ok im 15 yrs old and i talk to this guy david all the time on the computer and on the phone he lives down the street from where i am moving to in a few months. he is 14 were in the same grade so ill be going to his school. and we want to have sex with each other but i feel afriad that it will hurt because im small im 5 ft 1 and 91 lbs hes like bigger. so im afraid of him in a way but when he touches me and stuff i feel comforted but how do you think i can get over the fear of losing my virginity to him? will it hurt? id really apprechiate answers please and thank you
2006-12-02 06:31:38 · 25 answers · asked by samantha_lawson23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this sounds creepy. Have you met this alleged 14 year old? Are you sure it's not a 36 year old pedophile?
2006-12-02 06:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will hurt. It will hurt because you will have given up the greatest gift you can ever give a man--your virginity to some guy down the street. Of course it feels good when he touchs you, it always does, that is what makes people want to go further and end up losing there virginity. But you will meet a man that you absolutely love beyond a shadow of a doubt and you will want to give him that gift and it will mean the world to him but you will have given it to someone else and you will regret it. Remember that with a woman her heart is involved, once you give yourself to him, you will feel emotionally attached to him. Is he the type that will hold that gift as valuable or will he call---NEXT! Could you handle that? Think before you jump!
2006-12-02 14:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. Your young and if your not sure about something like this don't do it just yet. What if you do and you get pregnant? Even with condoms ppl get preg. and my mom got pregnant w/me on the pill and w/a condom. Gurl just hang in for a little while and if your worried about the diff sizes between you to you'll grow a bit more and It hurts the first time. The next day your sore and you feel like someone beat you up. Don't go thru it until u BOTH know that if you did get preg what would you do. What whould your parents do etc. Good Luck
2006-12-02 14:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by capechic13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do want to have sex to have sex?? You're a little young. Why don't you give it some time. That may be all to the relationship if there is one. Guys like to be the first to take a girl's virginity away from her and then brag about it.
2006-12-02 14:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does usually hurt the first time. I was 15, 5'3 and 85 pounds...
If u r worried cuz of the pain, then I can assure u it's worth it....but I do regret having sex when I was 15, it messed me up for a while. So wait if u can.
but if u r worried cuz u'r not sure yet, then wait till u r.
MAKE SURE he'll stop if u ask him to though!!
2006-12-02 14:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by javaluv2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Womannnnn!!!!! hmmmmmm.... ok i lost my virginity at 13 and i majorly regret it, it does hurt the first time, but sex doesnt feel as special anymore after that if your not planning to stick with this guy and it's just sex?! Make sure hes not trying to get with you just for that either! Would also something that would go round school... think about it?
2006-12-02 14:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by brownsugar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, you should not have sex with him now. If he loves you, then he can wait until you guys are adults and married. And if you've seen the show Reba, well 2 teens had sex in it while they were in high school, and now they have a baby and are in collage, it really messed up their lives. so wait until u are married. and do you really want to have a baby at such a young age? you should wait.
2006-12-02 14:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~ChInChILaLvR~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna hurt weather or not you're married. No one can tell you if you're ready or not. If you think you are then go for it. If he's fourteen too than he proboblay doesn't have stds just use a condom. The more times you do it the less it will hurt!
2006-12-02 14:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your other question says that you are 14 and have a 3 month old son. I think you need to grow up...Virgin? or has a 3 month old son?
2006-12-02 15:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will hurt probably but not necessarily.if you do it with someone you really love it won't be that awful and it will pass but you musn't fell afraid of the person you love or like because than there isn't any love betwen you then I don't know what it is.But if you are ready I think you can go for it and do it as soon as posible.
2006-12-02 14:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Roxanitza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋