Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

2006-12-21 07:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Singles & Dating

If I decided to have a small outdoor wedding, on my own land, with only family and close friends (max 20 guests) what should I expect to spend if you don't include the price of the brides dress or any of the clothes (bridesmaid and groom and grooms men) or the rings.
I will need chairs, flowers, someone to perform the ceremony, etc.
I don't have a lot of money to spend, so can anyone tell me about how much I will have to save for a small wedding?

2006-12-21 07:54:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what is this, and how can i stop it from happening?

2006-12-21 07:53:30 · 32 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 07:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by Cowgirl Joe 2 in Singles & Dating

I hope it was exspensive

2006-12-21 07:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, so at school, we have this secret santa thing. and as fate would have it, i'm her secret santa. now my plan was to give her a necklace with a heart shaped diamond as her final gift of the week and asking her out as i presented the necklace. is this a good idea, and if there are any other suggestions, PLEASE LET ME KNOW!! and please be realistic/serious. i REALLY, REALLY, REALLY care about this girl, so send me feedback. thanks a lot.

2006-12-21 07:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How often do you tell your spouse you love them? How often do you take the time for each other? Please be honest this is not a joke!!

2006-12-21 07:52:31 · 25 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this guy ever since i was 7, and now i am 16. We started to share our secrets a while ago, maybe 3 years ago. A week ago i told him that i started to like a certain girl,that i fell in love with her.I had a fight with this girl a year ago. I started to get my friendship with her restored, hoping for more.
I gave her messenger id to my best friend, because it`s like a ritual for us, he gives me all his contacts also. Or used to.But i found out with disgust that he started to flirt with her immediately after i gave him the id !!! He said that he will help me get her, but instead HE flirts with her. I am very worried, as the new year`s eve party is fast approaching, the both the backstabber and the girl i love are invited.I`ll be there also. I`m sure that he will try to get her for himself. He is much of a pimp, he always gets any girl he wants. I am not as talented as him with girls. Why the hell does he want exactly the girl i fell in love with??? THE BASTARD ... "bestfriend" :(

2006-12-21 07:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by Pax2U 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...i like a this guy. and he likes me back. i asked him out twice. the first time...i found out about his girlfriend..so im like okay...i'll wait...1 week later they broke up. i waited a week and i asked him out again. this time...he said he'll think about it and no answer. so i'm just like okay then...but now my feelings are just too strong for him. i want him but its like...theres something that holding him back or something. i don't know. but should i tell him how i truly feel? like...the way he makes me feel and all that?

2006-12-21 07:52:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like somebody but one of myfriends also likes him. she has a boyfriend though. should i ask him out?

2006-12-21 07:52:20 · 15 answers · asked by preppy ana cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

Witch is unusually for ohio do you think eventally we will get a snow storm? I would Love some snow itis winter without it.

2006-12-21 07:52:19 · 15 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

im goin to the movies w/ this girl today and we decided that it would be better if we just stayed friends but i still really like her. so i was wondering how i should act. should i put my arm around her or just sit and watch the movie? will she care if i put my arm around her? help me please. im a little confused.

2006-12-21 07:51:39 · 30 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Singles & Dating

The other day i was talking to this boy i like, and i told him i was going to let go of us for good because we haven't seen each other and haven't really gotten along for about a month. He told me That Me letting go didnt feel right and thats not what he wanted. So I Told Him We could talk about it in the next week. Well everytime after that day i would ask him if he would like to hang out, And he would say he was busy..EVERYTIME. Then yesterday he basically told me not to talk to him anymore. So I then erased his name out of my phone and deleted him from my Msn. I dont know if i should leave him alone for a while and then try and talk to him.If so, how long? Or if i should just forget about him and try to move on...If so, how do i do that? Please Help...I Appreciate It!

2006-12-21 07:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by JessikaT 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-21 07:51:14 · 16 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

to have sex or eat a kebab?

2006-12-21 07:51:04 · 24 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Singles & Dating

I've always been the one to take care of my mom, never her me. And I'm tried & I'm sick of it. Mostly because right now I could really use some TLC myself. So Last month I told my mom that I was having a really tough time & I was going need some extra care. She was so excited about it. So far all she has done is seriously hurt me. On thanksgiving morning she decided to let me know I was putting on weight mostly in my butt area & it was getting out of control, I was fat & how could I do that to my boyfriend? Now I will admit in the last 2 months I've put on 10 pounds (all of which I've lost now) I was stressed I started eating. So now every time I pick up something to eat around her. She goes, 'I don't think you want to eat that,' I'M NOT OVER WEIGHT!!!! She is constantly harassing me, I realized that every time I spend time around her I feel like crap about myself I go home & cry my eyes out. I'm very frustrated. And I don't want to be around her poison for Christmas.

2006-12-21 07:49:19 · 10 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family

subconsciously or consciously...do you fall into love,lust whatever with the first person that falls into your path...providing they are alright...or do you find that you go for the unattainable...or the very difficult catch..............?

maybe its because you crave love...or because you are afraid of it???...maybe you do neither...just asking...;0)

2006-12-21 07:49:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my close friends boyfriends is cheating on her. He has at least 3 different lovers that the whole town knows about. I know it, She knows it, everyone knows it! Yet, she refuses to do anything about it, because "there isn't enough proof"


How can i convince her to leave him!? or should i just let her keep looking like the idiot and make her own mistakes..

2006-12-21 07:48:56 · 36 answers · asked by Catalyst 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

in a girl...that is

2006-12-21 07:48:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i've liked for a while and have made chit chat with for months finally asked me out over winter break. We went out, had a great time, and he tried to have sex with me but "couldn't". I thought he just wanted to hookup but he called me the next day, and the next and we hungout 3 days in a row and went on real dates. He said "where have you been all my life" at one point. What do you guys think is this guy's motive, sex or more?

2006-12-21 07:47:55 · 2 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 07:47:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I am an attractive guy, but when I'm out in public, I dont go hollering at every girl I see with a pretty face and good body. It's not a shyness thing, but I sometimes wait for a woman to make conversation with me. It's been that way since I was 18, and i'm 22 now. Do you think I should change this demeanor, or stay the same?

2006-12-21 07:47:40 · 9 answers · asked by cloud10muzik 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of almost 6 years got infatuated with an older woman when on a trip abroad, came home and broke up with me. It's been over a month and I'm learning to live again, taking baby steps. He's really infatuated with her and is developing the relationship, although it has no future. He can't see it right now, it is only a matter of time before it hits him.
I just need some advice on how do you get over the pain and how do you pick yourself up again and move on to something better? I have found an apartment for myself already. I don't have a lot of friends here since I moved from another country 2 years ago.
And for some stupid reason I want him to realize at some point what mistake he'd made.

2006-12-21 07:47:27 · 6 answers · asked by moonylola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is being so mean! she wont let m get on my msn or quizilla. she changed the password and wont tell me! she is mad at me for no reason.

2006-12-21 07:47:26 · 11 answers · asked by gothgirl17 1 in Friends

i kinda feel jealous of my bf.yeasterday he whent out with hes m8s and today hes with hes best m8 who is also a guy but he doesnt see him that much.im at home bored with nothink todo.he rang me for only 10 min not long ago and i realy miss him.i live 1 hour 30 min from my bf and i see him only on saturdays cause he has school weekdays.how can i not be jealous of him when he goes out with hes m8s,he doesnt go out with them alot but when he does im always at home and my friends are always to busy.

2006-12-21 07:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if I said cut your hair off i pay you 100 dollar's what would you do that for money, and what would you not do for money?

2006-12-21 07:46:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has a distinctly leonine appearance. He's 16 years old, about 5 foot 10, is pretty well built, and paradoxically short yet thick and shaggy blond hair, almost like a lions mane, not to mention his mutton-chop sideburns. In short, he looks like a teenage version of the X-Men villain Sabretooth. I've always had unusual taste in men, but would you find someone who looks like this attractive? Personally, I think the feral look is really hot, but I'd like some other women's opinions.

2006-12-21 07:45:53 · 23 answers · asked by hottie_spaniard 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is 18 and she is a very big girl. She is 205 pounds. She told iam to big to go inside her. Any advice on how to over come this deal?

2006-12-21 07:45:28 · 7 answers · asked by yummy_tummyus 1 in Singles & Dating

he has shifted his house n changed his number... plz tell me how to contact him.he is not replying to my mails too... and he have not disclosed our relationships to any1 of his friends.. n i dont know any friend of him.. through which i can get his contact detail..... plz plz plz help me out...

2006-12-21 07:44:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

know its sick and wierd but we can't help feeling this way about each other. I mean even though we are cousins we can't fall out of love. I feel for him deep and I haven't felt like that about any other boy before. I am 16 and my cousin is 21 and I have loved him like forever and I wasn't planning to tell him that I love him romantically until he told me that for some reason he gets jealous whenever he sees me with guys. The only thing we have ever done was kiss once and it was scary. I want to tell my family but he thinks that we should keep it a secret. Please I'm confused and need help!

2006-12-21 07:44:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating