It's been 6 months my girlfriend told me that she was lesbian and didn't want to be with me anymore even though she still loved me. I was desperately in love with her and then I decided to do something that maybe no other guy would ever do for a girl: I subjected myself to a surgery in Africa to change my sex and turn myself into a girl so she woud have no reason to leave me. Last month the whole process was completely done and I hadn't told her anything yet because I wanted to surprise her. However, when she saw me she said that all I did was for nothing because she doens't want to stay with me even after all I've done for her. She said she would never ask me to do such a thing and that I was looking like a monster for her. Now I just don't know what to do. I like girls and I don't know if I will ever find another girl who accepts me the way that I look now. The doctor told m
2006-12-21 05:02:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
+ You sure are screwed. I feel so bad for you and just because you cared? Better get some help and support. Remember life is precious so don't do anything foolish. You still have your mind, use it.
2006-12-23 08:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by Clamdigger 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real ? You cant be or else you would need to be sectioned . No - one would seriously do this Would THEY??? You chopped of youre bits coz youre wifes a lezzie and you did it in Africa . Im thinking Not !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and if youre for real get some Fu**ing help darling cos you have OVER CO- Dependacy issues to the extreme . Bloody hell what was she the onyl bird left in the planet . COME ON MATE be serious this is NUTS.
OOps sorry no pun intended
2006-12-21 13:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this to you, but if your story is true, a real man would not change his sex for someone else. There are never any guarantees in life, and for you having done somehitng so drastic just to stay in a relationship with someone was just crazy.
Check alternative lifestyle websites. I don't think it will be easy for you to find a lesbian who wants someone who used to be a man, but you could try. I would be honest on your profile.
2006-12-21 13:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should want u for who u are not how good u make her ***. She was an a*# for that. U mustv'e really loved her to change ur body like that. Where's the self-respect?I'm really sad to hear that about you. I hope u find better in life and learn from this so in the future u know better.
2006-12-21 13:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww thats the saddest story ive ever heard. im really sorry. you really should have asked her first but now that its dun theres not really much you can do. im really taken-aback by this. ive never heard anything like it. im not really sure what there is for you now. im sure youll find someone eventually, but its gonna be hard. do you want to remain female, otherwise you're in a really tough situation. i cant believe you did that. thats the sweetest, most stupid thing ive ever heard lol but good luck all the same
2006-12-21 13:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you did that. If your telling the truth and you went through all that for a girl, you need a shrink. A real good psychiatrist is in order but now, if you telling the truth, it's a little late..
2006-12-21 13:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah the unkindest cut, well mate to quote a very old maxim "You have made your bed, now you have to lie in it" What is done can not be undone. Sill as spoof questions go this has got to be blue ribbon class. Happy Christmas.
2006-12-21 13:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♣ My Brainhurts ♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do have a weird sense of humour!! you have asked this question before and a few odd ones like it
Very strange but in an odd way kinda funny!
2006-12-21 13:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would **** her tha hell up cause if u love someone that much and u did that 4 her and then when u did that she should of known that u loved her alout. if i tould my bf that i was a lesbian and i wonted him 2 cang his sex he would say hell no and then he would brake up with me 4 being a lesbin. i thank if your that sweet i thank that a girl would love u even if u have a puzzy insted of a coak.i hope that u find someone that is way beter that that little *****.
2006-12-21 13:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by TRINITY K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so funny!!! HAHAHAHA You like to make up stories don't you. I just read the rest of your questions. The one with the carrot is is the grossest!!!
2006-12-21 13:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Randa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋