should i stick with it or give it up.
so the girl i love, told me friend maybe there is a chance for me in the future with her.... should i just give it up even though it iwll be very very hard because i basically love her. or should i stick with it, still be her best friend and wait for my chance if it ever comes. also should i try to drift away from that "best friend" stage and try to act more like the guy that wants her?
ps: she doesnt know my feelings for her, my friend just asked her what she thought of me for his own curiousity.
2006-12-13 12:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by ampedaboutit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have fun with her!
As long as you are having a good time and are free to go out with other girls why should you move on?
I realize that at this point in time you are not interested in other girls and only want her. If she told told your friend there is a chance for you in the future. Just remember the future is only one minute away.
Have you asked her out yet?
Take her to a movie and BUST A MOVE!
If she does not act favorably towards this.
Then you have your answer.
2006-12-13 12:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i pretty much know from experience that you should follow your heart. You really can't MAKE yourself stop loving someone.
It might help to tell her that you like her, or at least drop the hints. You have to be careful though because sometimes this can make the friendship awkward. Maybe just start dropping hints that you like her and if you're gettin the vibe back, go for it!
2006-12-13 20:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. You should stick with her and continue to be her best friend, but at times act like a guy who loves her. Make sure she knos how you feel.
2006-12-13 20:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that over the time youve known her that you have gaind feelings for her and that you want to know if anything would ever beable to come of it.... if she says yes then its all good stick around and try to move SLOWLY away from the whole best friend thing if she says nothing it going to happen from it try your best to just move on and find someone else that isnt going to put you and keep you in the "friend zone"
2006-12-13 20:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by cade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think you should do but just remember this one thing - dont act like the guy she wants. Act like yourself dont try and be someone else just to get the girl you love, its hard i know but if they dont like you for who you are then I really dont think that its worth it. Good Luck
2006-12-13 20:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Matt A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first sentence says there is a chance in the future with her. Why don't you start working into the future then? Or was that a typo and you meant she sees no future with you?
2006-12-13 20:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Obvious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably knows now that you've posted your heart on the Web for the whole world to see.
Act exactly the same toward her as you always have. that's why she likes you!
2006-12-13 20:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by katwoman_2911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how you feel tell her to her face
2006-12-13 20:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by TaraKara3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋