i ws wit this guy and he cheated on me with one of my friends and now he wants me back and i dont know what to do becuz i cant stop thinking about him but the other thing is that he cheated on me wit my friend what should i do? should i giv him a chance?
2006-12-13 12:30:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta keep away from this guy. Next time he'll be smarter and cheat on you with someone you don't know.
2006-12-13 12:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT give him another chance. Once a cheater always a cheater. And what's really low in this situation is the fact that it was with your friend. If you mean anything at all to him then he wouldn't be cheating in the first place. You must not be good enough for him, that's why he cheated on you. You can find someone better than that, someone more caring and nice.
2006-12-13 20:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way and I'd be finding some new friends too. Do you really think that you would be able to ever trust this guy again? New and young relationships should be all about fun. You are not going to have much fun if you have to watch him like a hawk every time he's in the company of your friends or any other female for that matter!
2006-12-13 20:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Scotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No once a cheater always a cheater. You will find someone else you don't wanna get yourself stuck in the same situation you were in before with him cheating on you again and you being even more closer or attached to him you would just be even more upset. It will take time to get over him but you will eventually find someone else who respects you and doesn't cheat on you.
2006-12-13 20:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now...normally i'd say absolutely not. once a cheater always a cheater.
however
i was in the same situation. and i took my guy back.
hear me out.
we talked for a long time
i cried for a long time
HE cried for a long time
i laid down the law
he has treated me like gold oever since.
I think that helped him to realize how much he really loves me and how much i mean to him.
but do what you feel. If you can't forgive him dont do it. It was a scummy thing to do, and i never and WILL never forget. I've forgiven him, but i wont forget it, and i dont let him forget it either. he has to have some sort of consequence...
2006-12-13 20:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think that your friend is just as responsible for this situation? Now you have two negative elements to deal with. NO!
2006-12-13 20:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,,Latty b,,, you do what your heart tell you, But if he done it once he'll do it again it depeneds on how much you can take, and how much you want to be hurt, Don't wast your life on some one that wont be faithful, and if your young, you have time to make the right choice in your life, don't be in a big hurry
2006-12-13 20:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by bill_ray56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater! Kick him to the curb! You can do better than that!
2006-12-13 20:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him off your mind and move on. This relationship will only lead to heartache.
2006-12-13 20:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once bitten Twice shy.
Fool me once shame on you...Fool me twice shame on me!
Just think about that for a bit..
2006-12-13 20:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Luv my kitties♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋