there is this guy that i lvoe to death . and he says he loves me and i beilve him . im scared to loose him to some other girl . she has a boyfriend but she tends to talk to him and call him hunny. and stuff and it gets me so jealous . should i be jealous or should i no .
2006-12-21 05:03:23 · 19 answers · asked by oh snapp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally aside from all of these other answers I would be jealous too in my opnion jealousy is somthing that some just feel and some do not has nothing to do with age if you love and care about a person and you know that someone is flirting with them then its normal to be upset. My thing is the bi+ch got a man y does she have to flirt with yours? I mean if hes not your bf then thats different but if he is tell him he better talk to her cuz if thats your man and she does that especially in front of you that is very disrespectful and he would not like it if a man called you sexy or whats up baby etc.. good luck
2006-12-21 05:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Jealousy is way O.K.. It's a natural emotion you can not get rid of if you care about someone..
2) The question is: Do you have just cause for being jealous?
- You can't stop the other ladies from flirting with your man.. so get used to it..
- You can't expect him not to have girls that are friends.
3) What does matter is your boundaries for him (or any other guy you care about).
- You need to define your acceptable boundaries for his actions towards other girls... then, make them known and expect him to respect them.. In other words, find your balance point where you are o.k. with his actions... "he can go this far but no further"..
4) This won't change your being jealous with the other girls.. but like I said you can't do anything about that, so just don't worry about it... Girls will hit on him forever... He's with you isn't he.. so take it all for what it's worth.
- hope I helped.
2006-12-21 05:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should consider talking to him first. He will then explain whether or not he likes the other girl.Going to him first will prevent any confusion and then you can clear the problem before anything more occurs.
Or you could talk to her yourself. Tell her that she is flirting and she better dtop or else.
If neither of those options interest you I reccomend you ignore her, he chose you, NOT her, be happynot jealous.
2006-12-21 05:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Julita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to get jealous. But not to the point it's going to be destructive for you, him and your relationship. Jealousy is fear. You fear losing the guy. Remember the more emotional you are, the less control of the situation.
2006-12-21 05:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Confuse_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no use being jealous
just let it run its course
you'll find out if he really loves you
she could just be a really friendly person
some are like that, call everyone 'hunny' and 'baby'
2006-12-21 05:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Luc P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the same thing happened to me this week . but we worked it out with my girlfriend by talking, she told me that she was jealous and that she didn't like that so I went to the other girl and told her that is not rigth what she was doing that she was acting like a *****, because she had feelings for me too but what you should do is talk to your guy and explain him and if he loves you he will understand and work things out.
2006-12-21 05:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be, but if you and him arenot together (sounds like youre not, just friends who love each other), you cant really be jealous because hes not yours. maybe hes just playing games or trying to get you jealous to make a move or something. try talknig to him about it. good luck
2006-12-21 05:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by scrappy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... you have no exclusive commitment to this person. Besides, jealousy is pointless. If the person is not right for you, or has other interests, you should simply WALK AWAY!
2006-12-21 05:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by kbradbarfield 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you don't "lose" a guy. It is his choice and you can't stop that.
Why be jealous? Can he not talk to the opposite sex?
2006-12-21 05:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. I'd talk to him and let him know that while you dont mind if he's friends, you'd prefer if the pet names stopped.
2006-12-21 05:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋