2006-12-21 05:13:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Red flags: those little comments made by the other person signaling that something is not quite right. They also include certain characteristics and behaviors that can be a sure tip off that there are issues worth further consideration before pursuing any kind of a relationship.
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2006-12-21 05:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, normally the red flags are seen even before the actual relationship begins. I check him constantly during the courting stages. If he is anything less than gentle, caring and understanding, I run. The biggest red flag is a guy that tries to go too far with me too soon, and I hate to be strong-armed ion the process. I also think becoming to dependent too soon calls for a "see ya later" conversation. It tells me right away that he will be demanding and overly jealous.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-21 05:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Starlight 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. When a man can't keep a JOB, or has one and doesn't strive for a more successful position.
2. When he doesn't show you the love you need
3. When his values, morals, are not similiar
4. If he pays more attention to his clicker than anything else
5. If he doesn't take care of himself, his belongings, etc. (hygiene) included...
6. If he clings to mommy more than he should
7. If he talks more to his friends than he does you.
8. If he is not innovative, and blessed between the sheets...
2006-12-21 05:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by momof3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any of the following phrases are uttered within the first six months of the relationship.
"I still live with my parents"
"I only get drunk on the weekends"
"I only gambled my paycheck away and stayed out all night because I got drunk because you made me mad"
"You looked at me wrong and it made me mad"
"My ex is psycho"
"You only try to look hot to attract other men"
"I am not attracted to you as much because you don't keep up you looks the way you used to"
"I only lied to my ex because she was a b@tch"
"I am going to stop taking you out to eat when I go because your jeans are looking to tight on you".
"I wouldn't have cheated on my ex if she had only (fill in the blank)".
"My wife and I have an open marriage"
"Gee whiz, we just had sex last month...I am not a machine!"
"My wife doesn't understand me"
"Can I borrow $1,000 because I am behind on my truck payments and they are going to repossess it if I don't have the money by tomorrow"
"My car is the most important thing in my life; it is an extension of me"
"Women having orgasms is overrated"
"Is that blue thing you are wearing new? (sexy lingerie being the "new blue thing"? Do you still have the tags and receipt so you can return it?" I lost a bundle playing pool with my buddies and need gas money for the rest of the week."
2006-12-21 05:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your partner is unwilling to compromise, they're overly jealous, they're argumentative, they nit-pick and look for things to complain about...it's really up to you. Whatever your partner does that you know you cannot live with is a red flag.
2006-12-21 05:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Heather C 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If....
he's rude to waitresses or sales clerks
he belches and farts and laughs about it
he is late or doesn't do what he says he'll do
he makes no effort to get to know my friend and family
he flirts with other girls in front of me
he calls me names--even if he's joking
2006-12-21 05:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by schweetums 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If my man went to strangers on the internet to ask about our relationship.. instead of talking to me directly.
2006-12-21 05:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by girlgriffin711 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That Gut Feeling
Feeling a need to be someone you're not to be accepted by anyone.
2006-12-21 05:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your instincts.
if that isn't enough for you, then if you can't trust them, its not going to work. trust is hard to build, and especially if you have a reason not to trust them, that'll be hard to get over.
also, if youre constantly arguing about things, its only going to get worse (and i know that from experience).
2006-12-21 05:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the first flag is if he doesnt open the door, or pay. next is if he is controlling. and finally, if he doesnt listen
2006-12-21 05:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Syd 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋