his email! and im wondering why he would change it now when he didnt even change it before when i confronted him about the emails. he must be talking to her. and we are planning to move back to his hometown in a few months and i really need to know if hes being faithful before i move across the country with him!! help!! should i real his emails?

2006-12-21 05:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by courtnestarr 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i lvoe to death . and he says he loves me and i beilve him . im scared to loose him to some other girl . she has a boyfriend but she tends to talk to him and call him hunny. and stuff and it gets me so jealous . should i be jealous or should i no .

2006-12-21 05:03:23 · 19 answers · asked by oh snapp 2 in Singles & Dating

.. with the reason that this Y!A site is too addictive?!

2006-12-21 05:02:46 · 13 answers · asked by McAtterie 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 05:02:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been 6 months my girlfriend told me that she was lesbian and didn't want to be with me anymore even though she still loved me. I was desperately in love with her and then I decided to do something that maybe no other guy would ever do for a girl: I subjected myself to a surgery in Africa to change my sex and turn myself into a girl so she woud have no reason to leave me. Last month the whole process was completely done and I hadn't told her anything yet because I wanted to surprise her. However, when she saw me she said that all I did was for nothing because she doens't want to stay with me even after all I've done for her. She said she would never ask me to do such a thing and that I was looking like a monster for her. Now I just don't know what to do. I like girls and I don't know if I will ever find another girl who accepts me the way that I look now. The doctor told m

2006-12-21 05:02:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year!!! We love eachother so much, in fact we are so in love. Relationships have problems and we understand that. Lately my boyfriend has ben kind of distant from me. For example,
1). Rush me off the phone, kind of normal but it adds to all the other things.
2We haven't talked to eachother in awhile in a days worth, and that bothers me
3). I call him all the time, and he calls but he only started doing it when I complianed about it.
4). When something is bothering me, I share it with him especially if it deals with him,..like little issues, he says I am complaining.
Supposely everything I say that is negative about him, it has to be me complaining. he doesn't say that he misses me at all, I like to hear things said to me rather than he do it. We have not seen eachother in about a week, not once on the phone has he said I miss you, until a few mintues ago. We use to have sex alot, BUt it has decrease in some time.

2006-12-21 05:01:51 · 11 answers · asked by old 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 05:01:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do black and latin girls have them bubble butts???

2006-12-21 05:01:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating