The other day i was talking to this boy i like, and i told him i was going to let go of us for good because we haven't seen each other and haven't really gotten along for about a month. He told me That Me letting go didnt feel right and thats not what he wanted. So I Told Him We could talk about it in the next week. Well everytime after that day i would ask him if he would like to hang out, And he would say he was busy..EVERYTIME. Then yesterday he basically told me not to talk to him anymore. So I then erased his name out of my phone and deleted him from my Msn. I dont know if i should leave him alone for a while and then try and talk to him.If so, how long? Or if i should just forget about him and try to move on...If so, how do i do that? Please Help...I Appreciate It!
2006-12-21 07:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by JessikaT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry this happened.
You could try to talk to him again, but I think he manipulated the situation to save his pride (ie..he broke off the relationship not you). For now I would just drop it, I think he will be mean to you and probably won't even understand why he is acting the way he does.
Try to move on, the only healer I know here is time and possibly keeping busy.
2006-12-21 07:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by tantiemeg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bruised his ego and he wants to make you think that he is fine without you. But it sounds like you wanted to cool things anyway. I would just let go for a time and move on but I would still be really nice and treat him like a good friend. Over time he will come around and be more relaxed about everything. The more you try to talk to him about it, the more he will back into his cave. Just relax and let him work it out his own way. I wouldn't erase all his numbers though. You may still end up being good friends.
2006-12-21 15:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in life if you ever have a big question like this you will be best to leave him alone. When you starting fighting for relationships they become bad at your age. leave the stressful relationships alone get out there and have fun. remember the female has the power over the men and do not fall for the jerks or a--holes they will make you feel bad about yourself. the best guys to date are the ones who are in the mediocre crowd not tremendously popular and not a dork or geek. Have fun and stay young
2006-12-21 15:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just forget him he doesn't want a relationship with you.... go out and have fun with your friends and maybe you will meet someone new....... it wouldn'y have worked out either way because of the way you felt..... So just be with friends and have a good time that is what life is about when you are young no need in being all tied down so early
2006-12-21 15:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one, I would move on. He's immature, and prefers to be seen as he dumping you than viceversa.
There are other boys out there that will like to be with you, or you can just try to be some time by yourself and your friends, don't worry too much.
2006-12-21 15:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He got tired of waiting and simply made your mind up for you. He probably has a bruised ego so he's gonna be a jerk about the whole thing. Unless you really regret what you said to him about letting it go, let it go.
2006-12-21 15:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you should just let go until he decides what he wants you can move on ,But about the time you think you are over him thats when he decides he wants you.So make up your mind wether you are ready or you are just maybe going to take a break fro him a while.Good Luck
2006-12-21 16:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to act like a Jerk let him. By himself....
Leave him alone. All the way alone. If he really wants to be with you he'll come back. Trust me it always works...
Let him miss U.
2006-12-21 16:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kier22_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He stopped you from ending it with him, just so he could turn around and reject you the week after. Just tell me one thing: why would you want to give someone as shallow and vindictive as that a second chance?
2006-12-21 15:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him.
He is dealing with it.
Let him deal with it, don't dangle the relationship in front of his face. That'll just make him hate you.
After some time, hopefully you two can approach each other as friends.
2006-12-21 15:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋