ok...i like a this guy. and he likes me back. i asked him out twice. the first time...i found out about his girlfriend..so im like okay...i'll wait...1 week later they broke up. i waited a week and i asked him out again. this time...he said he'll think about it and no answer. so i'm just like okay then...but now my feelings are just too strong for him. i want him but its like...theres something that holding him back or something. i don't know. but should i tell him how i truly feel? like...the way he makes me feel and all that?
2006-12-21 07:52:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I first met my wife I had to ask her out 3 times before I got a yes, at least you got a no and a maybe, I got no the first two times. When I asked the third time she finally said yes, 6 years later we got married, and now 2 years after that we are as happy as ever, definitely worth the stress and humiliation of being rejected twice, and if she had said no the 3rd time I'd have waited and then tried again. Go for it, if you like him that much it's worth the risk.
2006-12-21 07:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by tommyguard3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let it be for now, you don't want to seem needy as this will only push him away. Give him time and space, he did just get out of a relationship. Since he knows you like him, he should come to you at this point. Trust me, don't be me, just wait it out and try to focus on other things.. So in other words, if you were the last one to try and make a go of it, he has to be the one this time.
2006-12-21 15:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before telling him, be sure you are prepared for any answer. I mean a negative answer. If you are ready to accept even a definite "NO", than go ahead and talk to him. Your chances are 50 - 50. If the answer is Yes, bless you! If it is No, OK, you know that possibility existed and you accept it with dignity. This is just to protect you from suffering since a no answer catches us unprepared and this, hurts. Rationalize! And good luck.
2006-12-21 16:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that's a very bad idea. If this boy likes you he will come around and ask you out. If he's not interested you do not want to push it. Do not try to make him jealous or anything. Best idea is for you to just live your normal life and see what happens - who knows what great guy may be out there that you haven't met.
2006-12-21 15:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by seblexie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God yes!! yes yes yes!! There is nothing worse than sitting around years later wondering what life woulda been like if you told him your true feelings. My advice is not to expect anything back from him after you tell him. don't expect him to feel the same way, don't expect a reaction outta him....NOTHING!! Just say it, get it off your chest and move on to the next subject.
2006-12-21 15:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tyi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him some time to get over the girl...he sounds like a decent guy that doesn't just forget about a girl in a week and hook up right away. just wait it out another week or so. hang out more with this asa friend. are you sure he likes you in that way? i don't hear anything about him saying this to you or asking you out. just wait...and then ask him what he thinks. worst case scenario he says no...but give him a little space now to get over his break up.
2006-12-21 15:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not yet sounds to me like its too soon you might scare him off you should start out by being the best friend you can a lot of really good relationships are based on friendship first.
2006-12-21 15:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG you have to talk this out.... he likes you too so he shouldn't have you waiting just because he knows you will! whats holding you back if the fact your afraid of what he'll say, but you have to take that chance & talk to him, otherwise you will be conained with thoughts of him. its just you have to get this weight of your shoulders. tell him how you feel about him.
2006-12-21 15:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, sorry to say it, but I don't think he likes you. I think he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings though. I think you should ask him one last time, and see what he has to say. If he doens't give you a definite yes, then I'd say move on.
2006-12-21 15:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sit down and have a tlak with this dude abt whats obviously holding him back
maybe if u can figure that out, then you can move on to the next step
if he doesnt want to go out with u..then sorry...but its better to end ur feelings now then it would be when they are tooo strong for this guy
best of luck to u
2006-12-21 15:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by HS Sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋