out? Ignore him? I think my ego is more hurt than my feelings. I'm going to feel weird when and if I run into him but I don't want him to think he got the best of me.
I didn't know 34 yr old men act so childish.
2006-12-13 12:32:49 · 30 answers · asked by dodie j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, it was pretty bad..it didn't even last 2 minutes..LOSER!!
2006-12-13 12:41:51 · update #1
He used you. I'd say let him have it; tell him how you feel. Don't be nice to him, that is so terrible that he could even do that to you. Yell at him then leave it alone.
2006-12-13 12:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by tia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if a man's a dog don't think age is going to change that. Some are worst the older they get, they only get better at being their worst. If and when you see him, act like you don't even know him. Walk right past him, then you'll be satisfied. Like you said, it's your ego that's bruised not your heart so up the game on him. never deal with him again, the chase is better than the capture for him. He has moved on to another unsuspecting female.
2006-12-13 12:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by wildblackflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You learned a valuable lesson the hard way but don't even give it a 2nd thought. If you didn't try to call him and you run into him, act like it wasn't
that good anyway like I could have done better by myself. If you did try to call him, take the high road, hold your head high, he might have gotten what he wanted but he didn't get the best of you, your heart......
2006-12-13 12:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Hiqutipie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if u run into him act as if nothing happened, don't give him the benefit of the doubt, or just well, not sure how to explain myself but hopefully u kind of get what I'm trying say. Good luck
2006-12-13 12:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act normal. Say hello and make small talk. If you ignore him, he'll think that you're furious and disappointed. If you act normal and friendly, then he'll feel like a notch on your bed post. He might even ask you out again, at which time you can tell him "no, thank you."
2006-12-13 12:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a man, we all act childish. trust me. you don't want him to think that of you so, just act completely normal, even if you don't feel like that and you are screaming on the inside. act normal and he will be so confused, he might ask you out, he might think something was wrong with him, basically, passively you will have taked change and the upper hand. go for it, just play it calm when u do see him. don't go looking.
2006-12-13 12:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by andrew646 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dodie, I guess it depends how he reacts to you when you see him. Is this someone you would like to be with again. Did you ask him why he hadn't called? If avoids your eyes and looks elsewhere I would say. Walk away and try not to look back...
As far as childishness, we all are in one way or another.
2006-12-13 12:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool. don't let him see you sweat. if he approaches you, be cordial but peep his game. you already know that his intentions are not those with you at heart, so don't fall for his lines. don't give him a reason to believe you are easy and gullible. most importantly forgive yourself for making the mistake of being duped. things happen like that sometimes so just be more careful in the future. and wrap it up when you do the do.
2006-12-13 12:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The word "Jerk" comes to my mind.
No, 34 year old MEN do not act like this. 34 year old BOYS do!
You just picked a bad one.
2006-12-13 12:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men who do that only have one thing on their mind: sex. No strings attached. You should get over him and try to find someone who is more mature and ready to have an actual relationship.
2006-12-13 12:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess it's just a lay to him. so play the game back to him and if you see him treat him like just some other guy out there.
pretend nothing happend and he'll trip out.
remember it's better to have lost a love
than to love a loser!!
2006-12-13 12:39:05 · answer #11 · answered by ar_ayala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋