Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

Hi, my hubby and I were both divorced before we met and both had a child from the previous marriage. I have custody of my son but he gave his mom custody of his girl when she was 6 months old (now 6 years). 2 years ago when we met we would go visit her at his mom's house but she never allowed her to call me mom (even though my son calls him dad) and would not let us see her outside of her home or church. My hubby's job caused us to move several hours away about a year ago. A few months ago his ex wife wanted custody and his mom started demanding we move back, we didn't. Now when we asked to visit with her for xmas his mom says we shouldn't bother and that she will be with her mother. She sent a really ugly email about how he abonded her and she doesn't want her to ever be hurt (although we weren't allowed to see her much before anyway and really I think it is all about his mom not liking me) Now my husband is all upset and all I can think is to tell her where to stick it...

2006-12-13 12:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just found out that my now ex boyfriend cheated on me a second time,so i broke up with him,but i really loved him i gave up everything for him.my family,friends,everything,so my question is how do i go on with out him.i know i dont want him back cause once a cheater always a cheater.but its been two days now and i thought i would be ok but im starting to feel lonley.what can i do to make myself feel better???

2006-12-13 12:41:50 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbell85 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy mentions to you in conversations, like talking a little dirty like when i say "f u" to him as a joke and then he says maybe later and a wink...does this mean he wants sex, or he likes me?

2006-12-13 12:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend from school and i would like to help her. her parents are divorced and she has gone through some tragic times with her dad. now her mom won't stop crying and yelling at her. and she is thinking about running away or suicide what could i tell her to do before something really bad happens? pls help.

2006-12-13 12:39:51 · 12 answers · asked by roxy r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to the conclusion of the book that I'm writing.

Any suggestions ? When I do it myself I find that I reach the climax and at that very moment I lose the sensations.
It's getting very frustrating. Any suggestions?

2006-12-13 12:38:56 · 16 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 12:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by foxy lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I cry about everyday wishing I was gone and out of this life. My parents have practically no money. I want to get a job to support them, but I'm only 13. They aren't happy like before any more. They owe alot of debts and can't get another job with their little education cuz they went 2 the u.s. a litttle after highschool. They work hard though. They r also sick. So they can't even buy much medicine. Right now I have straight As and learn as much as I can 2 help my parents in the future, though it might be 2 late. Wat should I do?????????? I feel so depressed.

2006-12-13 12:38:23 · 12 answers · asked by twistt123 3 in Family

i just changed it like a coupla hours ago, n im wondering if i should change it back

2006-12-13 12:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can you know that they like you, aside from the guy walking up to them, what are some signs or what are ways they let guys know they like em??

2006-12-13 12:37:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is not talking to me for no apparent reason. I'm sick of trying to mend what ever is broken. Should I just go on with my life or should I try harder to be her friend?

2006-12-13 12:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by Andaiye J 2 in Friends

How should I approach a girl that I like. She gave me some body langauge but how should I approach her?

2006-12-13 12:36:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for 3 weeks now and he said he wanted something sentimental for christmas...WHAT DO i GET!?!?

2006-12-13 12:36:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

maybe some ways to forget about him

2006-12-13 12:35:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok I'm 16, he's 16 and we've been friends since about 8th grade. We just talked once in a while at school. I'm in 10th grade now btw. We started becoming really good friends this year and now he's one of my best friends. We watch movies at my house and he always sits really close to me. he also comes over to play xbox. always comes up behind me and hugs me. picks me up. sits by me at lunch and before school even though he could be sitting by his guy friends. he also calls me about every other night just to talk and see what I'm up to. How do I know if he likes me more than a friend? Because I'm starting to really really like him.

2006-12-13 12:34:54 · 13 answers · asked by sportzchic09 2 in Friends

Need your help?
i did somthing so wrong and hate myself for it i even cut myself for it . i cheated on my boyfriend by kissing another guy and i betrayed my friend, she had crush on him i know my boyfriend desrve better, but when im around my boyfriend, he makes so happy i guss my head and my heart want to diffent things. i know he dervses better but if dumb my bf. ill be so lost. i keep asking myself why did do it but i dont why? enyways i decide to stop myslef going to partys and hanging around guys

2006-12-13 12:34:39 · 14 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend who i have known since fourth grade is going out with the guy i like and he likes me but is still going out with her!

she loves him but he told me he doesnt like her and me and him have been buds since kintergarten! we never lie to each other.
plus the guy hugs me like once every hour and says he loves me every day!

the problem here is that i like the guy but i dont want to hurt my best friends feelings and tell her the truth about him! me and him went out last year but then my mom decided she didnt like him so i had to break up with him.

ive always liked him though. sombody please tell me how to break it to my best friend without hurting her.

he said that tomarrow hes gonna break up with her and i know he will but i know it will hurt her.

shold i stay with him or go to the guy i liked before him who still is in love with me?????????????

somebody please help me got through this without any hearts broken. if you can tell me how u got through it plz do!

2006-12-13 12:34:12 · 16 answers · asked by emu2013 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I liked back in 8th grade. I was bored 1 day & I wanted to know if his myspace name was his aim sn. So I put it on & 1 day his myspace name signed on(well his aim name too) I couldn't believe that it ACTUALLY worked!! So should I IM him?

2006-12-13 12:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by pkbabe87 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend's former husband has retired (at the age of fifty) and she has been told that, as a retiree, he does not have to pay child support. This is depite his consideral wealth and an almost obscene pension. Can this really be so?

2006-12-13 12:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by patriciaharrison9 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 12:32:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

out? Ignore him? I think my ego is more hurt than my feelings. I'm going to feel weird when and if I run into him but I don't want him to think he got the best of me.
I didn't know 34 yr old men act so childish.

2006-12-13 12:32:49 · 30 answers · asked by dodie j 1 in Singles & Dating

It can't cost very much, and it can't be sex. How would you do it?

2006-12-13 12:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law is coming for xmas, and will get to see her third grandchild for the first time. of course we are excited...but im have NO idea what to get her!
she lives in Hawaii, so she is used to exotic things...should i go that route? or try something different?

2006-12-13 12:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

Theres this boy I liked since the sandbox, you know we were buds and stuff since then and we're still now. But then he told me he liked me when we where kids and that he still does. So we hooked up after that, but...after we started going out he just says "I'm broken up with you.",
So how do you get over your first love and work on your new one.
Getting over a childhood love is so hard.

2006-12-13 12:30:56 · 24 answers · asked by Lil Naruto 2 in Friends

I HAVE MEET THIS GUY OVER THE PHONE AND WE HAVE BEEN TALKING FOR ABOUT 2 WEEKS AND WE HAVE MADE PLANS TO MEET REAL SOON AND I AM AFRAID THAT HE MAY NOT LIKE ME BECAUSE I AM NOT YOUR AVERAGE SIZE PERSON. I DID TELL HIM THAT I WAS NOT A SIZE 6 OR ANYTHING BUT HE SAID IT DIDN'T MATTER BECAUSE HE HAS GROWN TO LIKE ME FROM OUR CONVERSATIONS. DO ANYONE KNOWS IF THIS COULD ACTUALLY LEAD INTO A RELATIONSHIP? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2006-12-13 12:30:53 · 9 answers · asked by cynthia g 1 in Singles & Dating

i ws wit this guy and he cheated on me with one of my friends and now he wants me back and i dont know what to do becuz i cant stop thinking about him but the other thing is that he cheated on me wit my friend what should i do? should i giv him a chance?

2006-12-13 12:30:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright I've got one big zit and its between my eyebrows. Smack dab in the middle. So what do I do? Let it go away naturally? Its been there for 4 days. And I have a date this weekend.

By the way, I use clearasil every single day. And I'm an 18 year old senior boy in HS, if that makes a difference.

Thanks in advance.

2006-12-13 12:29:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 12:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

should i stick with it or give it up.

so the girl i love, told me friend maybe there is a chance for me in the future with her.... should i just give it up even though it iwll be very very hard because i basically love her. or should i stick with it, still be her best friend and wait for my chance if it ever comes. also should i try to drift away from that "best friend" stage and try to act more like the guy that wants her?

ps: she doesnt know my feelings for her, my friend just asked her what she thought of me for his own curiousity.

2006-12-13 12:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by ampedaboutit 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a best way besides going to a clubs or bars or going on a dating site. I am married and moved to my husbands city and don't have any friends between home and work my weekdays are busy but my weekends are very boring don't know what to do or who to talk to my husband is usually out for his soccer or business. pls help suggest

2006-12-13 12:26:17 · 5 answers · asked by sosoqueen 2 in Friends

YEP its called DAMNITOL and should be taken with lots of alcohol !

2006-12-13 12:26:09 · 4 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Friends