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i did somthing so wrong and hate myself for it i even cut myself for it . i cheated on my boyfriend by kissing another guy and i betrayed my friend, she had crush on him i know my boyfriend desrve better, but when im around my boyfriend, he makes so happy i guss my head and my heart want to diffent things. i know he dervses better but if dumb my bf. ill be so lost. i keep asking myself why did do it but i dont why? enyways i decide to stop myslef going to partys and hanging around guys
2006-12-13 12:34:39 · 14 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your boyfriend. Tell him the whole heart and head situation. Tell him you didn't mean to hurt him because you love him. You know he deserves more but you want to be the one to make him happy. Tell him you're done doing all the stupid things you were doing like partying, etc. Ask him if there's anyway he can ever forgive you. If he needs time, give him time. Don't pressue him. He's probably really hurt so understand where he's coming from. Relationships should involve honesty and trust. If you love him so much you need to prove it to him. If he doesn't forgive you then you know why, you learn a lesson and you'll never do it again. Things happen for a reason. If he's not the one for you, someone else is.
2006-12-13 12:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop beating your soul. There is only one perfect person on this planet, and he is the president. Don't believe it? Just ask him. He is always right.
Now face it, EVERYONE makes mistakes. We get up, brush ourselves off, and face another day.Putting your mistakes in a jar and pouring alcohol into the jar to preserve the mistake forever, is not going to do anything for you except make you sick.
Cheating is NOT kissing another guy. Second, this is a boyfriend, not a man you are going to marry next week. If he cannot forgive you, NEXT! There is a lot other guys out there. Go back to the parties, and enjoy life. Mistakes will be made again.
2006-12-13 12:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously impulsive and don't have the ability to think things through before acting on them. It sounds like alcohol may have played a part here. When you drink, your ability to make a rational good decision goes out the window. This happens more than you know. Don't cut yourself because that would be stupid, and by the looks of your spelling, you need to hang on to all the smarts you got. Go to school and make yourself the woman you want to be, not this one that posted here today. Good luck!
2006-12-13 12:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mysteri O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 07:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by blumenkrantz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told your boyfriend your sorry? maybe you did it because he isn't giving you enough attention, anyway no one is worth you hurting yourself over, there are too many other men out there and if for some reason you and your boyfriend don't get back together you will find someone else. You deserve the best. good luck
2006-12-13 12:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you girl? Why do you keep asking yourself why did you do It? Stop!!!!! A kiss is a kiss. It isn't as if you took off all of your clothes and did it.
You just have to get a grip on yourself, it you didn't do anything serious, so serious that any one is going to kill themselves over it.
Now please stop punishing yourself.
2006-12-13 12:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have serious psychological problems if you're cutting yourself for sh*t like that. Lots of people do what you did and don't feel like it's the end of the world. You need therapy.
2006-12-13 12:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No committment was made and there are lots of other guys out there for replacement. Do not beat yourself up cause of mistakes it happens to us all. Life have better opportunities and awaiting for you to fulfill them.
2006-12-13 12:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell him. I know it hurts but explain to him tell him the situation and how u feel and what you're doing about it. Its better than him finding out someother way
the only reason i forgave my boyfriend for doing the same thing is because he was honest with me about it.
2006-12-13 12:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cut yourself over this....it may seem like the end of the world but its not...ask him to forgive you then forgive yourself. if he cant forgive you then hes wrong...everyone makes mistakes...just learn from them and try not to repeat them...things will get better with time.
2006-12-13 12:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by flmsgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋