Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

If your girlfriend called you at 10:00pm and said Oh my goodness my car is smoking from under the hood, I'm broke down, and I dont know what to do! What would you do? What would you say to her?

2006-12-07 03:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by ?born2lose? 5 in Singles & Dating

husband has been having 5-month affair, he has not kept it a secret in our town but has not talked to other family or long-time friends of ours for 6 months. For the past 5 months he has offered to live a 'parallel life' with me. He wants to have it all. He also tells me to not give up hope and that he still loves me. However, I cannot live this way. We have four children under the age of 4. I moved out over a month ago and he moved his 'sugar baby' and her little dog into our 1 million dollar house that is currently on the market (I moved out with the kids & dog in order to have the house not cluttered with toys, mess etc while in the selling mode & because of his anger/inability to deal with stress of kids . I am serving him divorce papers today because I see no other option. I want to send Christmas cards to family/friends with my new address/phone number so family/friends will know where me & the children are. Some don't know the situation, so how should I sign the cards??

2006-12-07 03:52:18 · 17 answers · asked by almostover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i express my feelings to the one that i love...

2006-12-07 03:51:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend and he has been asking for sex from after the first or second week. I am just not ready for that should I dump him or should I give it up for him?
I am Still a vergin

2006-12-07 03:51:44 · 34 answers · asked by Kare Bear 1 in Singles & Dating

It was a relationship that started off on a lie. He didnt tell me he had a girl until probably 3 months into the relationship. 6 Months later he was still seeing and having sex with his ex even though he said our relationship was serious and he didnt have those types of feelings for her anymore. I found out from a friend and not really from him. He would always hint that he was feeling a bit confused and sometimes the best thing for him to do would be to leave. I let him stay because he said he loves me and I didn't want to lose him either. I also cheated, kissed a guy at a club and confessed. He forgave me. It's nearly 9 months later. I've met his family, he's met mine, we spend a lot of time together. Do you think this relationship has the potential to last, even though it was started on a lie and even though he's been stepping out on me for months while he tries to resolve his issues with his ex? Or will it end? Sometimes I feel he's with me because I have my own place and he doesnt

2006-12-07 03:50:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl is big into religion, she's Aunt Jemimah's witness, and I am not, she always talks about this stinkin religion to me. How do I tell her I don't wanna her about it?

2006-12-07 03:50:06 · 6 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 03:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to surprise my husband with something special for his birthday any sugestions? by the way we have the same birthday...

2006-12-07 03:49:41 · 14 answers · asked by Itza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 03:48:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 03:48:46 · 14 answers · asked by behindthesmile22 2 in Singles & Dating

im in love with one of my best friends but i was stupid and broke up with him b/c i was scared that he was going to leave me b/c of something personal that happened between me and him. he got a new GF the next day to "cover up the wonds" of me leaving him. i cryed my heart out because i wanted him. now its been 4 months and him and "her" arnt together any more. he says he loves me back as only a friend and i dont want to be just that. today he got really pissed durning 2nd pd and i went chasing after him and finally found him. he was telling me he didnt want to talk about it and he kept pushing me out of the way and we both almost started crying. then i saw him after class and hugged him and told him that i will always love him and be there with him no matter what. but i dont know what to do. hes my life. i have even honestly tryed many times to kill myself but i then stop because if i died then i wouldnt have him in my after life. i need someones help.

2006-12-07 03:48:22 · 6 answers · asked by gods darker wing 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner went to his works christmas party last night, and told me he was going to be home by 12am, he didnt arrive on time so I locked him out, am i being to harsh?

2006-12-07 03:47:11 · 32 answers · asked by KnOwLeDgE_iS_PoWeR 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Women - what's the nicest thing that a man ever did for you?

2006-12-07 03:47:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you, UK, want for Christmas? Or who do you want ? Got a secret crush, or a desire for someone,
that does not know ? Hit me back. Let the best answer win.

2006-12-07 03:46:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 03:46:51 · 18 answers · asked by Violet B 1 in Weddings

When do you call your gf by her first name and when do you use pet names when addressing her? I ask this because my guy never uses my first name when addressing me, he always says pumpkin or baby. Atleast he did until recently. He left me an offline message and he said "I miss you_____"..using my name instead. Maybe I am over reacting and over analyzing it, but I wonder if there is something behind this? My son laughed at me and said females always think the worst, while most of the time the poor guy thinks everything is normal and ok . What do you guys say on this matter? THanks guys in advance.

2006-12-07 03:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by softlyinspired 5 in Singles & Dating

See, i've got this cliquemate who recently migrated..and the rest of us start noticing that she's changing in a 'very bad' way. I mean, i think she's been badass, even before she migrated! All she thought and talked about was her boyfriend, and she always gets us pissed off. She never spends time with us..nor does she make us feel that we're still her special friends. And now, she 'desperately' wants to attend this interaction, and she'll give it an all-or-nothing situation.

Gasp!
How do i deal with a bytch like her?? >.>

2006-12-07 03:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by S 2 in Friends

why is that men don't tell you when they like you, they make you think that there not interested, and then drop the bombshell when weve moved on to some one else!

2006-12-07 03:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is sex with love fading away due to everyone wanting instant gratification? Explain please.

2006-12-07 03:45:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 03:44:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so my best friend is in love with this guy but then her ex keep s pulling her away from him by saying things that arent true but she belives them then this other guy is tearing her away from both of them what should she do she needs help

2006-12-07 03:43:31 · 19 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2 in Singles & Dating

once I go out with someone I can't forget about him, even if we can only be friends, do u feel like me?

2006-12-07 03:42:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WTF! It's not like I was a jerk to him...I just said I wanted to be friends :(

2006-12-07 03:42:00 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Singles & Dating

still get their mummy to do their washing for them, if they are single and not loving at home?

2006-12-07 03:41:58 · 13 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married on December 16th and I really want to do something special for him, I just really need some pointers.

2006-12-07 03:41:45 · 12 answers · asked by halie_ga 1 in Weddings

2006-12-07 03:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ten yr.old daughter looks 15 and is attracting older boys. Thank god she is disgusted by this right now, But I know it's only a matter of time. And I remember how bad I was with girls, As a teenage boy, I tossed alot of B.S. to girls. And alot of them fell for it. And this scares me. Please, All Ideas are excepted.

2006-12-07 03:41:34 · 30 answers · asked by todd r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got engaged last night but instead of getting a diamond ring he gave me a white gold wedding band(which I love) . Has anyone else received a wedding band as an engagemnet ring?

2006-12-07 03:41:31 · 19 answers · asked by Clints_wench 4 in Weddings

i was sein somebody, then timepast he jus was jerky.. then i thought he jus wnted 2get in2 my pants. 2days ago i got a msg askin me wut i was doin? then i repnded & ask how his luvlife was, & how he was doin. he respnded bck sayin y do u ask me that. i repnded "bcuz i care 4u silly!!"i got a respnse sayin " f i tell u somethin u won't get mad" i said go ahead. he said not that i don't wnt a girl bcuz i do but right now wut i wnt is a friend with privlages.. i txt bck &said i rathr respct u then this ect.. then he jus txt bck say ok then well take care. then i txt bck sayin well takecare really & F i can i'll jus try to b here f u need somebody.really take care & knw ur limits& alwys remembr that D human heart see's wut D eyes R blind 2 & knws wut D mnd can't seem2 undrstan.ur vison will bcum clear only whn u can look in2 ur own heart.. i knw u guys will say >not worthit but i like2 b ahead of D game. wut are ur predctions of him calin?how shld i B toward him rathr than not trust?

2006-12-07 03:41:07 · 9 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Singles & Dating

Its been 8 months since I broke up with my husband, he tried to work things out 3 months ago but I was not ready, I was still hurt. Now I need him more than ever and I feel healed. I call him and e-mailed him and he is not responding. I love him, but am afraid he moved on. What can I do, hes all I want. I still love him like the de first day.

2006-12-07 03:40:14 · 23 answers · asked by lilis 1 in Marriage & Divorce