Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

My wife and I have been separated for 3 weeks. I was unhappy during the marriage. I left 3 weeks ago. I still have strong feelings for her. I miss her all the time. Other times, I am as mad as hell at her for things that happened while we were married. She wants me to give us another shot. Half of me wants to the other half does not. I know that I left her for a reason and that people do not really change. I don't know if we'll ever have what I want in a marriage. Do I even bother trying with her or let it go?Any thoughts out there?

2006-12-02 05:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it a turn off in any way??? what if someone is not comfortable looking in someone's eyes when conversing???

2006-12-02 05:39:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-12-02 05:38:41 · 1 answers · asked by elendran1 2 in Friends

a lady told me that she do that to her boyfriend when he made her hungry cause she wanna let him know that she can control him without problem and he must give her respect!

2006-12-02 05:38:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just met the cutest and nicest celebrity after the concert. He was such a gentleman and I was really attracted to him. he is my age so there is no problem there. I know that it would probably never work out, but I have never felt this way about a guy before. So is it wrong to like him even tho I don't truly know him and probably never will? By the way this is honestly for my friend I just need to know what everyone thinks about this situation.

2006-12-02 05:38:16 · 11 answers · asked by blondywithabrain 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend thinks that I stole her boyfriend, when she broke up with him, and he asked me out. I don't want to hurt my friend's feelings, what should I do?????

2006-12-02 05:37:23 · 12 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Friends

Isn't love just wonderful, isn't it great to be in love??
What do you think?

2006-12-02 05:37:21 · 20 answers · asked by ~*Angel Of Fallen Stars*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I DONT want to just ask. I need to know if they like me first. Im shy and I dont want to embarress myself by just asking.
How do i tell if a girl likes me?
How do i tell if a girl is single?
How do I ask them out once I know they like me?
Wheres a good place to find single girls besides school?

2006-12-02 05:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has been an alcoholic as long as I can remember and has been making life miserable. Approximately 2 months ago, my dad and I got into a fight and he swore at me, and hit my car and shut off my cell phone service. We hadn't spoken since then as he told me I wasn't welcome in his house.
But today randomly he called me and talked as though nothing was wrong and asked me to come over so he could change the tires on my car.
I don't really want to talk to him, but he his ill (his liver is failing) so I'm not sure if I should go and try and talk to him or just say I'm done taking his crap...etc.

This wouldn't be such a big problem if it didn't happen all of the time. Generally, he gets drunk, gets mad and then expects apologies from me... I just don't want to deal with it anymore, but he IS my dad... So confused. Help, please!

2006-12-02 05:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by StarlightRedemption 3 in Family

I met this gorgeous 40 yo ,I was 17 years younger. I suppose at first it was sort of a novelty and exciting to be with someone older,very attractive I must add.At first it was all about sneaking around,going out all the time and having the best sex ever,but gradually we both fell head over heels in love.I moved in and got on well with her two daughters.The problem was though, that I loved her so much that I was constantly worrying about the future,especially with the age gap. This worrying and neurosis started to eat away at the relationship and eventually we split for a while. Months later we got back together but I decided to not move back in with her as I felt things were great as they were. Things were good,but as I was approaching the big 30, I made a decision to buy a flat and get myself on the property ladder (she has a lovely home of her own) It made things worse.We split,shes found someone her own age,I have seen her recently and we ended up in bed twice.She stil with him tho.

2006-12-02 05:35:52 · 13 answers · asked by BigGman 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 05:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a teacher's assistant, who is involved with a teacher @ my school. This is the first time that I've dated from the work place(not first time for him) and I am already having second thoughts about doing so after only 3 months into it. He wants me to spend all of my free time with him. I am very busy with work during the day and full time student during the evening. I am a year or two his senior, so it is not a case of "older teacher taking advantage of young assistant." The thing is I hope that braking it off, doesn't mess up our working relationship. I was reluctant from the start.

2006-12-02 05:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by aprdrn34 1 in Singles & Dating

What is 3+2

2006-12-02 05:32:44 · 15 answers · asked by heaven_akshay 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i was out with my new boy friend and his ex was there too. so we were all hanging out and just talking. then she starts telling him to stop putting his arm around me, but she was acting all flirty about it. she continued to flirt so i left and told him i was going to find my friends. he was ok with it but for like 45 minutes he stayed with her and kept talking until i had my friend go get him.

is this normal for her to do this? is she jelous?? what do i do?

2006-12-02 05:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by Jizzle 1 in Singles & Dating

my man has been cheating on me on an internet site, he takes it so seriously and has never met the person. everyone is going to seem wonderfull if you don't know them they could be anyone. what should i do if i love him, hes hurt me so much.

2006-12-02 05:30:33 · 46 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Singles & Dating

A firery girl who does gymnastics, plays lax, surf, snowboards, and races cars?? She's not butch but not overly girly. She is sweet but determined. She is 16, 5'1 and like 100lbs. What is so wrong with people like my friend?? Some guys love her but others hate her. What's good and bad about her??

2006-12-02 05:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if someone gets angry, throws things around the house such as an electric heater, your purse, and several other belongings...tells you you're worthless, threatens to kill himself, then tells you that you're going to hell for throwing them out in the street, even though you haven't (basically this person goes psycho for about 3 hours)...then the next day is acting all normal, would you forgive this person, or get them out of your life and just move on? if he didn't physically hurt you but said a lot of hurtful things (and does this on a semi-regular basis), but always promises to change and feels bad about it later, how would you deal with it? What if you were married to this person?

2006-12-02 05:29:23 · 18 answers · asked by Maureen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it turn men off when women have confidence? or too much confidence? I am someone with a lot of confidence and sometimes guys assume that I already have a boyfriend because they say I am too confident. So now I wonder if guys or some guys like women to act weak? or unconfident?

2006-12-02 05:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 05:28:47 · 17 answers · asked by Aswin Raj 1 in Friends

I wonder if the day will come where in general men will prefer men as partners

2006-12-02 05:28:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

out of 202 runners i finsihed 163th is that good or what?
huh guess i proved my friends wrong!

2006-12-02 05:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Friends

last night he didnt come home he was at his uncle house but his phone went dead however his uncle has a phone and he still didnt call me i really have thios feeling that he is ******* another girl everytime i ask him about it he says "no" why would i do that when i have what i want i called his momma she is like my bestfriend and always tells me the truth even if its not what i want hear so she says i dont think so i just think that he is scared cause he never been in love so sometimes he dont know what to do could that be it or is seeing another girl i mean i'm always here for him we have sex all the time and he says i'm the best and that we have a wonderful sex life so what am i doing wrong

2006-12-02 05:27:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and an example for the dreams she told me about ..she saw me at the mall with my friend ..and me and my friend were drinking some drinks .i were wearing the same stuff i was wearing once we were together ...but when i saw her .. i smiled and she was approaching me then the dream ended ..
the point is ..me and my friend were meeting in real life and go out together and spend a nice time ...but my friend is living in a different country now ..so we don't meet any more ..we just communicate online ...

Thanks for reading and waiting for your feed back ..

2006-12-02 05:26:30 · 7 answers · asked by Seeker 1 in Friends

hey can anyone, or even a guy, tell me what exactly guys always whisper about?

okay at my school there s a bunch of guy jocks who are always whispering...sometimes i think i hear girls' names in their conversation

oh yeah, and how can you tell if a guy likes you???

2006-12-02 05:26:26 · 4 answers · asked by C♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 05:26:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like my best guy friend (I think he might like me) and was wondering if I should get him a Christmas gift. If so what should I say. I'm in 8th grade. What do 8th grade guys like. I know he likes basketball. HELP!!

2006-12-02 05:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our relationship of 3.5 years ended almost 3 months ago and I decided to move on with my life and casually date. To my surprise my ex-boyfriend has been actively visiting my advertisment on the same dating service! From a male perspective why would one do such a thing? Female answers are welcomed, but answers from males much are very much appreciated!

2006-12-02 05:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by cocoumi 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going crazy,my mom and dad are having a divorce,my family is gossiping to eachother,i can't trust my mom because of the reason that she lies to me and played my dad,and to top it all off, my girlfriend on November 30th (this thursday) broke up with me while i'm visiting family in florida. She lift me for another guy. (u can help by looking for: I just broke up with my girlfriend last night, shes leaving me for another guy named joe.?) She could have slit my wrist and let me bleed to death and that would have felt better than this.I have a friend who is telling me not to do anything, i feel as though there is nothing left to live for, i want to dissapear, and maybe see what happens when i reapear 15 years from now, who would care? My girlfriend has her own story, i'd appreciate it if everyone who sees this looks for that other question that i asked. i just want my life to go better...

thank you to everyone that answers this question, and my girlfriend one...

2006-12-02 05:24:38 · 5 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

pls answer this question

2006-12-02 05:24:34 · 13 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Singles & Dating

I really love him but it seems that were not really communicating
anymore it's like when he get's around his friends he act's funny.

2006-12-02 05:23:28 · 27 answers · asked by kekepeach94 1 in Singles & Dating