i kinda feel jealous of my bf.yeasterday he whent out with hes m8s and today hes with hes best m8 who is also a guy but he doesnt see him that much.im at home bored with nothink todo.he rang me for only 10 min not long ago and i realy miss him.i live 1 hour 30 min from my bf and i see him only on saturdays cause he has school weekdays.how can i not be jealous of him when he goes out with hes m8s,he doesnt go out with them alot but when he does im always at home and my friends are always to busy.
2006-12-21 07:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i get upset i don't have any friends here and my boyfriend has lots ot sucks terribly...
just try not to harp on him too much it's not his fault
2006-12-21 07:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You NEED to get a life and I don't mean that in a bad way. Don't take this the wrong way but you sound a little too dependent on him. Have you told him how you feel? You could find a comprise when you tell him about feeling lonely. He could agree to spend time with you every other weekend. Or he could even take you along with him on a night out. If your friends are (always) too busy for you I would advise you to go out and make new friends. It's a shame sitting at home being jealous. Remember that jealousy is not appealing and it might even put your boyfriend off seeing you pout. Cheer up and try to plan fun things!
2006-12-21 08:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Tantalizing Dutch Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out by yourself and make new friends o hang out with... Not his fault that his friends want to go out and you can't be with him........ Why don't you try going up to his place on Friday and staying with him until Sunday evening.... that way you have 3 days with him and won't feel so left out........
That is what me and hubby did before we got married I would go to his parents house and stay from friday to sunday and then back home... we started that when I was a freshman and married each other in the 10th grade he was a senior and now we live together.....
Or get some hobbies like crafts, reading, arts something
2006-12-21 07:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should 6+ this very same thing to a Psyiciatist or a psychologist. It's not a bad thing that you're sharing this, because you can get help for it. Don't go doing anything to make your wish come true.
2016-05-23 06:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Shivani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, I can relate to you all the way. my boyfriend is always with his friends constantly, and he even acts like he has the time of his life with them, most of my girlfriends ( friends) are far away in college, and its hard to al get together, but my boyfreind hardly calls me all together, its very rare to hear or talk to him for awhile and when I am on the phone with him, he rushes me off, don't feel bad. let him have alittle fun., and he better make it up to you!!! All on Saturday. I think it's alittle normal to feel jealous, but not so much, I'm sure he misses you. Because I miss my boyfriends so much, and he is in the military ( U.S.M.C.) and when he leaves for the weekend, its hard for me, and i love him so much, I know how you feel....guys will be guys, and I hope you will find strength! God Bless!
2006-12-21 08:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find your own diversions, but you have to pick fun stuff you like so that you don't notice the time you are away from him. Fill your life up with things you like to do, friends you like to hang out with and positive plans for your future, it'll help a lot!
2006-12-21 07:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A range of problems there.
Do not be jealous...it screws you up but gets you nowhere.
You bf ought to have mates of his own sex.
Do not strat to get too entangled too soon.
You have a life to live.
Mix with yourgirlfriends, too,
2006-12-21 08:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u love him? if so u shouldnt be jealous. Jealousy is just another form of mistrust obviously you think that him being with his is going to make him cheat or do sum thing stupid. don't get to hype over it i bet he's wishing you could be there right now.
2006-12-21 07:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Yung and in Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could spend the spare time learning how to write properly? Just an idea...
2006-12-21 07:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by spookspook88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby. why on earth are you jealous? cos your left stuck at home? thats not his fault is it?! read a book or summat.
2006-12-21 07:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋