Theres this boy I liked since the sandbox, you know we were buds and stuff since then and we're still now. But then he told me he liked me when we where kids and that he still does. So we hooked up after that, but...after we started going out he just says "I'm broken up with you.",
So how do you get over your first love and work on your new one.
Getting over a childhood love is so hard.
2006-12-13 12:30:56 · 24 answers · asked by Lil Naruto 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've never stayed in one place long enough to be around someone for that long, but even so I've had my fair share of broken hearts. Everyone has, that's what makes life, well, life. Time will heal all wounds. And, as for childhood and love, it's all about trying new things and getting to know what you want. Everybody goes through it, hell I've been through it roughly ten times. It's not fun, I know, but you learn to move on and when you find someone new who you're ready to like or love, you'll know it. All I can say now is that don't spend a lot of time bumming over him, and however sad you may end up you have your friends to turn to. They'll help, and time will help, and you'll move one. There's no instant way to get over someone -- some say that alchohal is, but it's not. Just go out and do something fun, and you'll take your mind off of him for a while. Sure when you're done having fun the thoughts will come back, but they won't be as bad. They'll go away with time.
2006-12-13 12:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mobius 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Baby been there and done that.Sometimes u have 2 cry an cry hard just let it all out .Have ever seen the movie Something Gotta Give? That's what u think and that's how u will feel Until u meet somebody else and then u will look back an say 2 yourself i cried ova that fool sometimes we tend to get caught up.But keep trying and keep u guards up and don't b 2 hard on him there's still some good ones out here that looking for a good women.But that's why its not good to date someone whom u have been friends with a longtime u know to much about each other and the friendship want be be the same cause u r a couple now and not friends. But just like he did this to u somebody gonna do it to him .But most of all KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND MAKE SURE EVERY TIME U GO OUT YOU RE LOOKING DAMN GOOD.
2006-12-13 20:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by klo jones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are only two things that help you get over a broken heart.
The first is time - the heart mends, but time alone can never heal it completely. You'll always remember your first love.
The second is another love. That's not going to come knocking at your door. You need to get out and meet people - at church, at school, at community functions.
Go on-line, too, but beware. On-line relationships can be even more risky than face-to-face ones.
The good news is - the odds are extremely high that your broken heart will mend.
All the best.
2006-12-13 20:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by johnslat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. I've liked a girl for 7 years. I asked her out... she said no, and it really "really" hurt me. It took over a month to accept the fact that she doesn't like me. Or at least not the way I like her. But only 2 things can heal a broken heart. You either just have to let it heal on its own (a.k.a. Time), or find someone to replace that hole in your heart (FYI, it takes a really special person to get over a love that quickly). Good Luck.
2006-12-13 20:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A childhood love is just that -- something you had in childhood. But now you are an adult, you know yourself better, and you know what to look for in a mate. Think of your childhood sweetheart as your first love, but not your last. There is someone out there who will make your first love just a faded memory.
2006-12-13 20:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make new friends and change your routine. Your routine is probably accomodating time with him. The busier you keep yourself away from anything connecting you to him the more you will find yourself falling out of love. It is a slow process but it will happen. It sounds to me like he realized you are more of a sister to him so the love is genuine it is just a different type of love. He probably did not know how to deal with feelings so he got hurtful with you.
2006-12-13 20:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Alletery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a very hard thing to lose your first love but it means that there is someone twice better than him for you out there, also i heard somewhere that if you love something let it go and if it doesnt come back its cus it wasnt meant to be but if it does then its destitny, dont lose hope tho, just remember that they call it making love becuase love is something you have to work for.
2006-12-13 20:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make your mind up that you will get over it starting now. It won't happen right away, but the decision is what's key here. Say to youself, "I am going to get over this starting today" and be patient with yourself, there is no ruler to measure this by, so take it easy on yourself. You'll be okay once you decide that you will be. Good luck to you.
2006-12-13 20:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mysteri O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to get back out there and fall in love again. Maybe you/ll get your heart broken again. Fall in love again. If you're lucky, you'll get your heart broken lots of times before you find "the one", and odds are, you'll break a few hearts of your own. Do it, life is more fun that way.
2006-12-13 20:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard, but EVERYONE goes through it.
Hang out and use your friends as support to talk to and do stuff with. Just use it as a learning experience and before you know it another guy will come sweep you off your feet.
Stay strong and gl
2006-12-13 20:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by San DIego Chargers 21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋