2006-12-21 05:04:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
before you marry him make sure he is the person you can see yourself grow old with :o)
2006-12-21 05:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that being married is very rewarding but often difficult. Just understand that you are both different so always remember that. Never go to bed without resolving any fights you have! Resolving doesn’t mean everything is fixed but that you both remind each other you still love each other no matter what. Tell him you love him EVERY DAY! Always set time aside to be with each other and time to do things as individuals. Oh, and get two TV sets you will rarely agree on the TV. And lastly, divorce is never an option unless he is abusing you or cheating on you. You are making life commitment and your children will thank you for that. And someday when you are both old together you will be really glad you worked things out all those years.
2006-12-21 05:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by mikearion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never understood the need to get married and invite the government into your private relationship. Why pay to hook up with someone only to end up paying to break up with them. I would love to believe in fairy tales and the happily ever after bit. So, with that said I say go out and sew your wild oates. Have some free sex for the last time. Get trashed and have a great time. Then at your wedding only have 1 glass then water for a few hours then 1 final glass. Stay sober there and be prepared to work very hard to make your relationship work. I wish you the very best. I hope your "Happily Ever After" works out for you.
2006-12-21 05:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by mauiniki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok take in a deep breath and calm down. You left out some major details. What do you think isn't quite right here?Take a piece of paper and write down Pro's and Con's and list what you love about him in the Pro's and things you don't like about him in the Con's. Be honest! Then read your answers. I hope this helps you to make a decision.
2006-12-21 05:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to sit down and talk to him honestly and openly. He may have questions and just not want to say anything. You must be able to tell each other anything and work it out. If you cannot even talk to him honestly, then you do not need to be marrying him. If you are religious, then seek pre-marriage counseling from the clergy. If you you are not, then you can seek couples counceling from a therapist. But talk to him first.
2006-12-21 05:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Patrinka E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you cannot get life answers from people on yahoo. You are asking questions that will determine the rest of your life to a bunch of strngers through only a few words. Seriously.
2006-12-21 05:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by misscongeniality711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...i haven't even read your other questions but that last line really said something. "go through with this" marriage isn't something you go through. it's a bond between two people that is wanted equally on both side. it's not like eating a bowl of raw cow brains. if you are having doubts, that's always a first sign.
2006-12-21 05:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your other questions. You sound young and definitely not ready to marry anyone. Take your time.
2006-12-21 05:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself "is this what I really want." I think if you are questioning marriage then you already know the answer.
2006-12-21 05:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question..Do you love him enough to live with him as his wife? Dont do anything if you have questions.
2006-12-21 05:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋