I think i like his so much that i cant think clearly on my own, PLEASE HELP?
I think i am loving my head over him, what should i do, i need advice cause i cant think clearly anymore?
Should i go with him , HELP???
i met this guy randomly and we already went out to 3 dates, i really like him and seems like he likes me too.....recently we asked me to go to atlantic city with him for 2 days.....and i really wanna go, but i am not sure, if i should........especially now that he knows that i am a virgin.........i think the main reason i wanna go with him is because i really wanna try sex, and i am 22 now, so i think i could be a great start to my adult life,.....i know we probably wont be together for long, but i am very attracted to him now....so what do you think? should i go or not?? and how should i stay it to my parents , i am still living with them.....and they still think of me as if of a very good cathlic virgin girl.
2006-12-21 05:10:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GO! Have fun!
2006-12-21 05:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you are a very good girl still but you are only human
that's why what ever you decide just use protection I dont think your mom wants to hear about you wanting to have sex i know I dont want to hear that from my 20 year old and she stays with me and i know she is not a virgin. but i see no reason why you cant go to atlanta for those 2 days you can tell your mom it is with some friends they should understand because of your age just try to call them every min . that you can i would not mention that a guy is going with you somethings is just ment to be left no mentioned . but if you think you are not going to be with him long why give up something you can never get back. NEVER I wish i still had mine after all these years Ive been doing it so long dont even feel like I ever been a virgin before ..... anyway just use PROTECTION no matter how much he try to talk you out of it ..... and say I will take it out before i come it never works ...... just be safe
2006-12-21 13:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel like your on cloud nine or something it's the best feeling in the world to feel. But let's bring it down to reality for a minute. i know you really like him but there are morals involved. you need to know something about guys. if he knows u are a virgin and keeps pressuring the issue of sex to you girl! he's just gonna hit it and quit but if he's willing to wait when you are 100% ready then expect a serious relationship out of him. If you wanna to AC to have fun with him then have fun but you need to set up some boundaries with him. and as far as your parents go your grown your an adult and you are capable of making your own decisions.
2006-12-21 13:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by themakingsofme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, I hate it when parents want to put the labels on and make you feel bad for wanting something. You are an adult so if this is what you want, then go for it. Your parents will have to understand. Or you could tell them you are going on a trip with a friend. Come on, think like a teenager. Lie without telling a lie.
2006-12-21 13:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get to know him more you never know he can be frontin and be crazy or have a disease or a wife anything so get to know him better. and why end your virginity now wait until you are married save it for someone you truly love and that you know loves you. I think that you are moving way to fast. Remember once you lose your virginity you can NEVER get it back. There are so many reasons why you shouldn't do this you barely know him just slow down take your time don't let anyone make you do what you don't want to
2006-12-21 13:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by C.W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this question a couple hours back.
If you really think this is the right guy then you should go for it.
If you going to pop your cherry with the right guy (not someone who will dump you in a couple weeks) your parents will understand and feel proud for you since you made the right decision.
2006-12-21 13:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by SPORTS GUY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure..I would personally wait since you have only had what, 3 dates? Get to know him better before traveling away from town with him. Some guys are great actors, coming from a guy.
2006-12-21 13:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Flames Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear that Atlantic City has some great grammar classes. I think you should go and think of attending one. God Look!
2006-12-21 13:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lilbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, your a 22 year old virgin Catholic girl?
Forget him, give me a call!
Seriously, if you are having doubt about yourself then don't go. If all your doubts are about what others think....
2006-12-21 13:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go. Just don't say to your parents "Hey, I'm off to Atlantic City to screw some guy!"
2006-12-21 13:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a wedding ring on your finger from him?
Start there.
You have your virginity, give it to your husband, not some jerk.
2006-12-21 13:12:08 · answer #11 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋