Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

2006-12-02 06:38:24 · 1 answers · asked by Shilpa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

it makes me sad...that he doesn't like me as much as i like him.

because it's usually me who is the one initiating the calls,txts and IM chats.

last night when he was tipsy/drunk he told me:

"kim i really really like you, and i know i told you before that i don't want to be involved with anyone, so i am in a bit of a mess eh?"

well it made me happy that he told me he really likes me...
and every so often he speaks as though he wants me to be his girlfriend...

why can't he make up his bloody mind ¬_¬"

i am okay that he doesn't want to be my boyfriend yet...but i don't know it seems complicated =(

but he has been speaking to me more than ever these past few days...

so maybe his feelings are growing =D

and no it's not serious in THAT region yet...just hugs and kisses...x

2006-12-02 06:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well... i think im kinda in love with my best guy friend. him and i have so much fun together and he can always make me laugh. hes also having a party tonite. i dont really know what to do. should i tell him? im afraid it will screw up our friendship. should i tell him tonite or another time? none of my friends know though because another friend likes him too and i really dont want her to be hurt. what do i do?

2006-12-02 06:37:47 · 7 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Singles & Dating

My 36 yr old daugher is a mother of a 9 yr old daughter. She will not bath regularly she refuses to take care of her personal needs. She is very pretty but she goes around town with her daughter looking like a needy person. I refuse to go with her when she looks like this. We fuss over this all the time. I did not raise her like this.As a child she bathed twice a day, always emmaculately. I know she has a depression problem but not so bad she can't bath. I have been told she does this just to anger me. All the family is disgusted with this behavior. I know this is embarrassing to her daughter. She does not have to work so she has plenty of time to take showers.It really makes me sad. Please tell me where she can meet a nice guy to make her take an interest in her appearance. I try to tell her she will be old before long and her nature beauty will be gone. She thinks I am a prune when I advise her to wear make up, dress up, who knows whom she may meet while she is out. MEN TELL HER!!

2006-12-02 06:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-02 06:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by chicken farmer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 06:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by inkysunsets 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My younger brother (age 16) brought home some dark Latino/Asian girl and told me that they were dating. My family is German-American and my family & I don't want latino/indian/black/asian in our family tree. I dont want her seeing my brother. He has blond hair and blue eyes - Thousands of years of evolution and he'd throw it away in a generation.

It's a complete embarassment to my family and me.

And I'm no redneck racist - I'm a Standford Psych undergrad (agnostic).

I will eventually have to break them up.

How can I break them up faster? Should I just talk to that Latino girl in private and tell her to stop seeing my brother? Or should I just tell my brother why dating her is a bad choice? I cant have people of different ethnicities in my family. It's too disgusting and awkward.

She should be sticking with Latino or Asian boys and my brother should be sticking with girls his own ethnicity (white central european).


Your thoughts?

What Should and Could I do?

2006-12-02 06:33:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How after two and a half years of living together can a woman just walk away... she says she does not think it is over.. but she needs time... what a load.... but I love her and dont want it to be over... but how can she just walk away

2006-12-02 06:33:35 · 15 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im 15 yrs old and i talk to this guy david all the time on the computer and on the phone he lives down the street from where i am moving to in a few months. he is 14 were in the same grade so ill be going to his school. and we want to have sex with each other but i feel afriad that it will hurt because im small im 5 ft 1 and 91 lbs hes like bigger. so im afraid of him in a way but when he touches me and stuff i feel comforted but how do you think i can get over the fear of losing my virginity to him? will it hurt? id really apprechiate answers please and thank you

2006-12-02 06:31:38 · 25 answers · asked by samantha_lawson23 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 06:29:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello everyone a few weeks ago I asked your opinion about what to change on my web page, anyway I followed your advice and I did some changed on it!!!! Thanks soooo much now it look much better!!! But Should I still add more color to it should I add more designs??

http://www.wakeup.to/glam

(please note Im NOT trying to advertise I'm just looking for your true opinion of what you think)

2006-12-02 06:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by BB Glamour G 1 in Friends

omg tonight im going to a guys party who im in love with and i think im gonna tell him tonight. what should i wear! and how should i do my make up!?!?! please help !

2006-12-02 06:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of either a new hoover, an iron, a big pot or a couple of new tyres for the car. Would these be acceptable gifts ?

2006-12-02 06:27:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best guy friend asked me out and I said yes. He's my first boyfriend. How do I tell my parents that I'm dating? I am like almost posetive that they would let me, but how should I tell them? I'm in 8th grade and they knew he was my friend and I think they knew I liked him. help!

2006-12-02 06:26:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they r very mean.they 4get things so fast and mov
e on

2006-12-02 06:26:33 · 32 answers · asked by seema zidane 1 in Singles & Dating

if people say they are ur friend why do they turn on u later?

2006-12-02 06:26:00 · 5 answers · asked by hinata_10056 1 in Friends

2006-12-02 06:25:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're friends and he makes me laugh and I make him laugh. We go to school together. In the hallways we say hi to eachother and sometimes he gives me hugs.

2006-12-02 06:25:22 · 13 answers · asked by Risky_Bizness 3 in Singles & Dating

can you please provide me with websites abt the causes of divorce in cities

2006-12-02 06:24:45 · 6 answers · asked by 11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well my fiance has been bringing up the idea of having baby alot lately and im not sure if hes kidding or if he really wants one....i dont want to look silly if i say yes and hes joking....do guys bring up the baby thing as a joke or only when they are really seriouse about it?? oh and wheni ask if hes joking he replys " what if im not" so any help would be great

2006-12-02 06:24:15 · 21 answers · asked by mrs middleton 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am seriously bored!

Was supposed to be working, but job cancelled. All my friends are at a party miles away, and my car is stuffed. Nothing on TV.

Any ideas?

2006-12-02 06:23:37 · 25 answers · asked by MrsTrellis 2 in Friends

This guy is my really good friend, and he is the nicest, sweetest, cutest guy I've ever met, but he is moving really far away in may!!! Do I just forget about him and move on, or keep in touch?

2006-12-02 06:22:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a sophomore in college and I feel like I'm being pressured by my friends to be up to their level as far as dating and having sex. Honestly, I didnt make out with a guy until just about a year ago and it was a spur of the moment type thing. Just recently, a guy friend of mine straight out called me a prude. I have always been conservative and shy. That is how I am. Most people could not believe that I didnt kiss a guy until my first year of college. I think I have always had an issue with confidence because I always think that a guy could do better and shouldnt be with me. Guys have told me that I am beautiful but I think most of the time that they dont mean it. I would much rather study and do well in college then go out find a guy and have sex all the time as my friends do. I've never been in a real relationship and I feel that its too late. I feel like guys will judge me as soon as they find out my past history as far as being prude. I dont know what to do and I feel so lonely.

2006-12-02 06:21:38 · 6 answers · asked by that one girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30 my boyfriend is 52, 1 yr older than my mom. We are in love and talking about marriage...my mom is single and can't find anyone. She doesn't know my boyfriend although she has meet him and has spent brief moments here and there with him, but she hates him. (She said so.) At my age it doesn't matter but I was just wondering do you guys think she hates him because she's jealous?

2006-12-02 06:21:29 · 16 answers · asked by whoamitojudge 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He broke up with me, now flirts with my best friend, and stares at me to see if I'm paying attention to him. We used to be best friends before we started dating and now he is being a total jerk for no reason. I also try to be nice but he doesn't care. I told him that we werent friends and only said it was my decision and wasn't going to change my mind about it. What could that mean really? Does that mean he's trying to hide the feelings that he still has for me?

2006-12-02 06:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i have a girlfriend, and i love her very much. one of my closest friends wants to hang out sometime, like dinner/movie or both, but just the two of us, and as friends. Do you think my girlfriend will be jealous, and jump to conclusions?

2006-12-02 06:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by paga2009 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 06:19:23 · 2 answers · asked by Robin M 3 in Friends

2006-12-02 06:19:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called both "terry" and "shayna" and "terry's" phone was off or dead or something, but "shayna" ignored my call, or her phone was dead to.


Now, I'm getting worried.
they haven't texted or anything.


What should I do to keep my mind off of it?
Anyone know any good xanga quote sites?

2006-12-02 06:18:13 · 3 answers · asked by UH OH iiT`S J* 2 in Friends

2006-12-02 06:17:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating