why is that men don't tell you when they like you, they make you think that there not interested, and then drop the bombshell when weve moved on to some one else!
2006-12-07 03:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your Generalizing. Please stop! BTW if you've moved on then whats the problem?
2006-12-07 03:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats how we do it, if we have all your attention, we see it as something desperate, but then when we see you with someone else or being happy with someone else or laughing when were not making you laugh, then we get jealous and want that attention again....its an f-ed up system...but thats how us guys react to those situations....your best bet is to find someone who is about you 100% and wont play games, cause playing games is so 5 years ago, lets all be honest with each other on how we feel, the world works better that way
2006-12-07 03:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by chrisj7682 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why we do that, but your right, I've even done that. I think maybe I done it because I didn't want to appear to be needy, over anxious or to seem too appreciative. Some reason us guys think that if we act too interested, that the females will take us for a ride or use us. ???? Anyways, that's my opinion.
2006-12-07 03:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sounds like a boy and not a man. A man knows what he wants and goes after it, even if it means being rejected. Better that you moved on.
2006-12-07 03:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never tell even if a woman sees someone else....but the main reason is....I fear rejection.....and I fear breaking up after dating a few days.....ya know...I still want to know upfront that the girl I am about to ask is gonna be my wife for the rest of my life.....kinda weird....I know
2006-12-07 03:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are players and only want women around for their enjoyment. If I like a lady, I let her know. If our friendship gets to the point I would to see her exclusively and would like for her to see only me, then I have "the talk" with her.
2006-12-07 03:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are afraid of being hurt by you. And it's a belief that a girl may not be interested anymore if they know that the guy is interested.
2006-12-07 03:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by davelibby321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're type-casting a gender. Some males do, some females do. (Some of all don't.) Maybe because they're too "shy" of heart.
2006-12-07 03:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by fjpoblam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the guys without any honor. If they had any they would have told you their feelings upfront. And please guys, no crap about being scared to- if you're too afraid to to that, then you're not a man- you're a boy!
2006-12-07 03:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by TheONEJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weakness after you know i like you then what its not fun anymore. If he did tell you this would you still had interest in him
2006-12-07 03:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by raradaone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sound like men those sound like boys
2006-12-07 03:47:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋